Solid SMV. Primarily raised by a single mom. Noticed I have an inferiority complex.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-06-19T11:34:31+00:00

You're placing everything on female approval and validation.

It's like you're afraid of your smv dropping...because then you may lose female attraction/validation.

It's telling that your confidence comes from your sense of SMV. SMV = attractive to other people. Kill that.

You really need to stop giving a shit. Girls fucking you around trying to make you jealous? Game other women.

True confidence and self acceptance comes from within...not from some illusionary SMV in the eyes of others.

nester79 · 2019-06-19T06:58:45+00:00

The insecurity lies in that your high SMV could change at any moment. Nothing you can do about it really - life is unpredictable. Just learn to accept reality and be okay with it.

I'm a surgeon. My SMV is quite high and most likely will stay that way (society generally looks favorably on my profession and money is pretty good). But there's unknown with me too. Just live the best life you can. Find confidence in something that's long lasting.

farshadnm · 2019-06-19T11:49:30+00:00

They will make me jealous by making me think they’re fucking other girls

that's hot man. get in on the action

redhawkes · 2019-06-19T07:13:45+00:00

Because your value depends on a things outside your control. Frame is internal thing, a mindset. It's your ego that fucks you up.

You can try fin tho, and see how it goes.

party_dragon · 2019-06-19T09:19:55+00:00

Looks like you’ve got built-in drama. Chick crack!

M_Ronin · 2019-06-19T11:08:07+00:00

Because you think you need a reason to love yourself and be proud of yourself. It has been my experience that, the Apex of inner game is to not think of your SMV at all.

You want to understand how this shit works? Watch Jordan Peterson's lectures on

1-banishment from heaven, aka why women make men self conscious.

2- where he talks about the eye of Horus, The importance of vision.

You want to reach the Nirvana of game? You gotta find a way to stop being self conscious.

PincheeWhey · 2019-06-19T08:43:15+00:00

Do you lift? Fellow manlet asking.

AceMav21 · 2019-06-19T06:04:38+00:00

Finasteride

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-06-19T07:31:41+00:00

Napoleon Complex

Title	Solid SMV. Primarily raised by a single mom. Noticed I have an inferiority complex.
Author	Iticip
Upvotes	38
Comments	17
Date	June 19, 2019 3:22 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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