this is more of a relationship type thing but thought i'd ask it here as there seems to be some alpha cool dudes in this sub reddit as opposed to white knihts in other sub reddits

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Suppose you go out with a girl she seems nice etc maybe you go out on a few dates have sex but you begin realising she is a huge slut so you don't take her seriously is that being judgemental or is that common sense?

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Like imagine you went out with a girl she is nice, treats you well, fun to be around but she tells you she has slept with 50 dudes for example. Do you be judgemental or go with the flow?

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Just curious. I personally am judgemental as i feel like if someone acts that way it's a reflection on themselves and a fundamental flaw e.g. deep insecurity, commitment issues, emotional issues and it would be best not to be close to someone like that.