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interesting
/r/askTRP20/05/20 08:29 AM
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good story bro glad it worked out
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:10 AM
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Man i think you are right i think my self esteem is so low i just bang 4/10s over tinder and cry i need to fucking aim for the top.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:03 PM
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thats the problem
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:16 PM
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Yes but i can't move on. to what? i can't get better girls. ?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:16 PM
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what do i do
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:16 PM
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what lol
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:15 PM
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what do you mean
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:15 PM
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she is turning 26 but she is dark skin and works out so i t hink she will age well :(
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:14 PM
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yea it's simple as that, but the problem is i fear i won't get better, i mean look i still exercise, i read, and i'm getting a new job and yea i'm doing the improving and i can attract girls no problem but girls better than her? not yet, not even close.. yet :( so i guess my mind still travels back to her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:10 AM
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I understand this 100% but what if you don't have the power, or SMV to get better women? For now at least. It may be in 5 years 10 years etc until i'm rich (LOL) but even so it's brutal in the meantime. Being with her and now sleeping with legit 4/10s from tinder i feel awful.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:35 AM
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thinking of things like this doesn't help me for some reason.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:34 AM
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yea i don't know if its a good or bad thing i go out and bang girls and just have absolutely 0 fucks coz they aren't as good
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:46 AM
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what does that mean
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:45 AM
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thanks man
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:45 AM
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Man, random sex is extremely overrated. The best sex i ever had was when i was in a relationship because i genuinely cared for the girl. Trust me you're not missing out on much. I'm just so used to sex because i'm hyper sexualised. Trust me.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:29 AM
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reported man
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:54 AM
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yea bad i've gotten so used to it i feel like im dying with out it lol.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:06 AM
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The prblem is i already do all this, i try very hard in my diet, gym, hair, clothes etc and yet still i wasn't good enough for this girl and still she cheated on me for someone better. it really hurts
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:23 AM
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thanks bro
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:05 AM
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i can't be better than a 6 ft 2 , good looking mascular australian guy i don't have the genetics.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:05 AM
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just makes me so angry and sad man. Like knowing how i acted etc. GIrls like her don't come aound so often. i get so sad and angry thining about it man.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:05 AM
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Yea i guess you're right
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:04 AM
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yea i get this, i have a job, i workout, i go out and stuff but it was just a good addition to my life that i miss.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:02 AM
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yea i know that but im still sad about it.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:02 AM
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its pointless man i cnat get a girl ebtter
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:27 PM
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thanks man i got no friends
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:39 AM
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i miss her so much
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:05 AM
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what if u cant? serious
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:51 AM
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What do you mean? suppose you got to drive a beautiful ferrari for a while and it was great and you loved it and since then you try and find other ferraris but all yu get are crappy fucking cars how would u feel?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:37 AM
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This is what i believe as well. I don't think karma is true. Good thins happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Karma doesn't exist but in saying that, people who act like this have poor values and usually will hang out with similar people with other poor values so it's bound to come back to bite them. You always reap what you sow as well. Always.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:30 AM
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i know that but i wanted a longer turn :(
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:29 AM
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but what if u stop for ages and don't feel the need to do it but then do it and get sad?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:53 AM
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can u add me on fb or giv me a call sick of u stalking me u fucking pussy ass bitch
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:56 AM
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thanks
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:08 AM
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i feel bad i can't remember her?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:05 AM
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negged
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:05 AM
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ok
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:05 AM
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yea but i don't feel anything or remmber her?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:58 AM
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reported
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:58 AM
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do u ever forget about her fully?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:58 AM
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how come my memories of her have faded? i feel bad
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:46 AM
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i just want to fuck a nice women?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:44 AM
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what
