I am Beta. How do I change that?

BecomingReborn · 2014-12-14T10:35:41+00:00

You let girls walk all over you because you're afraid to lose them. You're afraid to lose them because you don't feel like you deserve them. You don't feel like you deserve them because you don't think you could impress them just by being you. You don't think you could impress them just by being you because you don't impress yourself. You don't impress yourself because you haven't done anything or don't do anything that you personally find impressive. You haven't done anything that you find impressive because you aren't reaching your full potential.

You aren't reaching your full potential because (perhaps), you are distracted by the feminizing and passivizing cultural BS pushed on us like sitcoms on Netflix, porn, Facebook, video games, complaining, "hanging out", drinking, smoking weed, ... or whatever applies here for you.

So there's your solution. Cut the crap from your life. Unplug. Go do real things. Work out. Cook. Get educated. Work hard. Explore. Learn. Play music. Go hiking. Challenge yourself, don't passivize yourself. The chain reaction will ultimately result in you being more more assertive and dominant around everyone, including women. Don't obsess over how to change or worry about every detail. Just take time to do real things which don't breed mediocre, complacent, passive, feminized men who complain like girls, have man boobs and have literally no real achievements to point to.

Staarlife · 2014-12-14T10:21:43+00:00

I imagine this thread will soon be deleted as it should be. See that sidebar to the right with the title of "NEW HERE?" Start there.

PoopSmearMoustache · 2014-12-14T12:08:33+00:00

Stop coming off as desperate, if one girl can see it, all the girls can see it. She is going to avoid letting anyone else interpret your 'relationship' as sexual. She wants to use you for everything you are stupid enough to give her, mainly validation through wasted time.

Her mind will never entertain this notion of being of such low value that she would need to find betas sexually attractive. Ever. Her mind is occupied with the fantasies of so many alphas that she would rather be delusional, get fat and be a cat lady than enjoy sex with a beta.

You change by looking at all your thoughts, moods and actions objectively for what they get you. Then you mix it up, re-invent yourself and find the ones that lead to the things you want.

RP-on-AF1 · 2014-12-15T19:50:56+00:00

Read the sidebar. Ask questions in /r/asktrp.

so6p · 2014-12-15T09:12:36+00:00

Step 1: Set a goal for yourself (i.e., "What do I want?")

Step 2: Figure out how to get there (i.e, "How can I get there?")

Step 3: Act, persist and accomplish that goal (i.e., the action)

Start with a simple goal and then repeat with successively tougher goals.

You will fail many times. Many times you will not accomplish what you set out to do. That does not matter. Action is what matters.

I am hugely simplifying, of course. But if you do this enough number of times you will improve, you will know things, you will accomplish things, you will be worthy to be around, and then people will respect you. Getting caught in this cycle of these three steps of "What -> How -> Action" will eventually make you alpha.

If you do not put effort, there is no rescue for you. Nobody and nothing can magically pull you out of your beta existence. Suffer the pain of discipline now or live a life of regret forever. Those are the only two choices a man faces.

Title	I am Beta. How do I change that?
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Date	December 14, 2014 10:02 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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