i met a girl from tinder twice already, got coffee the first time and drinks the second. brought her over the second time and we made out and fingered her, despite being absolutely soaked she was very persistent on not fucking. honestly had to overpower her just to get a few fingers in there, she could have left or told me to stop at anytime but she didn’t.

tried setting up a third date at her place but she wanted to watch a movie or get drinks instead. i wasn’t really interested in that so i told her we’d arrange next time

question is do i set up a third date for drinks and try to escalate?