Afternoon gents, gonna keep it short and sweet for y'all.

I'm the CyberSec field and have always been your typical "computer geek". Coincidentally, my thinking is very binary when it comes to my decision making. I live by 1s and 0s. I know that more often than not men use logic to make decisions, while women use their "feels" to make a decision.

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I was curious if you guys look for a "hell yes" or a "hell no" from a woman in regards to her interest in you. I'm not a god by any means, but I know my worth and it's becoming draining for me to deal with women being wishy-washy or not giving me a definite indicator of whether they're interested in me or not. It's been nothing but luke-warm feelers from women the past few months and as much as I hate to admit it, it's taking a toll on my ego. So much in fact that I'm leaning towards entering monk mode again to focus solely on lifting and my career (also wanna save money for a Jeep next year).

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I have goals set that I want to accomplish and none of them involve women, so it's unfortunate that I end up in these patterns of women not responding quick enough to my texts, if at all. They'll send out shit/comfort texts saying "I miss you" or "I like you", but it's hard for me to believe when they'll go days to a week without replying to a simple question or a date invitation, like what the fuck? Then they'll want to see me at the more inopportune times when I'm busy at work or at the gym. Women have been nothing but distractions for me, and it's ridiculous that they manage to distract me from my mission without showing any signs of definite interest.

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Let me stop since this is already turning into an incoherent rant. Thanks for reading gents, you all have helped me more than you will ever know.