so while spinning a couple of plates, i met this girl- reasonably cute, sexy and actually smart.

yesterday it was the second date and i took her on the roof of a tall building, we had to climb up some emergency stairs and watch for the guards as it was kind of a restricted area. all in all pretty exciting.

after that we went at a nearby pub and drank a glas of wine. she was giggling, touching her hair and having a good time.

A break of sincerity. Was it the wine?

we were talking about our past relationships, and at some point, i breifly responded to a text and she suddenly asked me: "Is she prettier than me?" i told her it's a fwb, nothing serious about it and actually pretty dissatisfying since i'm actually looking for a meaningfull relationship if it turns out to be one. Am I outright stupid for telling her this?

next: we were talking about male-female differencies, and i subtly described some red pill/not so politically correct matters from an evolutionary perspective. She then told me that i seem to be a misogynist. i laughed and asked her to explain me why. and i was amazed: she came with some BP bullshit, i put some specific questions and then she herself destroyed them with logic. she repeatedly contradicted her own bullshit and was conscious of it. She then said: "Yeah, women are hypocrite."

Anyway she expressed her fear of the past- being pumped and dumped

On the actual question: when we split our ways home, she didn't accept a proper kiss, she was clearly holding back. i just took it as not being enough attracted to me and ghosted her. She now anxiously sends me messages and asks if she said something wrong. why would i text her back..?

Did i fuck up big time with my sincerity and now she's not attracted anymore but wants validation?

Is it a shit test to see if i accept to wait long enough for physical interaction or is she anxious because i might just pump and dump her?

Thank you guys! Bless the Redpill!