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:43 AM
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nah i'm kinda over my ex, we broke up a year ago i just really miss the good sex though
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:42 PM
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i miss good sex that's all lol
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:41 PM
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agree srs
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:48 AM
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what do you do for work
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:46 AM
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thanks bro
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:22 AM
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Yep man, finally someone understands man. Thats exactly how i feel. You're lucky you have someone now, i think this is why it's hard for me, as i don't have anyone and all my plates dropped off right now dude to the corona.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:20 AM
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true, i'm a lonely guy i met her online, so now i been trying to find another gir llike her online but none compare. she could squat heavy she was so strong
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:50 AM
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i know abundance is everything, but suppose you got lucky and bagged a model for a while. Then what? feels crap banging 5/10s compared to her..
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:23 AM
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yea true man, i think it's because i haven't really got a girl on her level since . i know the abudance mentality and all but this girl was hot as hell
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:34 AM
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what?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:48 AM
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but hwat if she was the best?>
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:48 AM
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but what if you're trying to re attract an ex?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:57 AM
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even with a girl you've had a relationship with? what would you say if you had an ex who you wanted to reconcile with how can u win her respect back?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:47 AM
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but how can u "make" a girl enthusiastic, fun in bed etc. It's like sports no? - some football players are just aggessive beasts, others are more technical and skilled, softer etc.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:21 PM
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oh okay thanks bro, i'm still inexerpeined, i'll try this next time.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:09 PM
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yea but what if i like when the girl is enthuastic, and will be spontaneous, take the lead/have fun, i can't really get a girl to do that
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:55 PM
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ah i see
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:55 PM
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lol truee
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:49 AM
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true i just miss some close female intimate relationship that's all. you can call me beta but i just misit sometimes. been a long time
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:23 AM
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lols
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:13 AM
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i knw that feel
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:12 AM
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yes that too and then they become "man haters" and post memes about how they can't find a nice man lol
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:20 AM
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doesn't matter they jsut get bored and will post their ass on isnta even in a relationship
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:19 AM
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WTF
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:23 PM
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yes they are empty inside.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:23 PM
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lols
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:38 AM
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what do you mean?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:02 AM
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negged.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:21 AM
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how to get rid o it?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:21 AM
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lols
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:10 AM
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i still lost a good wmen though?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:31 AM
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hmm true, as i grow in confidence, i don't need her love or affection so much true?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:27 AM
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But i want a girl similar to my ex? i think i stuffed up, and let a good girl go..
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:03 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:03 AM
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yea good point man. I had a decent girlfriend but fucked it up. Fuck sakes.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:25 AM
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Kylegfall, thanks brother
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:24 AM
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Thanks man, yea just pretty much put her on a pedestal. This girl was incredibly sexy and real freak in bed. She was also super charming and loving, fun to be around and she quickly became highly addictive. That was my first mistake The second mistake was i lost my job and my confidence and self esteem diminished. I acted weak around her and always let her lead the relationship and just sat back. I was often depressed and didn't bother taking her out. I acted very feminine, needy, clingy and sof…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:23 AM
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I think that's the problem with me, i fell head over heals for a women and absolutely loved her. Unfortunately, i acted very weak around her and the relationship didn't last long (7 months), and she pretty much started sleepin aroud the moment we brokeup/got back together (i blame myself for this). it was very messy and left me heart broken. Since then i've come to this sub and learnt from my mistakes and TBH, i am scared to have another relationship (because i don't want to experience what happ…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:10 AM
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true i suppose, i guess i just remember all the good things. and not the bad.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:43 PM
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Well yea that's the best thing that has happened to me i guess, i can date, and have sex with other girls and feel nothing and not care at all if they don't like me.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 03:46 AM
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wow that's crazy
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:55 AM
