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| 1 | Getting my first fuck tomorrow and tips or advice?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rtWJAPXiP_Y | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:19 AM |
| 8 | A letter to myself regarding the use of online datingShortcut in a good way though | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | All women are whoresAlright, so to summarize in the least amount of words I can think of... "Fit in socially, while always working towards your own goals and interests." Sound about right? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 10:46 AM |
| 5 | All women are whoresGreat comment. I wholeheartedly agree. After all - Why focus so much on "changing the bads of the world" while even I haven't figured out everything about myself. Yeah, maybe I am living a more happy life than others out there, but It's not like there's no room for improvement. Should just channel that energy in myself. After all, I'm not responsible for anyone's happiness no matter how shitty I think their lifestyles are, It's not my job to interfere. That's how I'm starting to approach it, but… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 10:04 AM |
| 6 | All women are whoresMan, I'm really glad for your reply. A lot of the things you said resonated with my own thoughts for a while now and I was sure I couldn't be the only one here who thought the same. For example : Again, the vast majority aren't ready or willing to listen, an nobody likes unsolicited advice. So you just STFU. Yep. It sucks, because even though you are right, again - no one gives a shit. Too much ego at play. You tell the truth to a Billy beta and they won't listen, and most likely even hate you f… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 01:31 AM |
| 2 | All women are whoresbecause you're concentrating on the tone, not the content. I'm glad you bring this up, Red, because this is a topic that I've been trying to understand on how to properly apply in my day to day life. I completely agree with you with the premise... if we lived in an ideal, rational world. The simple fact of the matter is - we don't. No one gives a shit about logic or truth ("content") in real life, they only care about what your words and actions make them feel. Did you mean this in the context o… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you older guys think that rare use of LSD/shrooms or weed is useless for meditation/introspection, or enhancing spiritual/creative events?Great comment. You described me perfectly in the first paragraph. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?Find out for yourself | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 10 | No issue approaching low smv dudes, old men and women, and really ugly chicks for convo. The issue I have is approaching any chick I find remotely attractive to me at all, or approaching any dudes with higher smv than me (at least looks-wise). Could this be an ego problem? How do I fix it?Thats hot | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Redpill aware beta guy. Fell in love, oneitis etc. Married, soon to be divorced mother of one (I know I'm so bad at this!). She says she'll need about a year of being single before being comfortable dating. She asked me to spend time with her, cuddle, possibly kiss.Look, you're here because you are looking for advice, that reassurance. This is the comment you're looking for. I'll just say - there is not even a 0.001% chance that you should stay. Everyone here who'll read your thread will say the same thing. Everyone knows you are rationalizing, and you do too. This is not even about making it work, this is about your self-respect. Don't do this to yourself. It might seem hard to grasp now in your emotional state, but you'll likely cringe just thinking abou… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 07:33 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?I am a square when it comes to night life, won't even deny that. I do keep the "hate" inside me though, never outwardly telling anyone how it sucjs etc. I am trying to at least have some fun, but I'm pretty sure It can be felt that I'm not enjoying any of it. Doing stupid shit with mates is definitely at least somewhat fun, I'll try and take a piss at things more often. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 09:58 AM |
| 3 | How to enjoy night life?Did you mean "wings" as in "wingmen" by any chance? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to enjoy night life?...sounds like I said something autistic. Did I? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?Go out and have some fun. Enjoy being young. I am enjoying myself a lot, actually. Hedonistic lifestyle is a lie, dude. And as for the last part - a lot of people have said they regretted partying in their early years. And shit, it's not like I don't party - I'm pretty social, just not enjoying night game. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?Stores, walking around town, etc well yeah, but I already mentioned that - day game. But fair enough. Good advice nonetheless. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?...where? Day game - sure, slowly getting used to it, but other than that - where the hell do I pick up chicks without joining some weird activities just to get pussy. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:29 AM |
| 4 | How to enjoy night life?Seems like we are looking at night life the same way. I also go there to practice being more social / approach chicks. Really the only reason I still try tbh. Get wings, preferably other guys going out sober. ... as in chicken wings? Don't have that shit in my country at clubs. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?Of course! The reason why I do want to enjoy night life is because I want to get laid, maybe that's not a big enough reason. Like seriously - what's the point of night life other than to get smashed and degenerate away? There are plenty of other ways to have fun that are much more beneficial for you in the long term. But fair enough - my vibe is definitely off when I'm out, likely because of my stance on hedonism and degenerate activities. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?Thanks for the advice, dude! I'll see if there's an app like that in my country, perhaps something similar at least. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy night life?You don't like drunk people in groups or loud music For the most part - yeah. I do like loud music that I like myself, though. you're antisocial and boring as fuck FereallyRed, I respect your advice. I could write how stupid it is that living a healthy lifestyle is considered boring, but in reality - that's the perception, and I can't deny that no matter how much I hate the fact. So... how do I become not boring for this type of a crowd? (night life). How do I enjoy the atmosphere of the scene? … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Yes. I'd avoid anyone on your course though, seeing them is gonna be awkward. Man, but it might be a lot of fun too ahahah, as long as I don't majorly fuck up. But fair enough. I'll stick to anonymous and low pressure settings for now, and uni girls from different courses. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"The horniness subsides Does it? Because I was horny for like 20+ days after my first 1-2 weeks. Is that essentially "flatline" when you stop being horny? I heard that's not a good thing too, and that in general - being on NoFap for long periods of time isn't beneficial by any scientific measures. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | "Fake Alpha"Interesting enough, I've tried NoFap already. And you are right - I did approach a lot more, and the sexual energy was also likely felt more. There was a major downside though - I couldn't concentrate for shit after certain amount of days. So yeah, maybe my interactions and energy was better when talking to girls, but when I came home - I couldn't even do simple tasks if I was horny or hard. Sucked ass. Right now, I masturbate 1-2 times a week, if 2 times, then on the same day, without death gri… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Guys are also assholes not just girls. Yeah, of course, but why give attention to the type of people who acted shitty to you in the past? I guess it's either die with my pride and ego and doing what I believe is right (aka the moral way), or throw away the grudge and indulge in the same lifestyle that once laughed at me (realistic, and likely the more happier way, but have to throw away what makes me - me)... both are very unappealing choices, honestly. Ah shit. Read my last post. My fwb is curr… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Thanks man, I really liked that, very balanced response. Cheers, best of luck in your endeavors as well! | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Just want to mention - I live in northern / eastern europe. There are 10-40~ people in a course, depending on the subject. While U.S influence is obviously felt here a little as wel, when it comes to getting a ticket to the sexual assault kangaroo court - doesn't really happen here, different laws and shit. At the very least, It's much less of a problem comparatively, in fact, I'm not sure I've ever heard about sexual accusations in social circles, or big scandals in schools about that stuff. he… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"narcisistic What exactly was narcissistic about any of that? