I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-05T12:40:50+00:00

Bang lots of women and see how you feel

MeansToABenz · 2019-10-05T12:57:33+00:00

This is why you need a purpose in your life. Most men that say that are not driven I have found; their purpose is to bang. I personally fall into the category of being over banging lots of women and in LTR.

Kabuki431 · 2019-10-05T14:49:36+00:00

Once you crack the code and get laid super easily, it will feel like working in a call center. You repeat the same process again and again and it becomes mentally draining and boring.

You won't agree unless u have done it.

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T15:09:41+00:00

I don't disagree. I think it does get old, maybe not fast, but it does reach an inflection point where you start questioning how much effort you're willing to invest.

Of course, every man is different. For me I feel like I've come to a point where I don't need to prove anything to myself anymore.

I think part of that is realizing your own value, and the value of your time and attention. You realize why women crave this valuable commodity and you start to become more selective where you spend it.

Although it might not seem like it in your teens and 20s, there's so much more to this life than just chasing tail. While for sure it's one of the more fun and interesting parts of the human experience, it's still just one part and basing your whole existence around trying to attract women is really no way to live.

nobody_thinks · 2019-10-05T16:07:49+00:00

as men we are designed by evolution to want to spread our seed as far and wide as possible

this is a trope. sure way back in distant mammalian evolution, this was the basic drive. But humans require fathers, mothers require protection, etc. A child's long term need of its father is one of the hallmarks of the human species.

so endless pump and dump might satisfy some eons old mammalian itch for orgies and endless sex, but human evolution sublimated that drive towards pair bonding, fatherhood, etc.

Boggob15 · 2019-10-05T17:16:04+00:00

Not if your procuring attractive women and keeping them as plates.

One night stands definitely gets boring.

Plates > ONS

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dani098 · 2019-10-05T13:34:15+00:00

It is boing when your balls consistently getting drained. When it’s not you approach desperation on the other end of the spectrum

temerity18 · 2019-10-05T13:16:57+00:00

I disagree

Raleigh0311 · 2019-10-06T14:22:22+00:00

I’m in a LTR now and I was with lots of women before that. I think it was always fun to bang a new chick, but the excitement definitely decreases once you realize you can get women at will. I had to turn new chicks away many times because I already had a couple new chicks lined up that week and couldn’t fit another one in my schedule.

That lifestyle was an interesting one to experience and I think I learned a lot about human nature from it. But that’s not the life I want to live permanently. First of all, it’s risky as fuck. I was fortunate enough to come away from that without an STD. It’s also pretty shallow and I personally do find a LTR with an enjoyable woman to be more satisfying.

The scary part of it though, is that I saw how women respond to being treated like just another piece of ass. They fucking loved me for it. Every single goddamn one of them would have loved for me to be their man. I They reacted to being objectified by responding to it with sweetness, adoration, submissiveness and appreciation. I never once had a woman break things off with me after I fucked her. I ended it in every single case. So I know women respond to that shit and it does make me doubt whether I can be good to a woman and treat her with respect and still have her want me the way the others did.

Haytch1234 · 2019-11-03T12:58:07+00:00

Guys that say this probably havent banged enough. Its like the guy that claims to have been a bad ass in his younger years but the biggest crime he commited was racking up a bunch of speeding fines.

Banging women is fun. The act itself is fun.

But banging for the sake of achiveving a high number is what gets old. Its pointless. The idea of sex should be simply having a hot piece of ass to unload your balls into.

The process can get old. Once you know how women work its kind of like working in autopilot. The process becomes easy and mundane. But having a hot piece of ass and a new one every now and then to unload your balls inside will never get old.

AMaskedFellow · 2019-10-05T17:37:03+00:00

True. 2 good plates every 3-4 months and one strong LTR, I can focus on my mission in life.

the_Milkweed · 2019-10-05T19:56:08+00:00

This is why the term 'bitches ain't shit' exists. It becomes easy and easy things don't feel worth all that much.

proplfax · 2019-10-05T15:34:20+00:00

you ever been so excited about something that you wake up and you're just pumped as fuck to get to it? try to remember how many times that was to have sex with a girl. for me that was never. sex has never been that awesome. business? traveling? doing something new with a friend? 100%.

but your brain has this way of making sex all encompassing if you don't have it. that's one thing i like about relationships. i get it on-tap and don't have to think about it. having to be so fucking sick at so much shit just to fuck a 7 is exhausting to me. it's not worth it. i'm better than any 10 of these whores combined, but dudes better than me have excel harems on these dating apps and it honestly has changed the game a lot. so i'm done with it. moving to greener pastures.

max_peenor · 2019-10-05T21:52:57+00:00

Most men want to secure ass and then go soft. It's easier and men aren't as picky about vagina as women are about dick. The problem is even if you find your one sweetie unicorn, that doesn't mean you get to keep her after you go soft.

L3onard3 · 2019-10-05T16:58:05+00:00

Just how hot were the women in his stable? There is always another level up to challenge anyone.

Title	I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?
Author	krunchtimer
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Date	October 5, 2019 12:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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