Trash took itself out 🗑

thewetdog_ · 2020-10-03T12:47:23+00:00

I may be in the minority here but I don’t find this #LVthings or consider him trash.

He literally did the right thing and was honest with you. He straight up told you you deserve more, basically to have someone interested in getting to know you, and that since he wasn’t that he wouldn’t want to meet anymore.

Low value would have been to say he doesn’t want anything else but sex, but still insist you come over. The fact that you were willing to go to another city to meet a guy from an app was easy pickings for the guy, and he still had enough integrity to not go through with it - and to be honest as to why. Maybe he is looking for something serious, just not with you and that’s okay.

I think this guy gave a good response. He didn’t lie and he didn’t ghost you, leaving you to wonder why you never heard from him again.

Honestly i think he handled it how it should be, even though he acknowledges it’s harsh.

Consider yourself lucky. I feel like this was a good one. Just because a guy doesn’t want a relationship with you doesn’t make him trash. It’s how he handles that fact, and this guy wasn’t willing to lead you on - he thought it wasn’t the right thing to do.

Good on him, and lucky you. Take this a win. If all men were like this the world would be a much better place.

Title	Trash took itself out 🗑
Author	HoneyBouquet
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	October 3, 2020 11:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j4ejfc/trash_took_itself_out/
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