I've seen posts varying across a variety of complaints. Most of these newbie posts have yet to do any work or even read the required reading. This post is to help you new comers understand and possibly VALUE why the general response given in the sub is STFU, Lift, and Read the sidebar.
Stfu is advice given because you can't keep your mouth shut. You open your mouth, and you reveal how much of an unattractive faggot you truly are. STFU is an absolute basic defense against your beta feelz escaping into reality, thus cock blocking yourself. This absolutely helps you pass basic shit tests, if you aren't passing shit tests you aren't getting laid.
What STFU applies to
Don't talk to your wife about your feelings
Don't talk to your wife about the frequency of sex
Don't talk to your wife ABOUT THE RED PILL
Don't complain to your wife
Don't talk to your wife about self doubt
Don't ask your wife for permission
Why this matters?
As a man, you DO things. Acta non verba
Women talk, men do!
"But Dramah, what about a man's word being his bond?!"
Well, this applies to dealing and addressing other men. This DOES NOT APPLY to women. Women do not play by the same rules, so you should disregard words in the context of women. STFU is also your basic defense against shit tests, because if don't open your fucking mouth you puke your faggot feelings all over your wife. WHAT STFU DOESN'T MEAN is that you stone wall your wife because you're too autistic to speak. Don't become a mute because you're stupid.
What Lift applies to
Lift heavy weight to make yourself look attractive
Lift heavy weight so you're not a weak faggot
Lift heavy weight because it combats depression
Lift heavy weight because it combats your feminine tendencies
Lift heavy weights because it builds discipline
Lift heavy weights so you build confidence in yourself
Lift heavy weights so you look good naked
Lift heavy weights so you visually appear more masculine
Why this matters?
You as a man, should be healthy. You want a healthy wife? You want her to work out, lose the baby weight from her kid she had 6 years ago? Want her to get rid of her bingo arms? YOU need to lead that, if you become attractive physically and make it apparent this isn't a phase but a permanent discipline she will follow. The vast majority of people do not enjoy working out, this isn't something that's fun like shooting guns or playing your favorite video game. However, the Pros completely outweigh the Con of effort. This also gives you a leg up on 80% of men, because a majority of today's men are weak pathetic faggots who drink their soy milk, wear skinny jeans and share their feelings with any women who listens.
"But Dramah! Lift is hard!!!!!"
Then you're a bitch and there's absolutely no hope for you. Go be a faggot and complain somewhere else.
Read the Sidebar
This is gold! This is your toolbox! This is your philosophy! I can't stress this enough! This is where change happens when you apply it to your life! The community has painstakingly put together some of the most profound, easy to read content for you.
Every question you could possibly have regarding TRP/MRP is answered from the general perspective in the sidebar
Why this matters?
This matters because change starts from within. You internalize the material, this helps you actualize the man you should be striving to be.
"But Dramah, the world should accept me for who I am!"
No. Fundamentally... NO. You as a man are only as attractive as the value you bring to the table. Grow up and realize you're not valued because you exist. That is a woman, only they are valued because they exist.
So before you post ask yourself the basic question. Can my problem be solved by STFU, Lifting, or reading the sidebar? Most likely.