My question is pretty much the title. I have experienced that guys usually get attached to one of the plate even if they are spinning 3-4 or maybe 5 at a time. She becomes the main chick. Every other girl is expendable when push comes to shove except her. It can't be called oneitis because he is obviously seeing other girls behind her back. But seeing other girls feels forced eventually while all he wants is to hang out with that one plate. Now I usually observe that the guy dates other girls just in case the main chick fucks him over. How do you escape this mentality? I have seen my friends fall for it. And I have myself been a victim of it. And I am not saying that the one plate he's attached to is somehow playing hard to get etc. That's usually not true. She's just like others and sometimes her personality and looks are not even at par with other plates.