I've been hooking up with this girl for the past 5 months. We got pretty close. She has said she doesn't like to get emotionally attached early on and has pulled back a lot recently. Communication and the time she makes for me has gotten less and less over the past month. I called her at night 2 weeks ago when I was near her office, no answer, no messages since then until two nights ago. She sent a Hey text at 1030 and called me 10 min after sending it, but I didnt get the notification for the call. I didnt see it until 11, texted back whats goin on, but would've called if I knew she did.

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She probably fell asleep, but haven't gotten any reply since. I feel like I'm going to have to be the next one to initiate or she won't be saying anything again. Don't expect another late night hey after the last one didn't work. I know I'm getting invested, but I still play it cool and don't act needy. I lift, I sleep with other girls, but I like this one.

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I'm seeing another girl tonight, so can't swing a meeting this evening. I'm taking a road trip this weekend and was gonna ask her if she wanted to join. Don't know if thats the right move, but I'm sick of playing the wait and see game.