Last night:
- She consistently tried provoking an argument - I constantly reframed which pissed her off even more
- She kept going on and on so I just said 'Here we go again' and she got even more angry that I wouldn't directly answer her
- I said I'd leave and start seeing other women if she continues on
- She started crying saying I think she's disposable (she knows I have options)
- She locked herself in the bathroom crying for about 20 minutes
- I told her to stop being dramatic and to come out to talk - she eventually emerged
- Told her I don't want to argue, and that I'll state my view, she can state hers, but I'm not arguing with her - we both did
- She got into the bed and lied down - I got back into the bed and lied on the other side
- She cuddled up next to me in bed so rather than continue it on, put my arm around her and went to sleep
Today:
- Woke up this morning and we were talking for a bit
- Ended up listening to some music, joking around, good vibe etc.
- I didn't bring up the argument at all with her - didn't want to invoke bad feelings - its done now
- Started some foreplay in bed and it ended up in us having sex
- On the bus I ignored her for 40 minutes, and she grabs my hand
- She invited me over to her place next Thursday for the night
Is the situation okay from here? My plan for Thursday is to basically act like the argument didn't happen and go from there. I'm also planning on withdrawing as much attention as possible.
PS. We're not living together at the moment because of other family related circumstances but we see each other often.
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