All of the women I get involved with always end up acting really crazy and a lot of insecurity problems surface, due to this things never work out as I don't have the time to deal with petty things, more important things to focus on in life. Then after things end no matter who ends it me or them, they all seem to have some sort of weird emotional breakdown for several months following it, even if they quickly move on to another man, the way they act when they see me tells me they are still emotionally effected by it and every time they try to crawl back to me, even sometimes reappearing several months later after not seeing them, I have been stalked on a couple of occasions too.

I don't know another person that has crazy things like this happen with woman as this is not just a one off, literally every woman I have been involved with, so in my friends group they all joke about how crazy the next girl I get involved with will turn out to be. I don't understand why this happens so often though, a few of my friends say it's because of who I am, it somewhat scares them and makes them insecure, I wanna hear your guy's take on this, if it could be a valid reason and what I can do about it. I'll give some background to myself.

Early 20's with above average looks, I play lead guitar in a band and also run a business that shoots music videos. I'm a pretty well known guy around where I live and a lot of people hold me in high regard and have a lot of respect for me, I dress very well and in a unique way, wherever I go I get a lot of people randomly complimenting me and it's not unusual for a lot of people to stare in awe. A lot of people say i'm a bit of an 'icon' so to speak. More often than not I do just randomly get woman hitting on me, but I just shake it off and ignore it most of the time and it's not uncommon for people I've never spoken to before to come up to me and tell me they recognize me from out and about and all of their friends love me and talk about me when they see me because of how I am/who I am etc. Due to this a few of my friends have said they think it scares some woman as when they're with anybody else they get all the attention because of being good looking etc, but when next to me they are completely overshadowed and don't get all of the 'stares' and 'attention' they are used to getting. As my friends say, people just seem to naturally gravitate towards me. I only associate myself with women that minimum hb7+, so it is nothing to do with them not being good looking etc. Also not writing this to show off in any sort of way, i'm a very humble person, but i'm just being honest about how it is.

To me it feels like woman have no problem at all just sleeping with me, but when it comes to dating, then they get real insecure real quick and all of the craziness happens. Any insight would be good, thanks.