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Fair, I do have a "problem" with that, if you can call it that (strong belief in my opinions). That said, it's only a problem if it doesn't work... Think about it - if the only difference between current me and a another me was that the other me was smashing plates weekly, then suddenly - I'd look like a genius, right? I also have very little reason to believe I'm incredibly wrong from an objective reality, because other than being a virgin and being scared of escalating - I'm doing great! I'm f… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"You hate the slut look because they don’t put out for you. That's fair. I definitely agree with you here. I do think that's only one of the reasons. The other one being, of course, hating them because of the blue pill conditioning in my past. I feel like if I now gave them my attention, I'd be admitting that the way these type of girls acted to me in the past was "correct". I feel like giving them my attention now is admitting my defeat. It's like if a fat girl who was laughed at by jocks in her… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | "Fake Alpha"Fair, and I kinda agree. I thought "Fake Alpha" would be a more catchy title and better "understandable" for the general audience. I'm definitely feeling great almost every single day, only lacking in some departments now that I'm trying to fix. Better to be a virgin than a blue pill billy in a relationship or a party dude that goes out clubbing every 2 days and gets laid once every blue moon. Life is good, and I've got great things ahead of me, I know it. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Why write at all then? Did you just want to open an "ASKtrp" post and point out shit without giving any meaningful advice? Stop wasting both of our time. Like shit, even if you are right - I don't know what you ARE right about other than saying I'm rationalizing shit... rationalizing what? I genuinely want to know. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"you're a beta pussy. Alright. Caring about what people think of you when you'll be gone from them forever in 2-3 years. Of course I care, everyone does when they have nothing that backs them up, unless they have retard confidence. People who have the "IDGAF" attitude can afford to not care only because they understand how social calibration works and they have proven experience to know that what they'll do works. It's kinda like when you know the rules, then you can brake them. Right now - I don… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"That's not a question, and you know it. what answer do you expect to help you? One that makes sense, not just because "yeah bro, it's me, the random on the internet who said it works, yeah, trust me bro". For example, what MattyAnon said made sense, as well as some other dudes, and with some dudes, I agreed with some of the advice they said and disagreed with other. Even the previous comment you wrote where I replied with that long ass message to that other guy, there are points that I agree wit… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"I guess we'll see when I get down to it! (2 years ago was my last try, was in heavy monk mode and was afraid to escalate / approach in that time). Hope you're doing good. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Answering =/= rationalization. Disagreeing with what I think is wrong is not necessarily rationalization, it's only rationalization if it *actually is . Taking an answer from some random on the internet and immediately treating it as "absolute truth" is just as stupid if not more. You should be able to criticize even the advice someone gives you. Tell me what I'm rationalizing, and we can discuss it. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Porn and death grip aren’t the problem Are you saying that death grip / porn addiction has nothing to do with ED? Because while I do understand the points you bring up very well, and I'm not denying them either - Of course I'm likely nervous as well, overthinking shit etc. BUT, when you physically can't get hard, just because of how much you wank, and that someone else touching you literally makes you feel pain - then there's veeeery likely something more to it. But sure - I'll agree that what y… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Yep, same stance on that. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Fair. Cultural / regional differences actually do matter in some contexts. TRP does for the most part focus on U.S as far as I know, but most of it can be applied elsewhere (well, unless you live in like Saudi Arabia or something). | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Approaching during the day isn’t going to make a difference. For approaching at night settings? Agreed, doesn't really transfer. It's mostly about getting comfortable with the setting, not just approaching in general. Just go out to a party and approach there. I'll be honest - I really don't like night life. I might slightly still be in the anger phase because I hate the "slut look" , degenerate hip hop / rap songs blasting everywhere, drunk people etc. Being sober and living a completely differ… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Brah - this was my reply to your very first comment in this thread : Of course it doesn't bother me long term, and even the cringiest experiences that I've gone through have been positive for my development in the long term, but with that said - why try to get a bad experience if you can get a good one? Why not get past the mental block (by approaching disconnected / anynomous / low pressure environment girls) and then approach your own course girls, knowing that your dick is actually gonna work… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Imposter Syndrome That's another way to put it, yeah. My mental hasn't fully adjusted to the change in my reception yet. Nobody gives a shit about your image or what "sort of person" category you believe yourself to be Of course not. I'm not gonna act like I'm the center of the universe. Even if I do fuck up in the worst possible way, unless I'm a goat fucker or get a false rape accusation or whatever, people will forget and move on. That said, that doesn't mean there aren't consequences if I sc… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Eastern Europe, Baltic states. there's about 15k people studying in my Uni total, but my freshman course for what I'm studying has 30 people. Just the way it is over here. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"Love how you cut “and insulting them with names” from my quote because that’s exactly what you’ve been doing. Why would I be the upset one? Yes, why indeed. How’s that a comeback? I’m just fucking with you at this point. It’s pretty clear you’re too delusional and stubborn to be receptive to any useful advice or input. Alright. But how are there only 13 people in your course? You’re saying course, not class, right? 30 people in course. 13-14~ dudes, rest are girls. I'm not from the U.S, a course… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 07:07 PM |
| -1 | "Fake Alpha"Only one of us is getting agitated with strangers on the internet Yes, you. Come see for myself? OP, are you hitting on me? No, I won’t take your virginity! Nice comeback, totally not forced at all. Late adolescences and early 20s are pretty good years for men, hormonally speaking so statistically they’re most likely in their best shape. Forget the theory, fact of the matter is - there are about 13 dudes in my course, and out of the 13 people - I'm the fittest one. It's not that hard to be bette… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"Nobody is a RP Rambo sex God the first time Of course, but not everyone is limp 2-3 times in a row as well. Again, It's not like I didn't have any chances, I just couldn't get it up when I had to because of the reasons mentioned in the post / comments. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:48 PM |
| -1 | "Fake Alpha"You’re a virgin, so you wouldn’t know how your dick would work until you’ve lost your virginity. It's not about how it works, it's about if it works at all. reading comprehension Really? I’m ‘riled’ up and ‘weak’ by your cringe posting, despite all of your name calling? weak Why wouldn’t I try and see what else you’ve posted, in attempt to try and gain some clarity on this nonsensical post. weaaaaak You certainly don’t look over 20% and your arms are kind of thin looking. Come see for yourself. … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"I was definitely thinking about getting some lube or even Viagra / other similar stuff, just to get over the mental hump. I'll look into it, thanks. As for escorts - fuck that. Wouldn't want to lose my virginity by paying, weak as shit. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"Fair enough. Thanks for the advice dude. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"What even makes you think that your “dick won’t work”? Just doesn’t make sense I'll say it one more time - reading comprehension. I literally mentioned multiple times in both comments and I believe even the main post that I had ED problems in the past and a fucked up porn addiction that included edging and a death grip. I had 2-3 times to lose my virginity and all 3 times I couldn't get it up at all, likely due to cartoon titties porn fucking up what my brain finds attractive and what not. Plus,… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"Interesting. So if my dick doesn't work and she gossips to others about me being limp as shit, others will still want to fuck me? I find it hard to believe. I understand the "women want guys that other women want" ... well yeah, but not guys who can't even get hard, right? That’s it stop over thinking it, the goal is to fuck You aren’t trying to impress people. Of course the goal is to fuck, and it's definitely not about impressing people. It's about me not fucking up chances with girls I could … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:19 PM |
