And I know, I know. Lift, game new women, blah blah. Checked off the list. I just benched 225 for the first time again after breaking my ribs a few months ago. Here we go.

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This newish LDR girl broke it off with me about 3 days ago. The breakup message to me ended with "you know I don't want to waste your time, you need someone who can be there for you and I haven't been. I wish you the best." I replied in not so few words, "Bummer, I liked you, maybe see you again." It's fine, I'm continuing my own business and moving on without her. I WOULD bring her back into a relationship if the conditions were correct, which is why I need your advice on finessing this situation.

This morning at 2AM, she sent me a couple of shitty memes. I haven't replied so far. I'm taking these as a "poke", trying to prod me into entering her frame or validating that I would instantly take her back or some bullshit. How would you all proceed?

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Lastly if you're wondering why I have or am considering an LDR in the first place, normally I would agree with you. I have my own reasons why I'd see her again though. inb4 lmk if chad drinks pinapple juice reee

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Thanks Men.