(I told her before I came over that I was just hanging out for a bit and im not sleeping over)
I drove over we were chatting for a bit well she was making food. Then we hungout on the porch and chatted some more well she was eating. I could kinda tell she was trying to delay us from chilling in her bed. (Maybe since I told her I wasn’t staying over that gave her signs that I was just trying to hit and quit so her ASD went up?) anyways eventually we get into her room and she was fine with cuddling. I tried to escalate a few times for a kiss but she turned it down like twice. Then I think I tried like once more cause nothing was working and I wasn’t gonna wait an hour to comfort her up like I normally would because I had a short timeframe so I kinda rushed that I guess.
Then she got kinda pissed and was like you know what? You can leave you can just go. She said that a few times not in a super angry tone but she was obviously irritated. At this point I thought it was just a lost cause and I was alright fuck it I’m gonna leave. She didn’t try and stop me. I just was annoyed and just gave her a hug said it was nice meeting you and then I left.
IMMEDIATELY AFTER I fucking felt like a pussy. I was thinking what if it was just her testing me? But then I thought am I really gonna wait and see if she’s srs or not and risk some shit with the law or something?
Was I in the wrong? What would you guys have done? Did I fuck up or did I do the right thing?
TLDR I came over to chill tried to escalate she kicked me out. I listened cause I was short on time anyway and had something better to do and I didn’t feel like getting in trouble over the law to find out if it was a shit test or not. But I felt like a Pussy for leaving without getting anything and driving 30 minutes both ways and chilling for an hour a half and I got nothing. What should I have done? Did I do the right thing?
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