| -2 | "Fake Alpha"You're avoiding girls within your 'own course' because that is somehow 'more pressure' Correct Approach social circle girl -> dick don't work -> lower smv = more pressure approach random girl -> dick don't work -> who cares, no one finds out = less pressure Maybe this explanation can help you understand this incredibly complicated situation. so you're asking strangers on the internet if you should still contact her (despite being outside of this sacred course of yours No, fuckface. I asked what'… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"If you’re the fittest guy, popular and above average looking in college, why are you a virgin. Why are those things mutually exclusive? You can be hot and still a virgin, after all - even the nastiest slut was once a virgin. I already said the reasons, but sure - 2 years ago, I was 20 kg lighter, no muscle mass at all. I also took a gap year and did not really focus on socializing much, focusing on some business projects and my fitness. Now suddenly, I'm back in social situations, except now - I… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"...well yeah, I agree with you. So essentially - you are calling me out on the fact that me not approaching / escalating social circle girls is a form of rationalization, and that even if I fail miserable since I have no experience - I should do it either way because long term, I will benefit from it more, right? Could you explain why I shouldn't start in an environment where my SMV won't be reduce if I fail? Is it because it's too safe? And regarding the "caring" part, It's an interesting topic… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"What you want isn't a low pressure environment. What you want is anonymity. ie fucking girls who are not part of your social circle. Exactly, you put it better than I could. Is that a rationalization, or a fair way of taking it step by step? Don't shit where you eat. So girls in college , who are in different courses ... is considered "shitting where you eat" now? A bit of a stretch imo. It's not like It's my workplace or something. If you wrote that comment in regards to my own Uni course girls… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 0 | "Fake Alpha"You might actually be retarded, holy shit. Why are your replies still in reference to this "one girl" you got a number from and girls who may potentially be in her social circle? Please point me to any of my comments where I was at any point in this discussion specifically talking about "this one girl". I might be a virgin, but at least I have basic reading comprehension, fuckface. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:40 PM |
| -1 | "Fake Alpha"not approaching social circle girls =/= not approaching at all, dumbass. I'm still gonna approach, just gonna start out in a lower-pressure environment where my social status can't be fucked with. Capiche? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"No, I'm saying that I don't want to approach "closer circle" girls when I still don't even know if my dick works. Essentially, I'm trying to avoid "shitting where I eat" when I don't have much experience. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | "Fake Alpha"don't worry about it and who gives a shit if she somehow tells her girlfriends about a less than perfect experience. Shouldn't bother you. Of course it doesn't bother me long term, and even the cringiest experiences that I've gone through have been positive for my development in the long term, but with that said - why try to get a bad experience if you can get a good one? Why not get past the mental block and then approach your own course girls, knowing that your dick is actually gonna work etc?… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?I have listened to it. You are still missing the point. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Yeah, it's a shame. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?"hurr duurr deeper meaning" Pulled that one out of your ass? I'm not gonna say that my favorite genre - Techno, has "deeper meaning". What I can say is that it doesn't have shitty lyrics promoting degenerate culture most of the time, so it's listenable. "Deeper Meaning". So deep that people who listen to hip hop and rap are more depressed than others and indulge in shitty lifestyles. Nice one. I'll be very honest with you - I feel like you've missed the point of what I'm saying the past 4-5 comm… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?The fact that you put so much time into this reply proves my point, man. ...I proved your point by stating that I agree with your point in my previous comment. Like come on, I even literally wrote these exact words - "Exactly, I'm not denying that one bit" when it come to acknowledging your point, which was +- me hating "fake flex" culture and being disgusted that degenerates get higher SMV these days than good people. Don't push an agenda just because you want to. You can do better than that. w… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Hip Hop heads to causal listeners listen to kendrick. Yes, and I think that Hip Hop culture is degenerate, and that people who listen to hip hop more often than not, especially women, are hedonistic degenerates. I don't hate hip hop and rap for the melodies, I hate it for what it represents most of the time, because quite frankly, the most "relative mainstream" hip hop is about the same shit, and even "lyrical miracle" rappers like Hopsin etc are just cringey and garbage too. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?I wanted to include Kendrick as an example as well, because quite frankly - I don't think he's any better. Sure, his music is better, he's one of the most talented artists in recent times, but at the end of the day - who listens to Kendrick? The only people I do know who do listen to him are "middle class +" party dudes and hip hop sluts who want to appear more "sophisticated" than your average club slut, and when he was more mainstream - the club sluts also listened to him with songs like DNA a… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Fair. Working at least keeps my mind from thinking of all this shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?I don't listen to rap in my free time. And as far listening to the wrong rappers? I doubt it. Even rappers that I don't hate and can enjoy the song for the beats, for example - Biggie Smalls, at the end of the day, it's still a genre (hip hop in general) that promotes degeneracy and short-term pleasure based lifestyle. Even Biggie's songs are about that. The positive messages don't mean shit, since there's plenty of other genres you can get positive messages without getting the downsides like in… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?not every hot girl is a club going thot ... well yeah, I said so, didn't I? doesn't change the fact that it's a minority. You would agree that you tend to see the "slut" look daily more often than the "classy, going things going for her, minimal makeup" look, right? And even that look 50% of them are sluts just keeping up with appearances, just don't look the part. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?There are plenty of girls who hate hip hop and degeneracy, dont kid yourself, but it does seem hard to conceive when you're around it so often. Yeah, of course, but It's definitely a minority, a strong one too. Hot chicks generally tend to flock together, and they tend to live more hedonistic lifestyles than uglier women. Like shit, this isn't even about finding a unicorn. It's more so finding hot chicks with shit actually going on in their lives who aren't hedonistic, while at the same time pro… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?I can work on my own and hate someone else's for completely objective reasons, thank you very much. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Again and again - I know. And again and again - It's still shit and a degenerative culture and I hate it. Sure, you can say that hating it won't make it go away. Well yeah, that makes me hate it even more, knowing that it's taunting me and I can't do nothing about it because that's how the world works. Guess I'll turn a blind eye and brainwash myself to enjoy it, but even the thought of doing that makes me want to vomit. Maybe I'll just die full of ego, at least I'll be me then. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Stop going to those kinds of clubs, period I'm not, only when my chaps from Uni are. It's not even about going to "these type of clubs", but more so maybe the people I associate myself with the most at the uni. Every time I go out with these dudes and ~hot chicks, they get incredibly drunk etc. But what options do I have here? I have to do with the people I've gotten in my Uni course, it's not like there's even time to make friends with people in other courses if I wanted to. But you do make a g… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?That's a fair comment. Finding these people, and associating with them / making friends with them... I would genuinely like to know where these people exist, because I sure as hell can't find many hot chicks that aren't degenerates or living the party lifestyle. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?"look at me, fuck on me yah" Even just one line... from one of his most mainstream songs... how is that not flexing? Even if it isn't, I hate the fact that shitty ass messages that talk about depression and drug abuse get popular. Inb4 retards say "but him rapping about depression helped me cure mine, so relatable and emotional, rip X!!1! . Clearly not, since suicide rates have increased by 40% in the last 30 years and substance abuse has increased two-fold even in the last two decades. Overall,… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Sounds like you hate that these "fake-flexxers" have more status (SMV) than you do. Exactly, I'm not denying that one bit. I hate that you can get more status by being a degenerate than a decent human being. I believe that's a very valid reason to be angry at the world for it being not the way I want it to be, even if it does me no favors. I hate the realization that if you ever actually do a good thing, no one will give a shit, and if you don't abuse the tendencies of human nature, then someone… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Not talking about black guys specifically. There are plenty of fake-flex shitty ass white rappers too. Feel free to not like rap, but damn man if you Hate it you got a problem. Why? Just because you say so? Good one bro. Like why give a fuck about rap at all? Why? Because I have to hear that shitty ass garbage every time I go out to any somewhat popular club. I hate the type of people it attracts (hedonistic lifestyle), literally have not met a girl who listens to hip hop who isn't a slut. It ru… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Mostly reffering to some of my own country's artists, if you want a link, I'll give you one. If we are talking about american music, take any artist that did not have anything going for them financially or emotionally, except for maybe some hedonistic activities and depression. If they did have things going for them either financially etc, and just used music as a way to gain quick profit etc, then I can somewhat even respect that, but most of these dudes really do live that lifestyle without "a… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Yes, and I'm saying I hate how shitty fake-flex rappers get status because dumb broads and drunk afc's like fake-flex rappers these days. Degenerate culture. