Single RPW, which do you prefer: sex toys, casual sex, or both?

HB3234 · 2019-06-30T19:32:55+00:00

I'm not single, but everyone here will strongly discourage you from going down the casual sex route.

Beyond that, whatever you do in the bedroom is your business and you just need to vet for a partner that shares the same attitudes and preferences about sex. Some men will be intrigued by toys. Some won't. If you like them, part of your vetting is finding a man that does too.

CollaringAccount · 2019-07-01T02:14:25+00:00

I could never recommend dating a man with hangups about sex toys. Not worth it. No point in dating such a man when you can always and easily find an equally amazing man who has no problems with your solo sexual expression between you and yourself. It's just not worth giving that up if you enjoy it. Same with casual sex, frankly, but that's unpopular opinion city in these parts so feel free to disregard. Though you won't struggle at all to find someone who has similar sexual values depending on where you live if you do choose to engage and the studies I've seen passed around reddit about it affecting pair bonding are not strong.

Don't do it (sex toys or casual sex) if it isn't you or because of social pressure, but don't be dissuaded with the lie that quality men won't be interested in you. You have options and can find compatible partners. And you can be a hopping, healthy, feminine, traditional wife with a great husband while having had casual sex in the past. I've not yet come across credible evidence that it's inherently unhealthy to individual or relationship, regardless of gender, if done healthy both physically and emotionally

peculiarmiss · 2019-07-01T00:01:50+00:00

Not single, but when I was my preferred option was actually neither! I’ve never been a “casual sex” kind of person, even before swallowing the red pill, but it’s really a terrible idea for females.

Sex toys can be fun, and I do have some, but mostly they are used for couple time. I’m usually to lazy/impatient to grab one if it’s just me taking care of myself.

carry2388 · 2019-07-01T02:38:18+00:00

Celibacy, finger.

Title	Single RPW, which do you prefer: sex toys, casual sex, or both?
Author	sofis91
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Date	June 30, 2019 7:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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