Drove a couple hours to go skydiving for the first time today, noticed a short slim blonde girl with short red shorts on and a half sleeve. HB8, ended up being on my plane and jumped by herself (she’s taking solo courses) while waiting for the rest of my friends I saw her by herself sitting at a table so I decided to sit and talk with her.

Asked her about the courses and how she’s enjoying it, she was very talkative and I just sat and listened and maintained eye contact. Smiled often and cracked a couple jokes which she chuckled at. We probably would’ve talked for an hour but my friend motioned for me that it was time to leave so I told her I was still fairly new to the area and meeting people so if she wanted to give me her number I’d take her out for coffee or lunch. She asked me how old I was (turns out she’s 33, looks a lot younger) I said 23. She chuckled and said guess how old I am. I said 25, she told me she was 33 and I said perfect that’s right in my age range. She then laughed at that and said well I’m kinda seeing someone but I don’t mind making friends, so I said perfect. Let’s be friends and smiled. She gave me her number and I walked away, and she said “what’s your name again? Matt?” I said yeah and I’d shoot her a text later.

We’re these just dumbass shit tests she was throwing at me and did I handle them correctly? I’m working on my sober game outside of the gym. My drunk game is solid due to not giving a fuck about the result and higher confidence.

Fyi I really don’t give a fuck about the outcome of this I just wanna get y’alls perspective for further sober approaches.