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Yeah, but I hate fake-flex. Literally any dude with minimal talent can put up a rap song on soundcloud about fake-flexing on others, and if it gets popular, suddenly dumb broads think "he's made it" and that he has a high SMV. Yeah yeah "SMV is relative" and shit, but man...dudes who are actually "succeeding" in life by real metrics meanwhile get less puss thrown at them. This is definitely a "why the world isn't the way I want it to be" type comment, essentially useless. Doesn't make me think i… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:11 PM |
| 22 | Do girls actually have an easier time in college?Does it? I hate shitty rap music that's all about everyone flexing on each other. Does that actually mean I fear it in some autistic way? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 05:45 PM |
| 3 | How To Fuck Quasi Autistic Phone-Tarded Sluts In 2020I somewhat gave the answer to this, it being - turn a blind eye, read less TRP (without going into BP territory, of course. I'm just saying that constantly reading TRP can put many people in the anger phase or negative thoughts from time to time, especially depending on the type of posts). The more you think about all the bad things or injustices in the world, the less you can see the good stuff. The less you think about how dumb this slut is, the more you might be able to see how good her tight… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 16 | How To Fuck Quasi Autistic Phone-Tarded Sluts In 2020GLO, or someone here, help me understand this - How is this not embracing the "bluepill" in a way? Like, how does one actually write posts on TRP about the fucked up state of western culture while at the same time living that same lifestyle, "downleveling" to your so called quasi-sluts just to fuck them. So what, are you always gonna adapt to what sluts do, no matter how much you dislike it on a personal level? You can't tell me that living that kind of a lifestyle while completely accepting it … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on treating people with respect but knowing some people take that as an opporunity to try to feel superior or disrespect you, how do you treat people?I'm happy to look weak to some people, because in reality I'm succeeding at life and they are irrelevant to me. I do not require them for my edification. You are right, but none of this matters. The perception will still be that you are weak. If you care, then you'll have to act. If you don't (like you are saying), then don't. Depends on the situation, depends on the circumstances etc. People who are scared of how they look are weak There is no such thing as "people who do x are y" , no matter h… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 05:00 PM |
| 6 | How can I make my voice deeper and talk slower ?Breathe out with your nose as well, not mouth. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 2 | What are your views on treating people with respect but knowing some people take that as an opporunity to try to feel superior or disrespect you, how do you treat people?You are obligated to crush him in order to not look weak. You can choose not to crush him, but then you're also choosing to look weak. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some must watch Red pill TV shows/movies?First ~30 minutes of Alfie (2004, have not seen the other). After that, just turn it off. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:28 AM |
| 12 | Could DeepFake technology enable fake social proof like never beforeYou actually believe that? Dudes are buying bath water these days. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 10:44 AM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Use against you? Why do you care? Because you'd be wasting your time. If you state early on (either by actions or words) that you don't like chicks who go clubbing, for example, and 5 years later you find out she went clubbing every 2nd week behind your back, then guess what? You'll feel like a sucker who wasted his time. It's caring about your time, not her. Assuming she's a plate, what difference does it make if she's hiding or not? No difference. Talking about LTR's as the post stated. If she… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 10:23 PM |
| 3 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...For example, the one in my comment. If you never state to a girl that you don't want her to go to parties alone, even if it's to a friend's party - how the fuck will she know that that's the reason why you are soft nexting her? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Fair points. I will say that I'm purely talking about this concept in LTR's. Regarding plates - I wholeheartedly agree. Therefore, as I've already been thinking for a good while - everyone should already know here by now that marriage is a scam, but I'm going even a step further - the concept of "monogamous LTR's" is flawed as a concept just as much as marriage is. There's no guarantee that the girl will remain loyal for the trust and investment you put into her. All you're getting is a "promise… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Fair enough. Mistakes happen, as long as you aren't lying to yourself of course, but hey - wouldn't be on my conscience. I agree with the 2nd paragraph for the most part, but even dread does not guarantee her loyalty. After all, a guarantee that is based on trust is no guarantee, now is it? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | LTR and trip to vegas. First red flag in 1.5 yearsOf course. But you know how it goes with the "2nd point" these days in our current society... | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 07:05 PM |
| 3 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Hey Cain, happy to get an ED having an opinion on this discussion. Very long reply because I value your thoughts! I wholeheartedly agree with the first paragraph, but I do want to comment on the 2nd paragraph : If you are a valuable man, she sticks to her own boundaries for fear of losing you. I mentioned in another comment how from a rational standpoint - this makes complete sense. Problem is - emotions overwhelm rationality and logic, and women are very emotional creatures. She could be having… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Did I set a boundary or did I make my frame clear ldk You gave her information, information she can potentially use against you for her own benefit. The rest I can't know. Does she still have orbiters despite you mocking her about it? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Yeah, I'd agree with that, but it's still not perfect. The problem might not be with boundaries as I originally thought - It's the concept of LTR's being flawed in the first place. Having to set boundaries and needing trust to have them work is only a byproduct of a flawed concept in the first place. As I stated in another comment - I believe a "trust" based relationship just doesn't work in reality without one party having to give up some level of control or have to sacrifice something, nor doe… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...shittier? yes. Does it weed out all the masked ones? Probably not. But fair enough, there's no real guarantee to anything in life, really. If you think the risk / trust is worth it, go for it. Though I believe that for any man - it's never really worth it to be in a monogamous "trust based" relationship. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Example is if she’s telling stories about her sexual past and you say I don’t want to hear it and you have frame she will never do it again for the rest of your life together Maybe, but that's about her past stories. I'm more asking about setting boundaries for a girl's present / future actions because of her past. She can only "tell" a past story once, after all, while her current and future actions are still undecided. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Exactly. I agree with this approach wholeheartedly. The last sentence is especially true. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...If she is a plate and you feel disrespected, by all means next her. I didn't say this was an LTR, you did in the title of your post. Yes, I did, so why are you even commenting on a post that clearly states that this is specifically about LTR's then? "hurr I didn't state that my comment was about LTR's durr" ... then why the fuck did you comment advice that has nothing to do with the topic at hand then. Do you even think before you decide "hey, you know what? I'm gonna write my completely useless… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:47 PM |
