I (21) softnexted her because she withheld sex, and i told her not to, when she brought that up and said sex is important but not that important I said I respect how she feels.

On the 4th day of no contact:

I wake up this morning to my ltr (18yo) ringing the bell, my family lets her in and she wants me to explain why i didn't answer her calls, or visualized her messages, (we usually contacted every day) , I said I was busy, and she didn't have to worry about anything, that I still want to be with her, she said ''Words are not enough'', that she came here to end it and I said if that is your decision I respect it. And walked her to the door.

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I had taken all this into account, and now I have mixed feelings, I wish I still had her, maybe I could have done things differently, maybe soft next her 1-2 days instead of 4, while slowly implementing more dread, and cultivating more abundance. Anyway I'm kind of relieved when I think how i framed the relationship in the beginning, by waiting for her to be comfortable, when I was half blue pill.

Have a good day