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I do but the girl i had this relationship with was fit, attractive and super fun. Every girl i've dated sine just doesn't seem to live up to her standard. The thing is - this isn't really "oneitis" this is the truth - because the simply haven't.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:55 AM
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Hope so man, i just haven't really found another girl, despite the self improvement and abundance.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:54 AM
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Thanks brother. Finally a different response. ​ I know that people are saying the right thing on here that i'm putting her on a pedestal, and all that and women are just for "sex" and kids etc etc. ​ But I felt very strongly for this girl. It wasn't a long relationship but she was more than just a hole. She was a friend, a best friend. After sex i didn't want to leave. I wanted to stay, hang out with her. I genuinely enjoyed talking to her, being with her and speaking to her on the phone. I know…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:54 AM
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Okay thanks man.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:48 AM
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Yes that's exactly why I post here because i never want to go through that devastation again. I guess i'm glad this happened to me now (at 25) and not with a future wife in my 30's . It stung so bad it caused physical pain. I keep trying to do the "Self improvement" and "abundance mentality" but i just can't seem to find or get with women i actually want to be with?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:48 AM
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This is good and all, but i haven't really found a girl that i've had that level of attraction for since her..
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:46 AM
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Yea but it's just not the same as her, i've dated other girl and it's just not the same bro :(
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:33 AM
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can't man no girl is better. that ive met
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:32 AM
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that feel
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 02:02 PM
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you can't be serious
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 02:02 PM
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yep made me realise how immature and silly she is
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 10:30 AM
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true, the thing is as each day passes i care less and less about her, she isn't that attractive (6/10- 7 MAX), also is pretty immature/slutty. Lot's of other better women out there. I might reach out to her in a few weeks, call her up see if she wants to hang out, only because honeslty i don't care if she rejects me or not. Yes i will be lowering my value reacing out first but it's a win/win situation she says yes = get to fuck she says no = who gives a chit will never see her again in my life
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:17 AM
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dam what can i do now? i guess no contact for a while but what if she doesn't reach out again?
/r/askTRP03/08/19 12:34 AM
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didn't call back i texted her because i legit didn't know wtf it was
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:30 AM
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thanks did i stuff it up that bad? it's not like i called back straight away or message her saying hey ho'ws it going o anything
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:25 AM
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wish i had some alpha dudes like you in my life around me daily. It's nice saying this stuff over th einternet but i've given up on life. I guess that's another reason why i want her back - gave me a s ene of achievement. having sex with her, taking her out etc. I felt worthy.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:56 AM
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should i end it? i think about it a lot TBH.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:09 AM
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can't do that dude i haven't met another girl like her everyday i think back to the memories we had you need to understand that the last 5 years of my life have been EXTREMELY Lonely pretty much me myself and I . The only thing that stands out is this girl. I have such a strong attachment to her. Why would i want to move on? It's not like i have anything to move on to... just my boring office job, gym, stay home on weekends (because i have no mates) I'm also getting uglier (hair receding etc) so…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:46 AM
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there' nothing to move on to brother my misterable shit kunt boring life? i might as well kill myself
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:36 AM
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I think i will i might just like her picture or message her see what happens she says no what do i have to lose?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:35 AM
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Thank you! Can't i give it a crack if she says no then i can finally absolutely cut contact, delete etc? The bond and the link is still there in my mind that's the problem
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:34 AM
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edit ; i have no worth, i'm 5'6 pale and receding it's not like i can just get girls easily.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:05 AM
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no troll
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:02 AM
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TBH i just want her back as a fuck buddy/friend what can i do?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:01 AM
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i want to give it one last crack though..
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:01 AM
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I would love to just see her one last time and have sex how should i go about this? should i message her?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:00 AM
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what to do?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:00 AM
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Can;t i at least give it a shot?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:00 AM
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there's no way she will see my instagram page unless i like her picture or something we don't have mutual friends, we met online. hmmmm. I know you're right. I just want to fuck her and explain why i acted so beta and pathetic when we broke up. Just not sure how to go about this..
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:20 AM
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Well that's my plan bro. I've made a new instagram page with some sick fitness pictures. But she won't know it exists. I'm thinking about maybe liking her pictures and if she sasy anthing i'll just say i was drunk or something? waht do i do? help me bro
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:15 AM
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Thanks bro serious
/r/askTRP14/07/19 12:03 PM
