Stop slut-shaming women and it'll be easier for men to get sex

Vikingcel · 2019-08-10T14:12:25+00:00

Women are picky by nature, not because of slut shaming.

captainkickasss · 2019-08-10T14:21:29+00:00

I’ve always seen this as a biological issue: women are more picky when it comes to their sexual partners because biologically they are wired to choose the most desirable mate with whom to reproduce. By nature alone, they have to be more selective. Women have a finite number of eggs that they can become children, they have a finite period of time every month to reproduce, and they have a finite number of years they are able to reproduce.

Whereas a male’s biological goal is to reproduce with as many women as possible. Men are much less inclined to be as selective as women when their goal is to reproduce as many times as possible. Men begin making sperm at an early age, and continue to create sperm for the rest of their lives. Their sperm may become less motile as they age, but a man in his 90s is still capable of impregnating a woman.

While we mostly understand these biological differences, it’s how we act on them that guides our interactions. I’m naturally sexually interested in many women I meet, and not many of them are interested in me as sexual partners. And that is okay. If a woman is not interested in me as a sexual partner, then I focus my sexual desires on another woman, while being able to maintain a relationship with the first. I’ve never had difficulty maintaining friendships with women or finding willing sexual partners.

If a woman decides that I am an acceptable sexual partner, and we have sex, then that’s great for both of us. The numbers of her sexual partners has never been a concern of mine, but like OP said, a woman with more sexual partners will have a better understanding of what she likes, and what works for her. This makes my job easier, leading to more enjoyment for her, and myself, and likely more sexual encounters in the future.

We should be able to enjoy our bodies without judgment. And we should never judge another person for enjoying their bodies.

Imperator_Red · 2019-08-10T15:31:40+00:00

Guys, stop engaging with her. She’s a woman. We don’t debate or argue with women because it’s pointless.

OP, your username reveals you as a woman. Revealing yourself as a woman is against sub rules. “This thing of ours” can never and will never include you.

Be gone THOT.

strikethrough123 · 2019-08-10T14:12:24+00:00

I think it’s ridiculous that men look at n-count when their only intention is to fuck. N-count should only be considered when going for an LTR.

A female with a high n-count (no matter how hot and how great her personality is) has disqualified herself from being a long-term partner. You should definitely know what her n-count is if you’re looking for an LTR.

On another note, some girls will exaggerate their n-count as a shit-test. If you flinch or show disdain, you’ll never know her real n-count.

anonlymouse · 2019-08-10T15:30:25+00:00

Am I missing something?

Yes. It's women who engage in slut shaming. If their pussy is the only resource they have to offer, they want the value to go up. If men have an easy time getting sex, then the value of pussy goes down.

Intelligent, competent women can compensate for a reduced value of pussy, but they'd rather have everything stacked in their favour. Stupid, incompetent women can't compensate, so they're forced to, in their own self interest, slut shame other women.

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2019-08-10T15:31:49+00:00

Completely disagree with this.

For a start, as others have pointed out, females are picky by nature. Sex for females carries the very real risk of pregnancy. Historically the survival rate of a female following pregnancy is low so they have evolved to select only the best males for mating. In contrast, sex for males carries virtually no risk.

Furthermore, slut shaming was invented to stop women sleeping with Chad and instead be loyal to a beta provider. If slut shaming goes away and women are left to behave according to their nature, then only Chad benefits, because females are picky by nature. The bottom 80% of men will get even less sex than they had before.

In other words, slut shaming is an attempt to condition women into not following their natural instincts. If you take that away then they will behave like other animals and only sleep with Chad. If you are someone who is concerned about women being picky, then you are not Chad, and you only stand to lose.

Gastraphetess · 2019-08-10T15:42:03+00:00

Slut shaming is something women do to reduce competition. If all women were sluts then no man would want or need a woman for a ltr. It would be like old times when the kids were raised by the tribe.

Men fear being cuckolded, this is part of our biology. Why would you invest your resources with the town bicycle when the kid could be someone else's?

KirthWGersen · 2019-08-10T15:42:53+00:00

In my experience, slut-shaming comes from two sources:

1) Women who are envious of another woman's success with men.

2) Men who see a woman who sleeps with lots of men but are hurt and envious because she won't sleep with him!

Personally, I love sleeping with women who love sleeping with men. I won't kid myself that I'm the best she's ever had or that there is something special about me that makes me different to all the others. If I didn't exist, she would be happily shagging someone else.

It is women who are not "sluts" that are the problem: they are hard work, entitled, boring and ... simply not worth it when you get them in the sack.

civilizedfrog · 2019-08-10T15:44:42+00:00

Slut shaming is what women do to hinder other women's chances to be with me. I dont shame women for the things that they did. However, the choices they made in the past is a factor if I want to let her be my ltr

[deleted] · 2019-08-10T16:15:15+00:00

Men don't hold a convention where they decide to shame promiscuity. The aversion to promiscuity is visceral and inborn.

You very well may be right that men collectively not slut shaming would get more men laid more, but again, there is no man convention where all this is decided upon. The phenomenon you're observing is simply the aggregate of INDIVIDUAL MEN exercising their INDIVIDUAL PREFERENCES, preferences which are instinctive and even inborn.

We're surely not asking women to forego their preferences for higher earning husbands or taller husbands or stronger husbands, are we?

Expecting men to commit (in particular) to women who make them viscerally uncomfortable is just as ridiculous.

And for both cases, men's and women's preferences, you do find instances of shaming those who don't meet the desired standards (short men, poor men "scrubs", etc.)

RedSkeller · 2019-08-10T16:22:58+00:00

That poor hamster is working over time, take it off the wheel and give it a break. It's 2019 kids, there are hordes women cheerleading other women's prostitution on every social media site available. Who is slut shamed any more? All I see it the rampant rise of single motherhood with government sponsorship and the trendiness of men ain't shit. If anything bring it back, Make Slut Shaming Great Again and maybe we can limp along for while.

UnbreakableFrame · 2019-08-10T14:26:40+00:00

Women have sex covertly anyways and never tell anyone their real number. The fear of being called a slut is almost never a factor that concerns them.

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2019-08-10T14:48:13+00:00

But, and it must be said; a girl whose had multiple sexual partner loses significant ability to pair bond. This is not conducive to LTRs. Also she's more likely to be carrying emotional baggage from being a pump and dump.

Title	Stop slut-shaming women and it'll be easier for men to get sex
Author	SaraAnastasia
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Comments	95
Date	August 10, 2019 2:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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