Sup peeps. So I just got back from another disastrous "date." Hit up a girl I matched with on Tinder about a month ago, chatted about meeting up a bit leading up to the date.

Now it's worth noting that this chick is not my type at all. Looked worse than her Tinder pics, 5/10. I think she's a good natured person but she's a straight up self-described SJW, "pansexual" and very loud. However despite this, I was still horny and wanted to fuck. Here's how the night went:

Texted back and forth for a few days, decided to meet up this evening. I drove to her side of town to pick her up which I'm unfamiliar with, and it's not the nicest area so I felt a bit wary driving around there. Anyway, I picked her up about half an hour after I said I would as I got a bit lost in the area and picked her up and we went to a local beach bar.

Went in and sat down, started chatting about life and general stuff, conversation went on to celebrity crushes. She's quite loud and another group (2 guys and a girl) asked if they could join the conversation and there was a also gay dude chilling with his late 30s lady friend who she made friends with when I went to the bathroom. We all formed one group.

Now I quite liked the 2 guys who were in the other group and ended up speaking more to them than I did to my date about guy stuff like work and sports but I also spent a lot of time in the group convo just scrolling through Reddit and Quora. I often do this in social settings because most of the time I find whatever's trending on Reddit and Quora more interesting than anything the other people have to say. Sounds rude but it's just the way I am. One of the guys gave me his number and invited me to a house party he's throwing next week but that's a topic for another discussion.

Anyway, she's having loud convo with gay dude about sexual/ political/ celebrity shit while I'm for the most part just chilling on my phone.

She notices yet another group who she goes and talks to who then go on to join our group as she met one of the guys when she was still in college. The other 2 groups leave until this last group is the last remaining few people along with myself and my date. She carries on being her loud self, talking to these guys about sex and previous relationships while I stay on my phone and start typing out this very post. Three times I asked her if she was ready to leave as it was getting late and I wanted to go but she kept saying a few more minutes and I wasn't gonna leave her there as her place is a good 18km from the bar. But I was very pissed off over her wasting my time when I wanted to leave.

Eventually we do leave. She carries on being her drunk and loud self in the car. I wasn't really in the mood to fuck anymore but was tipsy so thought why the fuck not, we make eye contact several times while I'm driving, I put my arm around her and put my one hand on her neck and other one on her boobs and kiss her. She doesn't push me away but keeps her mouth closed.

Eventually when we get to her place I decide to be direct and ask her why she agreed to go on a date with me if she wasn't interested in me. She makes up a bullshit SJW excuse about how she's not generally attracted to straight cisgender guys and she thought I was gay by looking at my Tinder profile (wtf). I told her straight that I realize she doesn't owe me anything but I don't appreciate having my time wasted. She mentions that I'm not the only one who had my time wasted as she also decided to meet up with a guy who she thought was gay but wasn't (clearly bullshit but whatever).

Now I just got home and needless to say I'm fuming. I was basically her personal uber driver for the night. I'm pissed at her for wasting my time but even more pissed off at myself for yet again being socially awkward and failing to escalate.

Please guys, help me.