M22, shes 24, motivated ass sailor who made E6 fast as fuck. She’s been fucking around with my friend (E5) and the 3 of us are the only ones who know so she trusts me and I trust her.

A mutual friend/sailor is having a birthday next weekend, they’re going clubbing in DC which is an hour 45 from where we live. I was invited. Last night I’m at a bar with my crew leader, playing pool and we went undefeated. We’re high fiving hugging etc. whatever

She brings up next weekend to me and asks if Teresa invited me, I said yes and was planning on going. She tells me that there’s 6 people going but they’re all in relationships, and she doesn’t want to go if she’s gonna 7th wheel. I said “yeah I didn’t know that was the case... I’ll go if you go” she says “I’ll go but I swear to god if you bail on me...” and I told her I won’t.

She then brings it back up and asks “well would we be staying downtown?” (She and I) and then answered her own question by saying yeah... probably it’s DC and we’ll be staying out late. So she’s obviously differentiating the two of us from the rest of the group. I texted her when we left the bar and told her we could find and book a hotel asap and she agreed.

I know in normal circumstances this is an obvious and guaranteed fuck. But given the circumstances with her 1. Having feelings for my friend and 2. Being my superior, is there any chance she literally is just trying to go out and have fun and then crash at a hotel? Or in this scenario does all that shit just go out the window and 2 people around the same age fuck and not say anything.

Please don’t reply telling me not to fuck her because it’s against the rules or some shit. I’m not even saying I WILL. Just curious if that’s what she’s heavily suggesting here.