Hi guys i don't know if i'm over thinking this. I do ok with women but im very what's the word, I like having fun. I like joking around and making women laugh. I guess that's ok but the problem is that i'm not very masculine on dates. For example i never lead, or make decisions or anything. I feel like girls still sleep with me but i never make them really want me it's hard to explain.

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Maybe my ex has stuffed me up but every time i slept with her it was like she didn't enjoy it and didn't even want to do it it's made me lose a bit of self esteem. But now i think about it even in one night stands and things it seems like girls bang me but are never into it? i can't explain it. i dont have a small dick, i have a decent body, i know how to do foreplay but something is missing.

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How can i be more masculine? How can i make women feel more submissive? like i said i'm naturally a joking / laughing guy, smile a lot, make people laugh