Fellow redpillers,

Today I lost frame. The girl is gone for good I assume and I feel completely silly now!

Long story short: An up and down relationship with a rather crazy but very attractive girl climaxed in a „get her back talk“ situation today. My plan was to get her in a safe environment as my or her place and not to have a talk but an nice evening with sex instead.

But I f*cked up: She always insisted to talk in the afternoon in nonsensical places making my scenario unlikely. Today after some texting and voice messaging I lost frame, moved to the location she suggested, got needy and tried to force things. Of course the result was cringeworthy!

Now, 10 hours later the perfect answer text to her voice mailing comes to my mind! Please learn from my mistakes! Dont rush things, just write:

„Hi babe! I can‘t come over to you right now to talk about things. Also the afternoons you mentioned are not a possibility! But invite me in the evening to your place, so we can sleep on it - together!“

Always remember: Never ever lose frame! Take your time, be cool, be fun!