Does setting up a second date for 5 days after the first date come across as needy or too invested?

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-07-18T08:34:49+00:00

I’m a proponent of the opposite. I’ll always push to close/hook up as soon as possible. That’s because the feelz and rapport you’ve built is at its zenith. You’ve got momentum.

A 5 day turnaround isn’t bad but I noticed that there’d be an initial re-establishing of frame/familiarity. Sure that’s mostly the case when you’re just starting to hook up but I seemed to flow better when the date was stacked up one or two nights later. Try it though and see what works best for you.

Godspeed and good luck!

Redy4Action · 2019-07-18T10:00:40+00:00

This girl likes to take things slow

In her frame.

You should be having dates when and if you want to, not the other way around.

McVaghunter · 2019-07-18T10:18:28+00:00

This girl likes to take things slow.

Girls take things slowly with guys they don't like that much.

Also, her viewing you as needy is not based of how many days you've waited before suggesting another date. It's based on how hot you are and how many options you have. Girls don't want space, they want a high SMV man to fuck them everyday.

FereallyRed · 2019-07-18T11:47:22+00:00

72 hours is standard.

RP_COGuy · 2019-07-18T15:12:44+00:00

This girl likes to take things slow

Rules are for betas, exceptions are for alphas.

Tiway22 · 2019-07-18T15:33:48+00:00

Counting fucking days? What the fuck?

Just get it man. You’re overthinking this. It doesn’t matter.

Also I doubt she would want to take it slow for Brad Pitt.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-07-18T15:41:58+00:00

Shooters shoot man. If she runs after 5 days you are better off anyways.

MattyAnon · 2019-07-18T11:57:52+00:00

Does setting up a second date for 5 days after the first date come across as needy or too invested?

Personally I always leave a gap unless the girl is a super special regular. In the early days there will always be a gap before offering more.

Title	Does setting up a second date for 5 days after the first date come across as needy or too invested?
Author	BlairChase
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	July 18, 2019 8:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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