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Yea i have a bad case of oneitis but people dont understand ​ I have about 2 friends I have no cousins or close siblings I have deep insecurities about my appearance (Short receding hair etc) I work a boring job I have no goals or purpose Ive never had a relationship with a girl before, nor built such a long lasting connection with a girl She was some what attractive ​ Yes i understand abundance mentality and all that stuffand i even slept with another girl to help me get over her but it's not t…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 10:37 AM
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checked her instgram,
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:31 AM
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Yes i work in accounting. I don't love it but it's better than not working and being at home. I just don't know myself anymore. i guess i'm an outdoors person but i can't see myself brick laying in the sun all day. I enjoy going to the gym, i've always enjoyed pushing myself physically, improving myself physically i guess that's some kind of passion i thought about personal training but i don't know. i've learnt a lot about nutrtion, fitness, improving aesthetics, i always thought i could use th…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:13 PM
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This is the problem i don't know anymore. For the last 3 years of my life I obsessed about trying to become better looking and get a girlfriend. I eventually did. She became my self esteem and self worth (terrible mistake) Now she is gone and realised i wasted so much time trying so hard to get a girlfriend. Now i'm 25 and having a real identity crisis. Sorry to just spill this on you but i feel absolutely lost. I've spent so much time trying to get girls/obsessing about girls that i don't even …
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:00 PM
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Yea thanks bro, i think i've spent sooo much time reading about this stuff since my gf broke up with me obsessing about what i did wrong and what i can do better in the future. THere's so much info i've read its like i don't even know how to act around women anymore i see them completely differently.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:52 AM
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you don't undestand brother no one does ​ I litreally have 1-3 friends. I have work in an office with 5 people. I have made like 1 friend over the last 5 years. i've done nothing. I've just worked , blew money. come home. ​ The only fucking highlight of my life was hanging out with this girl. i don't want to stop thinking of her i want to remain with her in my memory . because hey although she was a slut and not even that attractive, hanging out hugging her and laughing with her >>> every other …
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:58 AM
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what is your purpose btw?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:07 AM
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What things? like volunteering ?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:58 AM
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No makes me jealous yes i'm pathetic
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:57 AM
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Very true words my friend the problem is however I have low self esteem - i'm short pale and receding yes i workout yes i try my best but still and 2 i don't know what my purpose is
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:57 AM
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lol thanks bro already read a few summaries seems good srs
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:56 AM
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thanks brother
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:48 AM
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Let me guess it talks about how women will go for the highest value man and they use men for resources etc ?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:48 AM
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i don't want to sotp thinking about her :(
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:54 AM
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What's the book about?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:53 AM
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She moved on fast and had a new boyfreind pretty quickly i sent her a hand written letter a bit cringe but she said not to write to her again and her entire fmaily saw it an she is in a relationship now lmao
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:34 AM
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2 months ago.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:43 AM
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The problem is dep down, i want to kee pthinking of her :( only positive fun thing in my life.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:43 AM
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already do, lift weights, cardio muay thai - still think of her.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:43 AM
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i've tried new classes, doing new things i still fuckingthink of her. fuckkkkkkkkkkkk
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:22 AM
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HOW CAN I STOP?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:22 AM
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That's not insecurity that's common sense.. You're saying if a girl was in a porno and uses to do gang bangs that's ok with you because it's in the past? At what point do you draw the line. You don't seem to have psychological awareness
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:04 PM
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already lift but not much confidence because short , pale and receding.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:46 AM
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Hmm i think this is another problem i've been out with tinder girls and most of them have told me that their ex's were abusive or some kind of aggresive dude so given my small sample size i'm probably sleeping with girls who are used to being around super aggressive/dominant guys. they are also around 21-25
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:46 AM
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How though can you give me some examples?
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:45 AM
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Thanks man really appreciate it i think this is the thing i am lacking the thing is ive always had in my mind that i want to please a women in bed and make her cum so i guess i over emphasize trying to please her instead of being a bit more dominant/selfish and thus turning her on if that makes sense. Do i say things like "i want to do doggy" or "i want you on top"? edit; i think this is another problem in general i'm way too over emotional or i guess i have too much emphay? . for example i feel…
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:45 AM
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my ex girlfriend said i reminded her of raymond from everybody loves raymond. How can i be seen as more of an alpha sex symbol?
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:28 AM
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yea this is the thing i don't really take the lead, or be really alpha, i act like a playful friend which is kinda successful but i don't know i don't make girls dripping wet. I don't know if it's in me. I'm too nice ive been brought up with women i have no older alpha guys in my life.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:26 AM
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i do bro, maybe i'm just over thinking this entire thing? I mean the last few girls did want to have sex again so i can't be that bad? i think i'm over thinking everything
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:26 AM
1

