So I've been banging this HB9 for a couple of months. She's from a foreign country, a very poor and religious one. One day, suddenly, she backed away and disappeared from my life. Later on I found out she had a boyfriend (5 year relationship. She's from her country). She texted me some bullshit about "space and time" and "being confused", and I took 3 days to respond: "ok, that's fine". Then I went radio silent.

Last night at 11pm, after 1 month of no contact, she blew up my phone with walls of text, saying shit along the lines of:

  • I really regret breaking up with you.
  • I was afraid of my family - we come from very different cultures, and they are very old fashioned.
  • My bf lost his job and I felt sorry for him, so I let him stay at my place out of pity.
  • It's sad because he loves me but I don't love him - I love you.
  • I am still trying to find the right moment to dump him.
  • I don't know what I want in this life.
  • What I know, is that you are in my heart and my soul. I can't stop thinking about you.
  • I don't deserve you.

I'm starting to think this girl is crazy. What she said made me see that she is a contradictory mess. However, she's very hot and great in bed, so I would like to know what my next move should be.

I have been considering the following options:

A) Texting her: "you only have one life. You should choose what you want and who you want in your life, and not let others choose for you. I have a lot more to tell you, but texting is a terrible form of communication. If you want to meet up and have a proper conversation, you know where I am. If not, that's okay too. Be strong".

B) Texting her: "Honestly, I couldn't care less about your boyfriend. He's your problem, not mine. If you want to have a good time, you know where I am. If not, that's fine".

C) Not texting her back.

I don't know which would be the most suitable option. Please feel free to add your own suggestions and approach to the situation.