Red Pill of course remains an absolute rabbit hole of rhetoric for me and I'm struggling to find my way out. I've spent most of my weekend on here.

One of the things which we all know differentiates TRP from the standard PUA hub is that it does not only teach a guy 'how to be more Alpha' but it seeks to explore biological, historical and sociological explanations for these behavioural patterns in inter-gender dynamics. In other words the 'bio-troofs'.

  1. Attempts at Refuting Bio-Truths 1: AF/BB and Hypergamy

I fought against AF/BB for a while but there was a brilliant thread on here lately which determined AF/BB to simply be jargon for the female r/K dualistic mating strategy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3hr42h/why_does_trp_not_make_rk_selection_theory_their/?

I reproduced the data collected from that thread on another website and it's been respectably up voted (citations given)

Hypergamy remains a complex phenomenon to consider the validity of. It’s fair to say that the notion of being ‘traded up for someone better’ is something which the ECs and gods of the Manosphere, admittedly versed in the Machiavellian’s Bible AKA Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power, may be using this (pseudo-scientific?) concept in order to exploit young and vulnerable men’s insecurities and have them join the fold. After all, who wants to feel like the person they love views them second best? Therefore I still have to approach this idea with caution, despite the grand EP and behavioural explanations The Rational Male provides for it.

Re: Hypergamy, it currently seems that there's a tendency on this sub by TBP not to deny its existence but rather defend it, either with

a) shaming tactics of the feminine imperative e.g. 'get over it' 'stop being bitter' 'most guys date out of their league anyway' etc.

or by

b) trying to sympathise with, in fact, its evolutionary purpose-'women need protection so it was logical for them to evolve this drive for the most high status man' etc.

Of course, I am yet to see anyone take responsibility for said imperatives.

Ah, that word. I hear this on the Manosphere a lot, to the degree it's almost a cop-out; when a behaviour can be described as debased or immoral, it's redirected to an amoral paradigm through describing it as a 'pre-rational imperative'. We’ve had the discussions upon the ethics and morality of RP sexual strategy many times before, the best thread of late being this

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3iyz9m/trp_conflates_sexual_strategy_is_amoral_knowledge/?

Yet most of the evidence for ‘pre-rational imperatives’ provided by the blogs amounts to pseudo-science, and even the 3Rs rarely cite their works, but rather vaguely refer to 'my friend the esteemed scientist Dr. Poopy Pants can back up my research'. Harvard referencing would have a field day with this. [At this point I shall concede to Rollo Tomassi, who I hold in high esteem for his teachings on Game, that he has wrote an extensive article called 'In Defense of Evo-Psych.', which needs analysis and rebuttal at a later date, ideally by someone more qualified than myself in STEM or Psychology]. Link

http://therationalmale.com/2015/06/09/in-defense-of-evo-psych/

With regards to these 'pre-rational imperatives', the aim seems to become a way to veer TRP from being purely a seedy PUA phenomenon of trying to pull shitty women, to the AWALT, ‘innate female nature’ assumption. Questionably a toxic assumption, as I learned the hard way with my ex/friend…

  1. TBP debunks "Women: The Most responsible teenager in the House"

In general, I'm hesitant to adopt the Blue Pill approach, because it is both essentially gynocentric and idealistic, and also heavily relies upon empathetic paradigms to denounce TRP as misogyny. In particular on the main sub, simply trying to debate an RP principle instigates a visceral emotional reaction. Not only is this non-conducive to good debate, but women by default have an upper hand with empathetic frameworks, by and large having been socialised to master them from a young age. Thus to engage upon the empathetic with a mostly misandrist-leaning base, leaves a man at a disadvantage. (More on this later)

However, it seems that around 2 years ago, before TRP and TBP really took up arms and were still on talking terms outside of this sub, there was an excellent post on TBP debunking the infamous 'Women: The Most responsible Teenager in the House' side-bar post. Apparently, even some RPers were and maybe are against this being deemed ‘side-bar’ material (yet again u/HappilySingleWoman questioned this a few months back). There was avid debate about it on the pre-PPD sub r/RedPillDebate, and this post managed to get the whole sub shut down under the pretence of concern trolling. To this day, posting a thread with criticisms of the side-bar leads to an instant temp. ban.