there's just something missing
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:16 AM
2

Nah it's not that. It's mental thing. I think i make women feel like a friend instead of feeling feminine. How can i achieve this?
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:15 AM
2

Sucks because i don't have many mates or other hobbies this is why it's so hard to get over.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:18 AM
1

This is good and all but my life is so boring meaningless and dull I have no life goals nothig what do i do
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 10:53 PM
1

yea but before that, how can i get her in the mood? ​ do i say i'm pcking you up for desert then drive to a park and watch the stars?
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:05 PM
1

A girl will find you attractive if she is flicking her hair at you or making eye contact. Not sure on the breathing.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:40 AM
1

Yea more than likely.i mean she isn't even that attractive oh well. She will probs feel more pain than me in 6 months
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:55 PM
6

I never want to experience this again. She was my first girlfriend. I mean, it wouldn't be so bad if she left me for someone worse but the dude is a fucking model.. FUck me.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:00 PM
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Thanks for your post man but even knowing she is fucking other dudes doesn't feel better. my self esteem is so low right now i'd fucking take her back if she asked for me. Why do i feel so shitty? why do i miss her so much? Why can't I FUCKING move on. i spend half my day in my own head thinking of the times we had together. WTF do i do? i feel suicidal. yes i feel lfucing suicidal over a fucking girl .
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:37 AM
2

How can i get over her? She left me for a dude who looks like a model, who is a fucking model. ​ i workout and do the best i can for myself, i have abs etc but still can't get over it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:34 AM
4

What if you don't know what your purpose is? I have no purpose please help. I can't get over my ex girlfriend. I'd pay all my money to have her back. I have no other purpose in life what the fuck do i do?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:32 AM
1

I always treated nicely and spoke to her daily. It wasn't like i treated her like shit. I just didn't make that extra leap. That's all. And I think I made the right decision. To be with a girl who is comfortable with posting selfies of herself online in her G-string is just too risky to really be in love with I realise. Another man might see through it but not me.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 05:33 AM
1

There was a reason behind this. edit' did you even read through the post.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:58 AM
1

I didn;t because i didn't want to develop feelings for her. She was a huge slut. It was too risky.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:58 AM
1

True she is very superficial but treated me well so very hard. but thanks man. Now I know my weaknesses. If a girl does this to me again ill be on nmy guard serios thanks.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:10 AM
1

did i fuck up?
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:51 AM
1

I have deep insecurites, i'm short pale and receding. I just had to know who she was dating. If he was that much better than me. And he was . He was taller, model looking and very good looking. I just feel so bad about everything man. The way i acted when i blew up. I jsut don't know hwo to feel. On one hand she treated me amazing but on the other hand i just know the type of girl she is. Fuck sakes. I wish i could just say sorry to her in person and explain myself. fuck everthing.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:44 AM
1

But did i do the wrong thing? She seemd so loyal to me and nice to me , treated me like a king etc. but i just couldn't i couldn't i had to hold back, she was a social media addict, posted pictures of her ass as her stories etc. I'm just so confused. i cant stop thinking of it.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:35 AM
2

Thanks man never thouht of this
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:13 AM
1

I feel so sad man fuck. Should i end it ? I keep thinking about the way i acted and feel so sad.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:12 AM
1

Fucking hell man should i try reach out with her and say sorry? After i what happened i kept apologising numerous times. I told her i wasn't thinking right and it was out of character. But did i make the right decision? How could i have a relationship with someone who acts like that? I shouldn't even be with someone like that again?
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:05 AM
1

I'm not going to lie i drove past her house today. Then stalked her on isntagram and she was at the park with another dude who looks like a model. Should i kill myself
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:03 AM
2