| 4 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...How insecure you gotta be for this to break your boundary? Maybe let her go clubbing while we're at it too, shall we? When do we draw the line, then? Of course it's not a 0-100 type situation, but the more you allow this type of behavior, the more you open up that Pandora's box for all her future actions, thus having to increase your "trust levels" more and more, while subconsciously investing in her emotionally, giving her more power and less for you. Betafication will happen if you aren't care… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...she wouldn't dare to cross your boundaries just because you might find out. ...becaaause? No, really, I'd like to know, because you'd think it would be like this, but from my own observations and the many experiences I've read on here, it does not match reality, not a single bit. Now, it could be that the people who posted their assessment of their game / SMV were wrong, but a lot of the examples I read came from Endorsed Contributor posts. Time and time again they were drilling in the "It doesn… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:55 PM |
| 2 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...AWALT In what context here, exactly? set boundaries and create the woman you want. You can't create a unicorn. Even if you can / could, there's no saying that she will repay you the investment that you put in her. And again - you setting boundaries gives her information to use against you. You might be in an LTR for 2 years thinking that everything is going smooth, meanwhile your girlfriend goes clubbing every 2nd week with her 2nd friend group when you are working or some shit. If you wouldn't … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Yes, but I already stated my stance on this in my previous comment : I'm well aware that girls, for the most part, know what they are doing and what their actions signal With that said, here on TRP, people want to put everything into nice teeny tiny Black and White boxes , and for a good reason, because it'd be nigh impossible to break bluepill ideals if you constantly use the "Grey zone" as an excuse for your "particular, special situation". But with that said - it doesn't change the fact that … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Gym music recommendations? My playlist is getting stale.https://m.soundcloud.com/therealpressplay2/quickmixcloudnine | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What to make of ex going out with someone ugly.reads title . a wall of text Didn't even read. You're asking the wrong questions. And why do you care? You'll never get a true answer anyway. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Am I orbiting here?She could very well be in your orbit. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:13 PM |
| 9 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...I agree in this aspect. The only question then I have is - what do you do if she can't take a hint? At that point, you only have two choices - either to verbalize it, or to next her. And how do you even "enforce" things like her going to her friend's party alone etc? You soft nexting her for a week, at least from how I see it, will leave her confused in these situations, because who the fuck thinks "I really fucked up and shouldn't have gone to my friend's birthday party, it's for sure the reaso… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 11 | LTR and trip to vegas. First red flag in 1.5 yearsMen and Women aren't the same. Double standards exist for a reason. Weak men complain about double standards, while women complain about them to rationalize their behaviour (for example, "It's not fair that men who have a lot of sex are ''players'', while women are considered "sluts" whaaa). | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Honest Signals: Why Caring Kills AttractionGuys here be acting like they care for the girl "as she is" . Hilarious. Fact of the matter is - whether you are a male or a female, if you bring no value to the opposite gender, they won't care about you. Dudes care about girls "as they are" only if they are fuckable, and women care depending on what they are looking for (AF/BB~) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Such trouble with eye contact... it’s like I feel wrong for looking people in the eyes too long like I think subconsciously I don’t want to make people uncomfortable so I can’t look too long.. any advice?You're on the right path. I was in the exact same situation. The solution is to keep doing it. You will grow comfortable with it, and that's not an if - that's a fact. Trust me on this. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you slept with a professor?Teacher fetish exists. Even if the teacher is below-average, the taboo aspect can be enough to make one want to do it. (Doesn't mean you should though). | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:31 PM |
| 6 | What did I do wrong here...Why are you making her make the decisions? Make your own next time. Instead of making her text her schedule, text yours and set something up. Remember - you don't want to be in the grey zone. You want to be either in or out. If you're in - great! If you're out - also great, you can move on to the next girl. At least you know where you stand, meaning you won't be wasting your time. Staying in the grey zone is just asking to be put in the orbit. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 12 | Being a wing man when you're the AMOG? (not a flex I swear)the "talking to other guys about red pill theory is a nono" is overrated as hell here. Just calibrate depending on the situation. You don't even have to use TRP terminology, especially if they are not ready for ''harsh, rational truths". Of course It's not gonna end well if you tell your beta billy friend that he's a loser and needs to do x y and z to not be a loser. Calibrate. Just like you'd vet a girl for an LTR, you vet your friends if they are ready for some minor TRP (if you want to help t… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Let's Talk Pillow TalkDon't be a sperg. I've seen Fedora tipping autists in college reminding the teacher about a homework and walking around shouting stupid shit. Yeah, they had "IDGAF" mentality by your definition, but they were retards nonetheless and everyone laughed at them behind their backs. Did they care? Probably not, but again - they were still retarded and didn't do themselves any favors by acting that way. Social awareness matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?Absolutely stupid argument. TRP isn’t here to tell you what to do. Of course it's here to tell you what to do. What the fuck do you think happens when a person reads the sidebar, dozens of endorsed contributor posts etc? What are they all for? "Truth" in itself is not a goal of TRP, it's a byproduct of what TRP teaches and holds important. Sure, you can do whatever the fuck you want with that, but every stupid fuck here can tell you something as simple as that. So again - TRP is here to tell you… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?He is wrong. There are no tools in TRP's "toolkit" to become a cuck. Don't include that in TRP's toolbox, because it's not. Might as well tell every person here "Just play video games instead of going to the gym, it's fine. Just a toolbox teehee" , same thing. Besides, you don't use TRP as a way to fullfill your bluepill dreams. It doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....Even if she was a LTR he shouldn't give a fuck. Not worth emotionally investing in any shape of a relationship with a woman. Just enjoy it for what it is and if all goes south, move on. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Treating girls like children as someone who's really bad with childrenThis is true. Other than just socializing more, what would you suggest one do to improve their social skills? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Men face no wall (or do we?)There's a difference between a hair transplant and a plastic surgery. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Suspect gf might be okay with me banging her friends. How to proceed?It wasn't rude at all, what. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Men face no wall (or do we?)Hair transplants, lifting prison look...??? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 13 | I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?"If you enjoy being a cuck, go for it" What sub am I on? How is this upvoted. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 4 | How the f**k are we even supposed to have a commited relationship nowadays?sidebar is on the right. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 11 | How the f**k are we even supposed to have a commited relationship nowadays?Your perspective is bluepill as fuck. It's a delusion. Relationships AREN'T supposed to last forever. Monogamous LTR's, as a concept itself is flawed. Around ~ 50% marriages end up in divorces, and those that don't - you honestly think that they are happy in them? I'd guess that less than 10% in those are "truly happy" , and even that mighy be a stretch. Why the fuck do you even want to put all your eggs in one basket anyway? Why would you want to spend your one given life with the same person? … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for long time red pillersFair enough. Seems that we have a different interpretation of the word LTR. Companionship - I'm all for it, but to me, an LTR is an relationship you could see eventually turning into something "bigger", not just to satisfy your companionship needs. That to me seems like a "pseudo-relationship" , since you are never really thinking about actually converting it into something other than to have the "LTR" experience with all the benefits (companionship, bigger emotional connection etc). | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for long time red pillersHave not (Or at the very least, don't remember). I have read many great posts of yours, my favorite being "The 2nd fundamental skill". Also, for curiosity - if you aren't gonna marry anyway, and likely not have kids - what's even the point of upgrading a worthwhile girl to a LTR? You voluntarily put yourself into scarcity, make things harder and for what? To live out a bluepill monogamous dream? You know it's gonna end someday anyway, and when it does, you'll be asking yourself "why did I waste … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for long time red pillersFair enough. I will say that this seems like very risky advice to give to most users on this sub, it's just rationalization food for their hamster. People who could actually use this (aka ones that know how vetting works, don't have scarcity mindset etc) likely have no need for this advice at all. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | If you aren't physically picking up girls, or you can't, you are doing it wrong.Did you link the correct link? It's the same link that I linked. Just tell the correct minute and second. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/19 03:02 PM |