So far so much waffle. Links in question

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1glxy9/i_scienced_so_hard_that_the_trp_mods_wet_their/

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillDebate/comments/1gdlt8/the_elephant_in_the_room_for_me_is_the_view_on/cajc62x

The crucial comment was deleted from RPD surely before it was shut down, but I'll reproduce it in the comments section, from the 1st link, post is too long at present (it's probably on PPD a few months ago)

Permalink: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1glxy9/i_scienced_so_hard_that_the_trp_mods_wet_their/caly7lu

There are 2 ways that I have interpreted this; one is Blue or Purple, and the other actually provides more potential weight for RP theories.

  1. Blue/Purple: The Hamster is a learned behavior reinforced by environmental conditions which breed a mentality of female hypo agency.

Given that neurological differences between men and women do not hold up to the ‘most responsible teenager in the house’ myth, we need to explore what leads some women to become gold for RP theory. I can think of several reasons for female hypoagency:

  • untreated mental illness of the DSMV Cluster B Personality Disorders: such as borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, more severe cases of clinical depression, and narcissistic personality disorder

  • being raised from a privileged background or spoiled as a child

  • being a victim of domestic or emotional abuse significantly increases your risk of developing abusive behaviours yourself

  • But surely the most obvious reason would be: the pussy pass. I don’t know wheher women here would agree, but we seem to have a serious societal problem of giving women, especially hot women, concessions for shitty behaviour. This is a hypothesis, but given my knowledge on neuroplasticity, it seems that reinforcing to women that they can get away with what they like just for having a vagina or being pretty, is eventually going to have them internalize a mentality of hypoagency?

This problem is exacerbated by what many on TRP regard as a toxic ideology, 3rd wave ‘pop-feminism’ AKA #YouGoGrrl. While it’s wonderful to motivate our young women to succeed in life and derive self-esteem absent from a potentially chauvinistic traditional gender role such as sexual/romantic success with men, the implication that one can have it all simply by wishing for good things or showing up, has been proven to breed an entitled and quickly self-victimising ‘special snowflake’ mentality. Dr. Steve Peters of the ground-breaking Chimp Paradox refers to this as ‘Snow White Syndrome’.

Now for the catch!

  1. RP: The data would suggest that women are at least of equal intelligence as men.

What if this meant that women are becoming masters of manipulation?

Think about it. Bringing out our EP knowledge of gender dimorphism, women historically had smaller, weaker physical statures and thus evolved to manipulate their environment to provide and protect for them through non-physical means. The most self-evident of these being

a) Sexuality (as noted by the likes of the pussy pass and passive dread)

b) Language and emotion

Both of these in a contemporary form work off an empathetic paradigm: i.e. emotion. But women actually have BETTER emotional regulation and impulse control than men on average! So, men are being raised and nurtured by Not only this, but men have been increasingly told for the past century to tune into their empathetic side, and stop being so logical and emotionally aloof as part of ‘toxic masculinity’–see Sensitive New Age Guy phenomenon which bred the Nice Guy Syndrome. But we know that women resent this, or at least are not attracted to it (Beta Game)

Freud and other psychoanalysts have frequently noted the crucial emotional power that women hold over men since the development of a Madonna/Whore, Oedipal etc. complex during their nurturing. This is one of the bases of both No More Mr Nice Guy and The Manipulated Man. Here is one such article that I posted on my pre-Reddit base

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3179493

http://edition.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/10/25/o.glass.ego/

-> this is worth a read, based upon research by psychologist Jay Carter: ‘Women’s power to hurt the male ego’

Given all this, is it possible that these sexual imperatives of women are not even pre-rational, but quite deliberate most of the time? Thus Hypergamy and the rationalization hamster becomes very conscious manipulation of weak-minded men, and a gynocracy consolidated under the false pretense of ‘patriarchy’ in order to retain a justification for simultaneous female hypoagency during feminist liberation.

Interested to hear your thoughts on all of this. Does the problem start with men kneeling before the power of pussy, or with women as default for being masters of the emotional realm? Is the rationalization hamster genetic or a learned behaviour? Does environmental upbringing and ethical values help to moderate the immediacy of exacting hypergamy, in favour of a more ethical approach? Are women covertly selective with their empathy in order to exact out their sexual strategy with more efficiency?

Alternatively, are most Redpillers essentially sufferers of a Madonna/Whore complex and gynophobia?

Many questions to be asked.

Kudos to Anon from TBP for posting it 2 years back (shame I can’t grant citations)