1. At bar 1 and she comes in moaning about work - I soak it up
  2. At bar 2 and she moans about a friends mother - I soak it up
  3. I continue to make light of it, try to flip things to positive, she gets mad
  4. Claims I don't take her serious and make a joke of serious things
  5. I say to her lets go, and we start walking up towards my place
  6. Get about half way, she continues, I tell her she is going on and on negative all night and I listened to it
  7. She turns around and storms off to head home because truth hurts, I call her once then think fuck it, then just walk home
  8. She pings the hell out of me on WhatsApp so I tell her I'm not discussing it further via a text app
  9. She says she will come back so I just say ok and she heads back to my place after her tantrum
  10. She wants to argue but I refuse and reframe it constantly - not interested in blame game or who is right - gets her mad
  11. She is standoffish at first and in a mood but then as time goes by things change - ends up in sex around 4am in the morning
  12. I walk off and she complains because I did not comfort her after sex - she also complains about me and 'other girls', made worse by this hot girl I know we met in bar 2
  13. Wake up next morning and she still wants to argue so I tell her she should take the space she clearly needs which got her mad again
  14. She then tells me that she finds it hard to open up to me because I keep my options open - no shit, we're not exclusive - she obviously wants more commitment and comfort
  15. I tell her I'm not going to argue with her and will give my point, she can give hers, and we can go from there like adults
  16. Then she leaves, kisses me multiple times on the way out, and then messages me to tell me there's potential in this but we need to talk
  17. I'm expecting the commitment talk from her next week if I decide to see her

Long post I know but has to be given the context.