| 3 | SocietyYour life mission fundamentally relies on other people, meaning you'll never have full control / frame. That's not a mission, that's a delusion. I'm not saying that you shouldn't strive for that, but just calibrate your expectations accordingly, because your goal will require a lot of sacrifices, and It's not only up to you whether or not you will succeed in your goal or not. If it fails, you're kinda trapped (divorce, alimony, not seeing your kids and so on). | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 09:52 AM |
| 4 | How do I behave at bars/clubs if I'm there alone or there are only some vague acquaintances?What if one doesn't drink or even smoke? (So there's not even a real excuse to go outside for a convo) Shit's hard mode ino. Any suggestions? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for long time red pillersCould you expand on your comment? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:06 AM |
| 6 | Favorite tricks to get the water gates running?I'm heavily considering picking up massaging courses once I get some more time and money in. Seems like a great & a fun skill to have in general. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Favorite tricks to get the water gates running?Well then. Looks like someone here needs to suck some more titties then. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Favorite tricks to get the water gates running?Very sound advice. Gotta remember to keep it light, fun and interesting, better for both parties involved. The mention of learning how to use your environment is key, since then you can make any situations / environment "new" and "Different", a good thing to have imo. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Favorite tricks to get the water gates running?Good suggestions for sure. Definitely need to pull in more when going for a kiss. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice on LTR flaking?She doesn't respect you. If she doesn't respect you, then there's no LTR. Don't think this is salvagable. You can soft next if you want to, but just ditching the bitch is the play here. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | If you aren't physically picking up girls, or you can't, you are doing it wrong.Pretty sure that kind of "lifting up" is called "potato sack" Kinda like this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TX_lCA-hMV8&feature=youtu.be&t=98 | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | If you aren't physically picking up girls, or you can't, you are doing it wrong.Yeah, that helps. Thanks! Got anything else? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 05:03 PM |
| 4 | If you aren't physically picking up girls, or you can't, you are doing it wrong.Call me autistic, but I've never "picked up" a girl. How exactly does one go about it and not fuck up? Like what's the best "technique" and are there any visual shit that I can actually google to see how it's done. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How to make a threesome happen?Funny you say that. I literally wrote a post on here like 4 months ago on the topic, where my theory was essentially : "Women act differently for different guys" Example : You are a hot dude at a bar - fun, charismatic etc, but you are giving off the vibe of "I'm the fun bad boy". If you get back to your place and you are broke etc, It won't matter for her. After all, she's just having fun - she doesn't need to marry you or anything, so she can freely let her sexual side come out for the "bad bo… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Reddit Admin give /r/TheRedPill a Stay of ExecutionI can't imagine anyone who actually browses TRP frequently to think along those lines. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend cheated on meUse the ">" symbol and after that copy / write the text you want to have quoted. ">" this thing quotes this thing quotes | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend cheated on mewhy do women do this? To have their cake and eat it too. Telling you doesn't benefit her, only you. Why tell you if the only thing she's getting is a clear conscience while losing the realistic benefits from you, aka the boyfriend experience, less living expenses, comfort, status etc. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?Pretty sure it's never been the case (for the man himself, not the society), just even less so these days. Monogamy isn't natural after all. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?very damaging What exactly is damaging about anything that you wrote? Why is LTR a goal? monogamy is not even a natural process, especially for you as a man. Plating women is also not hedonistic. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Beta in LDR with Filipina, Life in Shambles/u/FereallyRed link that sympathy / respect about Wang. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Fake tan?Check OP's username, might help you find the answer. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Ex of 7ys left 6 months ago and called me tonight needing to be picked up because she got beat up. Help neededNot sure if sarcasm | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 10:53 AM |
| 11 | Incels/braincelsRedpill might work for some and not for others No, it works for everyone who actually tries to implement it properly. Results with women might differ due to your genetic ceiling, but other than that - You'll always be better off with Redpill, at the very least mentality wise, especially if you put in the work. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Help with female housematethought as much. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Help with female housemateWhat are assgs? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?Op said possible LTR. Possible LTR... OP said he knows her for 3 fucking weeks. It's not meant to be taken strongly, just a "maybe she has potential" If he wants the relationship to continue he needs to communicate with her. Yes, communicate by actions. bluntly communicating with her should be a last resort (aka she doesn't get the hint any other way). But just ghosting isn’t going to teach her anything It will. It will teach her not to act like the way she did. You think she doesn't know what s… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?...yes? Lead by example. There are nuances, obviously. I don't need to tell you how father / daughter relationships differ from a girl you're just having sex with. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?Over coffee explain to her why the way she is behaving isn’t ok, and that it’s not going to be tolerated. You don't tell her this, you show it by your actions. soft next. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:34 PM |
| 8 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?I'd soft next, and keep her as a plate. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | LTR ClubbingYeah. The problem isn't liking club / tinder girls, It's LTR'ing them, especially without proper vetting over a longer period of time (6 months at least before an LTR). | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsConsidering the amount of downvotes you are getting on your comments, there seems to be a influx of new noobs in TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 04:46 AM |
| 6 | LTR ClubbingThe better question you should be asking yourself is - why are you LTR'ing a club chick. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is it always sex before a relationship? Shouldn’t it be the opposite?Because sex is a prerequisite of love, and not the other way around. Otherwise, It's called scarcity and not fullfilling your male sexual strategy (and fullfilling hers, aka getting commitment from you and you getting nothing that you want, aka sex). | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is TRP being run over by incels?Ding ding. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | So what's the stance on sugar?bread jaw What about black bread? I eat 2 slices daily, and it's much more healthy than white bread, right? Is it still not that good overall? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 08:26 AM |
