Hi guys i posted on relationship advice but wanted to see some responses here.

So my ex has a new boyfreind and i'm pretty shattered about it TBH. I guess there's always a silver lining in everything. So i'm trying to reflect and think about what i id wrong etc.

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I think the biggest thing or number 1 problem was that over time the relationship starting feeling like more like a friendship. Like we were buddies instead of boyfreind and girlfriend. But i don't know how it got to this. Maybe i texted her too much or just contacted her too much? The problem was i genuinely liked talking to her. So it was hard for me to just not talk to her or play games and not talk to her all day etc. Maybe i'm just overthinking the entire situation. Another thing was that I always held back with her. As in, i wasn't sure if i really liked her deep down so didn't take her out a lot or do things with her etc so i guess this would of been the biggest thing.

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But year in the future, how can i make a women feel like a women and feel feminine in the relationship?

Some things i realised i did wrong:

  • May have talked to her a bit too much (over text etc)
  • Didn't lead or take her out
  • Was a bit emotional around her (i was unemployed at the time so wasn't myself)
  • A bit too girly/made too many jokes around her?

i don't know