Is there an appropriate/non creepy way to message a girl I've seen around campus at the new university I transferred to?

1NV0K3R · 2015-01-23T15:26:37+00:00

Next time you see her on campus just be like, "yo we know some of the same people and I'm new here, lets get coffee/drinks blah blah."

Jesus some of you make this so much harder than it has to be.

KarmaEnthusiast · 2015-01-23T15:35:24+00:00

I followed her. Surprisingly she actually followed me back

Mistake one. You are putting yourself in the orbiter role already. Unfollow immediately.

Next time you see her go up and approach her as if you don't know her.

If you get her number then later you guys can discuss mutual friends.

You may think that it gives you an advantage that you know similar people but she doesn't care.

[deleted] · 2015-01-23T16:16:22+00:00

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Redrog1 · 2015-01-23T15:46:08+00:00

Be attractive, don't be unattractive.

Creepiness is mostly not about how it is done but who does it.

[deleted] · 2015-01-23T15:55:15+00:00

Up your SMV, and give no fucks about the outcome.

You can literally say/do anything you want with a woman if your SMV is high enough.

Example: I know a woman who filed rape charges on a man for climbing into the same bed as her. His SMV was abysmal and he was (to use her words) creepy.

Same girl allowed a guy to fuck her while she was passed out from a night of hard drinking. She not only didn't accuse him of rape, but she keeps seeking him out. His SMV is high.

AlphaXpipubs · 2015-01-23T19:15:56+00:00

"I want to know if there is an appropriate/non-creepy way to message her (either direct message on instagram or facebook maybe)"

No - a message from a guy she doesn't know is always seen as weak. Why not have the balls to go up and say, "Hey, are you a good cook?"

Then tease her about cooking you dinner and challenge her that her abilities may not be up to par for you.

http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-impress-a-girl/

Pornography_saves_li · 2015-01-23T20:32:04+00:00

Find her on campus, say something like 'you look familiar...where have I met you before?'. She may refer to the following thing. If so, make a PASSING REFERENCE to her being kinda hot, so yeah, you probably follow her (subtext: you follow a lot of hot girls to remind you of your potentials - do NOT say this to her, think of it as your reason while talking to her). Ask her her name (even if you know it), and run what many would call 'day game'.

Say 'see you around', then leave. If she wants to exchange numbers fine, but ideally you 'bump into her' later for that.

Many little social 'kisses' is the best approach. She sees you around, nothing serious is ever said, you are obviously interested but not fixated... that's what you're going for.

Do not, ever, initiate or try to initiate any kind of meaningful interaction via anything but in-person conversation.

Title	Is there an appropriate/non creepy way to message a girl I've seen around campus at the new university I transferred to?
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Date	January 23, 2015 3:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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