Ever watch these PUA advice videos on YouTube? Notice how most of the guys giving dating advice are beta as fuck? They're average-looking and come across passive, socially awkward, or even effeminate in mannerisms.

How are these guys even trying to pretend they're "alpha males"? Why do guys look up to them as role models?

Is it one of those "ambition is the enemy of success" things? Or are these guys actually perceived as admirable alpha males?