| 2 | So what's the stance on sugar?big if true | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 7 | Do millionaires see things from a different perspective than "regular" people(non-millionaires)?Literally every person living a certain kind of lifestyle see things in different ways. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | So what's the stance on sugar?so you should not combine your meat and potatoes. Wait, eating chicken and potatoes combined is Bad then? Can you expand on this? consume sugary foods at least 3 hours apart from fatty food Would you consider eggs a "fatty" food (11g as far as I'm concerned was the fatty value)? Because I eat 1 banana during the morning at the same afterwards. After my evening rice & chicken, I drink the 2 banana smoothie almost right after. That should be fine, right? keep daily fat intake around 10% Interestin… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | So what's the stance on sugar?I won't, don't know you well enough, have my own judgements hah. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | So what's the stance on sugar?you’re fine just make sure to count those calories Is it worth getting myfitnesspal premium? I'm trying to count calories, but I'm not sure how specific I should be. I do have a food scale, but weighing how much each egg of mine weights in the morning does get pretty annoying after 2-3 days when you have limited time, same goes for weighing chicken or even the bananas. The reason why I'm considering getting the premium is because then I can see my macro goals, cause right now it's only calories.… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | So what's the stance on sugar?Made a post recently about cutting. My goal is to get to 97kg, then cut to about 84kg. Aka - my goal is to get down from 20~ % body fat to 10% during 96 days for the summer. Right now I'm at 91, gonna get the extra 6kg until march. I train 6 days a week PPL routine, I'm 20. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | So what's the stance on sugar?Hmm. So is the general population just really fucking addicted to sugar then considering that even my diet that I'd consider "low in sugar" is, as it seems to be pointed out by all of you, high in sugar? Like shit, people eat fast foods or foods with incredibly sugary sauces every day and shit, snacks, chocolate, candy - you name it. I haven't eaten any of that shit in a year and turns out I'm still not doing enough. That's a reality check for sure. But it's fine, I'm not complaining. Maybe some… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | So what's the stance on sugar?switch your rice to brown rice Interesting you say that, because that's what I was also planning to do the past 2 weeks. Even more reason to finally make the switch. stick to non flavored myprotein I already take non-flavored indeed, but even non-flavored has about 4g of sugar for 100g. (aka 1g of sugar per scoop). They don't give neutritional information about flavored protein at myprotein (as far as I'm concerned), which sucks. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | So what's the stance on sugar?You are right, but being elitistic about shit is fun. As long as it's in moderation as well and not your top priority. I will say that in a lot of ways, it is a buffer and there are better things to do when it comes to time allocation, but it's not completely useless. Learning for an hour about nutrition and then actually implementing it correctly is more useful than never bothering to take interest in and just "do everything in moderation". 20% study, 80% do. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | So what's the stance on sugar?Alright, specifically regarding my own diet : If I eat only 3-4 bananas as my "sugar" foods, is that okay? Considering the average diet, there's no way I'm spiking any shit due to "high sugar diet", right? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:33 PM |
| 3 | So what's the stance on sugar?It is, but isn't there a difference between "natural" sugar and processed? Do you recommend not to even eat bananas then? If so, what the fuck fruits does one even eat then. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | FWB got a new potential boyfriend and I walked away, did I do the right thing?Hey, at least you realize it. Good on you for not denying it. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | FWB got a new potential boyfriend and I walked away, did I do the right thing?That last part does sound like rationalization. It's like saying "I don't regret catching oneitis" , just put in a slightly different format. Verdict : you might not regret it due to the sex, but you still had oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?240 lbs and 14% Woah, how are you 14% at that weight? Does it have to do with lifting for multiple years, as in, the more bulks and cuts you do, the higher weight you can have while staying at the same body % percentage? (since your muscles increase etc). Thanks for the insight. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?No one's complaining here. Counterpoints exist as a way to learn better about a specific topic. What's the point of going on a cut if questions like "but why" aren't asked? You're just blindly following then without understanding the topic itself. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?I will fast, probably for 16 hours every day due to my uni timeframe. Is that reasonable? Aka eating at the neccessary calorie deficit for my goals while fasting for 16 hours every day...? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?Sounds good | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Is there even a point to cut?Don't take it so serious man. Just trying to scope the discussion. Cutting's gonna be an interesting experience for me, I'm ready. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?Fair enough. I'm definitely up for it, gonna be fun since I've never done it before, we'll see how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Is there even a point to cut?I want to say I agree, after all - it makes complete sense from a logical standpoint. But I've seen a good amount of dudes that cut after bulking and while they are more lean, they just don't look big anymore, so even if they technically have the same height and shoulder width, the mass just isn't there to bring in the visuals. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?You won’t look 12% smaller because your frame and muscle will remain the same Interesting. Could you elaborate on this? How exactly does this work in practice, because I kinda get this in theory, but surely losing almost 14kg should make you a good amount smaller. For example, my friend cut from 91kg to 79~ and he looked small as hell (everyone was saying shit like "you look a lot smaller, what happened", which he hated) even though he was leaner. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point to cut?What about 18-20 range? I agree that 22% is slightly too much. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Being a white man in Asia taught me more about being a woman in the West than anything elseIf you're handicapped, accept the reality and do the best with the hand you're dealt, or choose to not play the game at all. "Not playing the game" is still playing the game, just not in a way that results with you getting women, either by incompetence or your own choice (aka MGTOW, but I've yet to see more than 5-6 actual MGTOW's, and not just noobs who can't get laid so they use it as an excuse) . Your deicisions still impact both your own sex life and dating market in general. If you can't qu… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 05:28 PM |
| 20 | "Why are you still single?"That's a nice suit, Patrick. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 01:25 PM |
| 17 | Intimidating characters, fights & how to deal with them?Joe Rogan said he trained jiu jitsu for 20 years and he got his ass kicked by an MMA boxer who was like 1-2 years in. Jiu Jitsu is cool, but when it comes to real world fighting, I'd have to guess there are better fighting styles. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over the sting of having made a beta faggot of yourself in the eyes of a girl you really liked?Scarcity | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Why masculinity is toxic all of a suddena million dollar question needs an answer as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why masculinity is toxic all of a suddenWhat you think is bulking is really you just coating your muscles with a layer of fat to give them the appearance of size. ...yes? That's literally what I'm going for - the appearence of size, that's what bulking is for anyway, at least from an aesthetic viewpoint. How do I achieve this without eating carbs is what I'm asking. youre only swole because youre turning yourself into a water ballon. Then tell me how I can become "Swole" without turning myself into a water ballon, while still eating a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why masculinity is toxic all of a suddenHow the fuck do you bulk without carbs though when you have no money? I can't just go full meat mode or whatever, tough shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 27 | Why are women attracted to men who have trouble with the law?There is a logical reason from the male standpoint. You are assuming that "obeying / contributing to a society" is some great cause. Fact of the matter is, there's a lot of things wrong with the society, and somewhere deep down people know that if you are being a "good boy" , sacrificing your own interests for someone else's (society's), then you are the sucker. As dumb as it sounds, you are kinda in society's frame. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:05 AM |
| 8 | Women trying to seduce their friend's LTR... AWALT?Hey, do you perhaps remember - there was a really great article / link where the main premise was exploring women's arousal when it comes to violence , and the study essentially showed things like male vs male violence, male vs woman violence etc. Almost all women lied saying that they didn't feel any arousal when asked, but all the results showed a completely different story, where the arousal was strongest at "Male vs Female" violence. aka Hint - watch some violent scary movies to get things g… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Those of you with visible abs, do you still have them when you switch to bulking cycle?grow them as in train them? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Those of you with visible abs, do you still have them when you switch to bulking cycle?Wondering - is there even much of a point in doing abs if I go 6 times a week & doing compound movements? Right now I can't see my press without "flexing" my stomach, and the definition could be a lot better. I feel like just cutting down to 10% should be more than enough to see my abs, but maybe isolated ab exercises are still important. Thoughts? How much do they impact your ab definition over your diet? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | GF still friends with ex, advice welcomeDon't need to read past the title - next. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:28 PM |
