Want to make fuckbuddy LTR. Advice to not fuck it up?

Kobinks · 2019-07-28T15:31:35+00:00

There's this one girl... she's not like other girls... she's a unicorn... you guys wouldn't understand... you've not met her...

You have oneitis, i'd recommend hard nexting immediately.

As you won't listen though i'm going to give you a full play by play of how this is going to go down;

You've made the first step and piqued her interest, you built a little attraction and she started putting out. You're getting her absolute best behaviour while she try's to tie you down.

You've already fucked up by doing boyfriend shit with her, she's got you right where she wants you and you lost a large amount of value by telling her it's just her.

This going to end one of two ways;

She gets bored of you soon because you've killed all the mystery.
She locks you down into an LTR, wraps you round her little finger as her bitch then slowly stops putting out. Leaving you a heartbroken little snowflake in 6 months to 2 years when she starts sucking side dick.

I look forward to your post next year asking us what to do... The answer will still be the same, Hard next except you'll have wasted more of your time.

Best of luck.

Red_Vet_Garageman · 2019-07-28T16:03:27+00:00

I treat a the bitches the same. The ones who behave get rewarded with long term benefits. The ones who get bitchy with me get demoted to booty call and if they don't straighten up nexted.

They become LTR through time and good behavior.

SirKolbath · 2019-07-28T15:22:11+00:00

You've already lied to her. There isn't any point in upgrading her now.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-07-28T17:49:00+00:00

are you sure that she doesnt already think youre her bf

Pete_Worst · 2019-07-28T17:49:40+00:00

You say - Issue is I know TRP says as man you shouldn't be the one seeking commitment, the woman should.

Then you say - Wondering if I'm being a dork next time I see her telling her I want this to move in more relationship direction?

You're hamstering like crazy and about to do something you know rarely ends well. You have oneitis and your behavior will start pushing this girl away. Go with your instincts, shut the hell up, and let shit happen naturally if you want an eventual LTR.

BackOnGameJP · 2019-07-28T17:22:33+00:00

Issue is I know TRP says as man you shouldn't be the one seeking commitment

Do you follow Red Pill teachings to improve your life and get what you want or in the hope to become a Saint by accumulating good points?

boy_named_su · 2019-07-28T17:43:12+00:00

Three months minimum, bud. Six preferred. And SHE has to BEG YOU for an LTR

You need to wait that long to figure out enough of her red flags to decide if she's LTR-worthy

Title	Want to make fuckbuddy LTR. Advice to not fuck it up?
Author	ForrestAlpha
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	July 28, 2019 3:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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