I found that women were generally not very understanding and would often ghost if you had ED during your first sexual encounter with them even if you guys were trying to build a relationship. I’m sure there are tons of things at play like her self esteem being affected. Even if you developed a bond in prior dates, they’ll often lose interest after a bad sex session(it’s their right; not blaming them) but it can be very frustrating. But yeah what’s your experience?

I am fit, 6’4 215 lbs 13 percent body fat. No health issues and I did sex therapy for a year focusing on being in the moment during sex. I can have sex but it’s pretty much only missionary and doing foreplay(being blown until I’m close to cumming) or jerking off until I’m close then edging inside her. I have a gf now but I’m haunted by the stressful situations I’ve been with chicks who just weren’t understanding(the majority that I met no matter how interested they were initially).