I came across this poem the other day regarding female nature by a famous scholar that lived in the 12th century by the name of Ibn Qayyim. While reading it, it hits you hard by its words. Nothing but truth.

ู„ุงูŽ ุชูŽุณู’ุจููŠู‘ูŽู†ู‘ูŽูƒูŽ ุตููˆู’ุฑูŽุฉูŒ ู…ูู†ู’ ุชู‹ุญู’ุชูู‡ูŽุงย ...ย ุงู„ุฏู‘ูŽุงุกู ุงู„ุฏู‘ูŽูˆูŽูŠ ุชูŽุจููˆู’ุกู ุจูุงู„ู’ุฎูุณู’ุฑูŽุงู†ู

You should not be deceived by her outer appearance... For it is a disease that is ridden with loss.

ู‚ูŽุจูุญูŽุชู’ ุฎูŽู„ุงูŽุฆูู‚ูู‡ูŽุง ูˆูŽู‚ูุจู‘ูุญูŽ ููุนู’ู„ูู‡ูŽุงย ...ย ุดูŽูŠู’ุทูŽุงู†ูŽุฉูŒ ูููŠ ุตููˆู’ุฑูŽุฉู ุงู„ู’ุฅูู†ู’ุณูŽุงู†ู

Her character and actions are ugly.. A devil in human form.

ุชูŽู†ู’ู‚ูŽุงุฏู ู„ูู„ู’ุฃูŽู†ู’ุฐูŽุงู„ู ูˆูŽุงู„ู’ุฃูŽุฑู’ุฐูŽุงู„ู ู‡ูู…ู’ย ...ย ุฃูŽูƒู’ููŽุงุคูู‡ูŽู€ุง ู…ูู†ู’ ุฏููˆู’ู†ู ุฐููŠ ุงู„ู’ุฅูุญู’ุณูŽุงู†ู

They make you (men) out to be dishonourable and despicable.. Her hands do not bring kindness.

ู…ูŽู€ุง ุซู‘ูŽู…ูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ ุฏููŠู’ู†ู ูˆูŽู„ูŽุง ุนูŽู‚ู’ู„ู ูˆูŽู„ูŽุงย ...ย ุฎูู„ูู‚ู ูˆูŽู„ูŽุง ุฎูŽูˆู’ูู ู…ูู†ูŽ ุงู„ุฑู‘ูŽุญู’ู…ูŽุงู†ู

Nor bringing any piety, nor intellect.. Nor character, nor fear from the Most Merciful (Allah.)

ูˆูŽุฌูŽู…ูŽุงู„ูู‡ูŽุง ุฒููˆู’ุฑูŒ ูˆูŽู…ูŽุตู’ู†ููˆู’ุนูŒ ููŽุฅูู†ู’ย ...ย ุชูŽุฑูŽูƒูŽุชู’ู‡ู ู„ูŽู…ู’ ุชูŽุทู’ู…ูŽุญู’ ู„ูŽู‡ูŽุง ุงู„ู’ุนูŽูŠู’ู†ูŽุงู†ู

And her beauty is falsehood; manufactured which will perish.. If neglected, no eyes would glance at her.

ุทูุจูุนูŽุชู’ ุนูŽู„ูŽู‰ ุชูŽุฑู’ูƒู ุงู„ู’ุญูููŽุงุธู ููŽู…ูŽุง ู„ูŽู‡ูŽุงย ...ย ุจููˆูŽููŽุงุกู ุญูŽู‚ู‘ู ุงู„ู’ุจูŽุนู’ู„ู ู‚ูŽุทู‘ู ูŠูŽุฏูŽุงู†ู

She will eventually forsake maintaining herself.. Then she will not fulfill the rights of the husband.

ุฅูู†ู’ ู‚ูŽุตู‘ูŽุฑูŽ ุงู„ุณู‘ูŽุงุนููŠ ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ูŽุง ุณูŽุงุนูŽุฉู‹ *** ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽุชู’ ูˆูŽู‡ูŽู„ู’ ุฃูŽูˆู’ู„ูŽูŠู’ุชูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ ุฅูุญู’ุณูŽุงู†ู

And if her workman (husband) falls short one time.. She says "Have you ever done anything good!?"

ุฃูŽูˆู’ ุฑูŽุงู…ูŽ ุชูŽู‚ู’ูˆููŠู’ู…ู‹ุง ู„ูŽู‡ูŽุง ุงุณู’ุชูŽุนู’ุตูŽุชู’ ูˆูŽู„ูŽู…ู’*** ุชูŽู‚ู’ุจูŽู„ู’ ุณููˆูŽู‰ ุงู„ุชุนูˆูŠุฌ ูˆุงู„ู†ู‚ุตุงู†

And if you wish to correct her misconduct.. She objects and does not accept her mistakes and shortcomings.

ุฃููƒุงุฑู‡ุง ููŠ ุงู„ู…ูƒุฑ ูˆุงู„ูƒูŠุฏ ุงู„ุฐูŠ*** ู‚ุฏ ุญุงุฑ ููŠู‡ ููƒุฑุฉ ุงู„ุงู†ุณุงู†

Her ideas are cunning and malicious.. That would set a man's mind on fire (make him furious and frustrated.)

ูุฌู…ุงู„ู‡ุง ู‚ุดุฑ ุฑู‚ูŠู‚ ุชุญุชู‡ย  ***ย ย ย  ู…ุง ุดุฆุช ู…ู† ุนูŠุจ ูˆู…ู† ู†ู‚ุตุงู†

For her beauty is a thin layer.. And what's beneath it is full of defects and damage.

ู†ู‚ุฏ ุฑุฏูŠุก ููˆู‚ู‡ ู…ู† ูุถุฉย ย ย  *** ย  ย  ุดูŠุก ูŠุธู† ุจู‡ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฃุซู…ุงู†

A cheap coin wrapped in silver.. Is something one would think is expensive

ูุงู„ู†ุงู‚ุฏูˆู† ูŠุฑูˆู† ู…ุงุฐุง ุชุญุชู‡ย ย  ***ย ย ย  ูˆุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุฃูƒุซุฑู‡ู… ู…ู† ุงู„ุนู…ูŠุงู†

But the critics see beneath it, while most of the people are blind.

ุฃู…ุง ุฌู…ูŠู„ุงุช ุงู„ูˆุฌูˆู‡ ูุฎุงุฆู†ุง***ุช ย  ย  ุจุนูˆู„ุชู‡ู† ูˆู‡ู† ู„ู„ุฃุฎุฏุงู†

As for those women with beautiful faces.. They are unfaithful to their families and they have boyfriends (I.e. other lovers besides their husbands).

ูˆุงู„ุญุงูุธุงุช ุงู„ุบูŠุจ ู…ู†ู‡ู† ุงู„ุชูŠ*** ู‚ุฏ ุฃุตุจุญุช ูุฑุฏุง ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุณูˆุงู†

As for the women who protect their chastity in private and their husband's belongings.. They have become those who are forgotten.