Hey,

I just found this subreddit and while I've read myself through the pinned posts, I don't exactly now where to start in my specific case.

I'm a 17 year old male, still virgin, never had a girlfriend and so never had a kiss in my life.

I've been anti-social for many years but in the last year I realized that I wanted to change and so I started becoming more social and talking more with people.

I also go to the gym and do boxing. Still I have like a bit of fat on me (yes, under 20% body weight, my weight is 67kg [147 lbs] btw.). I'm not a very muscular guy but I build up a bit, which I'm very proud of because I thought I would stay really slim forever.

I suffer from acne, not the bad kind, not the soft kind you can barely see, it's in the middle and I think it get's better over the years.

While I've become more social, basically the only place where I get to meet girls on a daily basis is school. I live in Germany so we have a different school system, but this is my last year at this school, after that I'll go to university.

I would really have two things:

  1. Finally get enough motivation to lose that bit of body fat I have. Since I have a slim figure, it looks bad if you have a bit of stomach fat. Also you can't see abs, that I know that I have since I've been doing push-ups for years, but how are girls supposed to know that if they can't see shit.

  2. Have a girlfriend. Honestly I feel worthless and lonely without one, this sucks.

I would really appreciate it if some of you could give me like some starter tips. Are there special things I have to consider with girls specifically in my age group? How do I get to know girls in the first place?

Looking forward for your answers.