How do you get a girl to lose weight?

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-09-20T20:34:18+00:00

You can’t really.

You can dread her, cheat on her but there’s no way to guarantee her changing (not saying it’s impossible either though).

The worse part is you don’t want her to lose weight, you want her to want to lose weight herself.

That’s why it’s so hard.

Take a page from women’s book, get some abundance and decide to date the winners, the girls who are already at a healthy weight.

And not project women.

And now you know why you shouldn’t marry, there’s no incentive for her to maintain her weight.

In a ltr, if you got fat, she could leave and vice versa.

In a marriage, realistically only one party can leave and it ain’t you.

2020-09-20T23:26:06+00:00

I have never braved this task, but I can offer some ideas. I don't think telling her will do anything but make her mad and will do the opposite for someone who's stubborn. Just go hard in the gym and make it clear how important fitness and dieting is in your own life and hope she'll follow.

Buy nice workout clothes and start weighing the ingredients you use in meals and stuff like that so she knows you're serious. Invite her for runs or to work out, but be indifferent if she wants to be lazy to avoid stubbornness if you're being too obvious.

You can't change her, you can only change yourself; lead by example.

saltyfiredude · 2020-09-21T00:42:31+00:00

Practical advice?

Go on a cut and lean out yourself, her seeing you tightening up on your diet and forgoing heavy meals while she continues eating may cause her to notice her eating habits.
Covert subcommunication that conveys your dislike of the weight gain. Could even just be checking out a slimmer girl when you watch a movie together or accidentally grabbing a bit of her belly during sex. This is how women communicate.
Continuous level of dread. You should be a high value man, muscular, career goals, social circle and good in bed. She should want to stay in shape to keep you around.

The third one should be a default, and she will never get back in shape if you aint a G.

amwfhunter · 2020-09-21T00:44:27+00:00

You dont. Unless youre her personal trainer and she is training you, not your problem she is fat.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-09-21T03:48:22+00:00

For most of the history of H sapiens losing weight could be fatal to women for about 4- 5 months of the year.

She'll do it if it's the only way to escape social ostracism and humiliation, which is a more immediate threat to survival than cold and lack of food.

As long as you're around, her ego might wish it but her subconscious wont allow it. She won't even realize she's eating.

This isn't about you. You're thinking you're cool enough and man enough to convince someone to go against a pretty fundamental survival instinct. You're not.

You deal with it by getting lost and fucking other women. Or if it's not a dealbreaker to you, forget about it.

2020-09-21T14:28:48+00:00

You can't.

There's such a thing known as relationship weight, where couples drunk off post coitus cool down and indulge on pizza and sweets.

inbredostrptw · 2020-09-30T04:17:34+00:00

Tell her you’re going to leave her if she doesn’t lose weight. If she still doesn’t lose weight, leave her

Title	How do you get a girl to lose weight?
Author	theguytheguy1000
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	September 20, 2020 7:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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