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i have a legitimate question.

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November 8, 2014
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Title i have a legitimate question.
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Comments 7
Date November 8, 2014 11:24 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We don't condemn anyone. We just acknowledge that actions have consequences and that men do not want women with a high partner count.

If women cared about the same things men cared about we would act the same towards men with a high partner count.

Why do you think women with a high partner count instinctively lie to men about their partner count if it didn't matter?

[–]Misteralcala1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at it from a logical perspective: somebody who has a high partner count is probably impulsive, easily bored and likely to move on after they have their fun with you. Women initiate 70% of divorces and with those odds, a man wants to be sure that she will stick around after the first rough patch you hit, because she will be taking half of your assets on the way out.

Women with high partner counts are fun for the short-term, but smart men will avoid them in favor of less 'adventurous' women. Nobody is looking after us if things don't work out, so we have to protect ourselves.

[–]gameno0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't condemn a woman who wants to fuck a lot of men. I'm just going to be realistic and keep in mind that there is no possible long term relationship with a woman who fucks a lot of men. Realistically, you can't have men fucking a lot of women if women aren't fucking a bunch of men.

[–]gideonrakthor 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Women are able to fuck alot of men in their prime, which is around 23 year s old. The prime age for a man is around 36.

Men in their twenties are not able to fuck nearly as many women, as women do men. This is because wealth and social status (the main components in male smv) is not well developed at that age. So when a man does happen to sleep with alot of women at a young age, he is viewed as an alpha male because he has achieved a challenging task.

Men have the propensity to fuck much more often than women post 30. The problem is, most people aren't aware of that and the media propagates what is going on in our youth almost exclusively. This makes it seem like women are the only ones who get sex easily and people view them as sluts. Men and women around age 70 should have similar counts, but no one is aware of that because society only cares about what happens to the young folk like us.

Since men value sex much higher than women, (who value relationships and commitment and could care less about the physical act of sex) men tend to see women who sleep around negatively out of general jealousy. This is also the reason women are hard-wired to avoid slut-shaming/shamers (betas).

[–]TheRealMewt0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't condemn women with a high partner count. I merely understand that a woman with a high partner count is less likely to provide me with the stable LTR that I truly desire. Believe me, I've tried. My ex wife had a high partner count and I've been cheated on because I was different from who she typically got involved with. The handful of women I've dated after my divorce had high partner counts; they had loyalty issues and we ended up breaking it off.

In the end, these girls were alright - it's just that for a LTR to work, both men and women need to do more than just submit to their primal desires.

[–]2IVIaskerade0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You don't have a legitimate question. You have a question, that could be answered by the sidebar.

There's been a lot of newbies coming in and going "so what's happening in here then?" in the last few days, and I'm getting a little tired of their ignorance.

[–]TheSKSpecial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Came in to say this. Your "legitimate" question could have been answered by reading the sidebar.

Or (judging by your username) did you think your question was made "legitimate" because you're a woman?

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