Personal boundaries are like a Hollywood club. Inside there are lots of cool people and positive emotions, but outside there is a line with crying, begging uncool people that cannot get in because they would spoil the atmosphere. A hollywood club is an entity; likewise you must be an entity with lots of cool people that surround you and giving off positive vibes, and uncool people get left out. Any bullshit that comes around is either stomped out or ignored.

Find a bigger purpose, a mission in life. You need a direction, or North Star that you must put before anything else in your life. Do not put your woman first; she will resent you for it. Lead her along for the ride as you pursue your destiny; you should be her purpose. Don’t be a dickhead about it, but treat it like a business with her as your staff. As a business owner you will always be cool to your staff but if they fuck up your business they get fired. Like staff she will respect you and work hard for you to keep you on track for your goals. She will wanna fuck you because she will act like a brat, you will draw the boundary, then she will beg, you won’t budge, and in the process she will get horny and will want to fuck. But if you cave in to her demands, are spineless, uncalibrated, needy; she will feel this distaste/resentment that will repel her away from you. Many men are bitter about this fact. Are you bitter that women don’t want a purposeless, directionless little bitch and will cheat on you if you are mediocre? Instead of being bitter be thankful that she can help you stay on point and focused on your purpose and goals.

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