So I've got this acquaintance- really good-looking dude in his mid-40s who got involved with a woman 5 years his senior. She is at least three stone overweight and, not to be too mean, just average looking woman of her age. She seemed a sensible sort: seemed to make up for her age by being kind, attentive etc. She dumped him a year ago. He was pretty cut up. So being an attractive guy he meets an attractive 30 year old and has started dating again.

Ex storms round his place and gives him hell for it. This biatch dumped HIM, is 50, and waaaay below his SMV.

Yet here she is playing up when he moves on.

Don't be fooled into thinking they'll be grateful when they are post-Wall. Lose frame by being really cut up when they dump you and this is what you get it. And, if you are cut up, pretend YDGAF, cry alone, work on yourself and game indifference until you make it.

And being good-looking does not automatically make you alpha.