Went on a first date with a girl I really like, but she takes about 24 hours to respond to texts...

thebadguy89 · 2019-10-03T03:40:47+00:00

Call her out on it? that's an autistic move

Usually you wanna match or be longer than their pace but in this case you can reply within 24 hours and it should be ok.

I'd try to give you more advice but given your lack of experience and how much you're oneitising this girl, you're probably gonna fuck it up anyway.

TerminallyChill94 · 2019-10-03T03:35:58+00:00

Try not texting her unless you're trying to meet up. And don't put her on a pedestal

[deleted] · 2019-10-03T03:46:57+00:00

Should I call her out on it?

Kiss date number 2 goodbye if you do. Text her for logistics, and if she takes a long time to reply then set the logistics for a few days in advance. Make sure you are still gaming other girls and get this one off the pedistal if you really want a chance with her.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-03T04:49:55+00:00

I really don’t want to fuck it up because she’s by far the hottest girl I’ve ever been on a date with

You will definitely fuck it up thinking like this

Vypered · 2019-10-03T04:01:42+00:00

However long she takes to reply to you, double that for your own replies. and only text about logistics. Have you read the sidebar? Are you lifting heavy 3+ times per week?

[deleted] · 2019-10-03T05:19:56+00:00

You already fucked up. And didn't read sidebar.

SonOfMammon · 2019-10-03T07:20:07+00:00

Probably doing it on purpose so she doesn't seem too "easy". Don't message her from now on, wait for her to message you first.

Title	Went on a first date with a girl I really like, but she takes about 24 hours to respond to texts...
Author	4ltland
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	October 3, 2019 3:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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