How to take a L?

visualtech48 · 2019-06-26T10:15:47+00:00

By realising that she is in no way special, and if you had multiple girls you wouldn't think about her as such

PM_ME_CHILL_MUSIC · 2019-06-26T11:03:16+00:00

Last night took an L, but tonight I bounce back

You bounce back bro

teveza11 · 2019-06-26T12:57:19+00:00

Oneitis is a terrible disease.

The worst of it, is that you pass up on many opportunities and attempts at other girls because you are thinking of your one-itis.

I had my worst case of one-itis in high school. But once she started rejecting me, I realized that I wasn't going to ever get her so I started trying for other girls.

I cold approached a girl, got her number, we ended up hooking up and it was such a great night that I completely forgot about my one-itis.

I remember leaving her house and thinking "its crazy, I don't give a single fuck about X girl anymore."

The funny thing is, I look at my one-itis now and wonder what the fuck was wrong with me. She isn't even that hot, I have had much better a lot of times now. I'd be embarrassed if my current girl ever found out WHO my one-itis was as she is way hotter. One-itis is some bad shit.

throwaway19991312 · 2019-06-26T10:15:12+00:00

Find a new girl

machimus · 2019-06-26T12:07:28+00:00

You’re missing the point, you should never be so hung up with oneitis that never fucking one particular girl is a problem.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-06-27T01:04:15+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Escalation_of_commitment

Title	How to take a L?
Author	frmisunderstood
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	June 26, 2019 8:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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