Thanks man, i just keep thinking though i won't meet a girl like her? She treated me so well and we could talk and laugh all day?
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:03 AM
2

I know but you need to understand my situation ​ - I have low self esteem (i'm 5'6), pale, and receding - I have no social circle - I have no hobbies ​ she was such a big part of my life / made me happy. I'd pay all my money to have her around again. Just someoen to have a laugh with. I have no one to hang out with mane :(
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 07:58 AM
2

haha thanks man
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 07:57 AM
0

i miss her though fuckk
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 07:56 AM
1

I know man I was just so hurt. She was my first girlfriend. Ive never experienced this before. I was just so upset. She literally hung out with me, kissed me, said we will d something next week then hardly talks to me then tells me she is seeing someone else i felt so jealous and hurt i threatened to blakcmail her unless she tell me who it was. ​ After saying that straight away i said sorry and said i'm nothing right at all. ​ But yea man i just feel so hurt. I miss having her treat me so well
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 07:46 AM
1

How can i find my mission?
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 09:36 AM
1

Yes, i think i realised all my happiness was coming from her, i'm short balding and don't think highly of my self she was my self esteem.
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 09:35 AM
1

How can i do this? please teach me
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 09:35 AM
1

How can i find happiness elsewhere? i feel depressed if women don't give me attention/sex because i feel like a loser/ugly?
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 09:34 AM
5

I know it's all my fault then i get depressed knwoing his and the cycle starts over!
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:36 PM
1

I wish i had an older brother like you. I have no manly older mentors in my life :(
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:35 PM
3

i will learn from this
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:14 PM
1

thanks man, i just odn't know where to start i have no goals. nothing :( depressed all the time.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:13 PM
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How can i stop thinking about her ? I keep thinking about how she is with her new man giving him love sex and attention and it makes me sad
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:13 PM
1

I constantly think about her. How can i stop? To make it worse imaging her having sex with her new guy and that she is constantly messaging him like she did with me. The n i get super depresse.D but why do i care so much? she is a low quality women. It's not like she was a model, particularity smart or interesting.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:12 PM
1

already have, but its hard only go once every few weeks.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 12:11 PM
1

I've already been to a therapist bro. It helped but i only see them once every few weeks due to money. Why was i stupid? Why did i go out and fall in love with such a slutty girl. How can i get over this and move the fuck on? It just hurts seeing her dating a fucking model that earns 80k a year . God i'd kill to have her back
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:58 AM
5

Thanks man ​ you're right it's so hard to get over this drug. Especially becase i don't think highly of myself, i'm short, pale etc ​ fark it's tough. hpefully time heals.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:50 AM
21

Thanks man appreciate it
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:48 AM
1

You;re right man. But this girl was just the final blow. For the last few years of my life i've been drifting through life like a piece of shit. i'm 25 now and have no hobbies, minimum wage job, no friends etc. I just keep tryin to escape. How can i man up and take responsibilty?
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:45 AM
1

I never thought i'd be that guy but i feel like that guy. She made me feel so good, and now she is giving some other dude all her love affection and attention fuckkkkk
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:29 AM
5

I can't man i just can't. I never want to fall in love again. It hurts
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 11:29 AM
1

Yea i think you're right man i was addicted to her validation as i had low self esteem.
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:41 AM
2

But i don't understand why i care so much? She wasn't that attractive, she wasn't intellectual, the sex wasn't that great , i could go on and on and on She just had a great body and was fun to talk to. I would never marry a girl like her or have a serious realtionship with her but now she is gone i feel so sad about it?
/r/seduction09/06/19 12:35 PM
2

please respond
/r/seduction09/06/19 12:08 PM
2

what do you mean? ​ I dated a girl recently who i developed feelings for but realised she is a huge monkey brancher, has heaps of boyfriends, guy to guy etc. What will happen to her in 5 years time when she is 30?
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 10:50 AM
0

Hey man i'm thinking about trying to make her jealous and go to the gym with girls while she is there reckon i can win her back doing this?
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:35 PM
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