I’ve read the sidebar several times. I work out, and am doing well for myself. I’m involved in many leadership positions at college (will be student body president next year), have a 3.8, and have accepted a really nice internship for the summer. My status is high. I eat Keto, and am self-aware. My mission is to go to law school, and do well there.

About a year ago I was dumped. Because I am an over-achiever and put on a pedestal by my friends and family, it destroyed my ego. It’s been a year, and I’m trying to still let go. How can I do this most effectively? I don’t want to go out and bang a hundred women—I’m more concerned about my mission in life. If I really wanted to, I believe I could find a girl tomorrow, but I don’t have the desire. In fact, I’m not sure if I’ll date or go after women for a couple of years. Thanks guys.