| 12 | Any redpill songs?Hopsin, yikes. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone boosters you’ve had success with?Doesn't it include phytoestrogens? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 09:26 AM |
| 8 | Met my first "i dont kiss on the first date" girl who I actually didnt end up kissing on the first dateWe fucked on the third date. I think the key is I wasn't butthurt about it. Always good to remember - never get salty. Part of not being salty comes from managing your expectations - do what you need to do, but don't "expect" her to do anything. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 3 | What Should I Do?"Welcome to Scar City" | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 02:01 PM |
| 9 | ASKTRP, What is your definition of an “innocent girl”?Even the most dicked down hoe was once a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Why masculinity is toxic all of a suddensmaller dicks There been studies on that shit? Curious. 5 meals per day, make them high carbs because WHO says so. That made me question my diet - is carb bulking bad? My daily diet consists of : Breakfast - 3 eggs, 2 black bread slices with italian meat and a banana. 2 portions of White Rice & chicken with some veggies, usually cuccumbers and tomatoes. 1l cocktail consisting of 50 g of protein, 300~ml of oatmeal and 2-3 bananas. Currently 185 cm tall and weighing 91 kg. Planning to go to 95~ or… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Proven methods that help with being well-spoken?We're on the same wave then. Perhaps it's time we both change our habits? A bit of time and practice does wonders. Might as well start now. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Proven methods that help with being well-spoken?Hard to get rid of indeed. From the looks of it (after some googling), a part of the problem is called "Verbal fluency" . Essentially, how fast you can put your thoughts into words from memory. Keyword there being memory, meaning you'll likely need a good vocabulary to even begin training your verbal fluency. You can traing verbal fluency by word associations, reading, removing distractions, knowing your shit etc, gonna see if there are some specific exercises. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Proven methods that help with being well-spoken?Fair advice. Wish I lived in a bigger country. Frankly, there just isn't really much to read that I'd like to read. I don't neccessarily like reading fiction or poetry, but I might bite the bullet and just do it because there's not much else to read other than maybe some history texts or biographies. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Proven methods that help with being well-spoken?Linguist here, can help. I think you are very well spoken. Appreciate it, but there's no real purpose in being well spoken in english when I have to use my own language in day to day life, the language that I'm not well spoken in (largely due to shitty vocabulary / english mixed words). This is 2019 and language mixing happens everywhere, including most pop culture. It does. That doesn't mean it's a good thing or that it sounds good. I can't put into words how turned on I become when I hear a ho… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Max’s guide to detecting a cheating whore and other implications.Did I read this wrong or did you essentially write that "you shouldn't care" that your SO fucks around as long as it's your sperm / kid. My brain is fried right now, but from the way you wrote the post, that's what it sounded like. I get the "not caring part" when you aren't looking for anything serious, but in a SO? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Beta nice guys upset with how I treat womenKinda does read like a fanfic, doesn't it? Nevertheless, this shit happens. Not even close to the craziest fanfics imaginable I've seen on TRP. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Any "Economics" advice?This is great. Thanks a lot for taking the time and typing it all out. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like Austrian economics are more, for a lack of a better word, redpilled , right? At the very least, the way you put it - it made me immediately want to learn Austrian economics over Keynesian by a huge margin. I now remember that in my highschool economics class, I was being taught about John Maynard Keynes, and by that extension I figure, what the "Keynesian" economy was all about. The… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Any "Economics" advice?Alright, I'll check him out. I tried searching the "old videos" , but it seems like they are deleted on mainstream places. Not sure I'll be able to find a niche community that has them. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Redpill series/fiction books/movies?Honestly? Dragon Ball Z | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Redpill series/fiction books/movies?Are we really considering blue pill films that can show red-pill concepts "red pill fiction" now? Daddy's home is quite possibly the blue-est film of all time, especially since you're viewing it mostly from Will Farrell's (beta) point of view. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Redpill series/fiction books/movies?I liked Californication (only watched the first season), but come on. Hank had the biggest One-itis ever. At best, he's a "natural" by show standards. Obviously it's not real life so take it with a grain of salt. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Any "Economics" advice?Very cool and very legal. I might be getting the wrong vibe here, but this is troll, right? Looked up the dude and there's just prison mentions all over the place. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Any "Economics" advice?True. Thanks for the correction man. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 18 | How big a role does BF% play in SMV?What's the point of this comment? Pointing out his humble brag? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Responding to ApologyWhy the fuck do you make a post asking for help yet don't give the details. They are important considering the already very limited information one can give over the internet to a complete stranger. "I just went out with that girl last night, but I did a few couple of big mistakes. Anyways, they probably weren't that big, but definitely wondering what I should say to her after all of that. Any advice????!?!?" ?? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Plastics, pesticides, and hormones in our food consistently lower everyone's T-Count. Is there even a way to go out of your way to avoid this in a reasonable way? Obviously I'm not gonna act like this is the end all be all solution to mine or anyone's problems, but I'm interested in knowing if there's some things you yourself do to combat this and if there's something I could incorporate in my daily life as well. For example, let's say drinking water from glass bottles (although even then, if th… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating showWhile this is all known and solid advice, the problem in this day and time is that even if laws are being changed to draw the line at "no means no" aka "black / white" logic, women will still continue using their own way of communicating. This in turn means that women get power. If she fucks a guy and the guy crosses this "no means no" boundary but she enjoys it - It's all good for her. However, if she fucks a different guy and he crosses the boundary, yet she did not enjoy it / regrets it, she … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Study: 23-33% of women admit to going on dates with men just for the free meal.Call me autistic, but who the fuck doesn't know how to throw a bowling ball at least somewhat decent. That's the only "kino" opportunity specific to bowling, other than basic kino that you can do almost anywhere (sit / stand next to eachother, tease & touch her etc). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Study: 23-33% of women admit to going on dates with men just for the free meal.Bowling How the hell does bowling allow easy kino? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?Surely the truth of results is the part of the truth you're interested in Yeah baby, that's the only truth I should be concerning myself with! | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?Precisely my stance on the subject. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?So yes, your friend "helped" you, but he didn't help you as much as he could have. I'd like to hear from you how my friend could have helped me better. I believe you have enough context necessary for the situation, but if needed - I'll provide it. Telling me that he did not help me as much as he "could have" falls on deaf ears if you have nothing to back it up with real advice of your own. I'm also really wondering what exactly are you trying to say by this - he didn't help you as much as he cou… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?I like that analogy, might steal it! As for "weaponizing logic" , If you're gonna use it - you really have to know your shit. That said, it's likely harder these days to be "the bullshiter" (and slightly better to use logic than in any other period) in general just because of the amount of information that's out there. A quick wikipedia search can make even a charming individual look like a complete fool in the span of 10 seconds. Knowing what's right or wrong was much harder if not impossible t… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?Good comment. You bring up a very good point about "being adaptable" . A lot of the posts and even comments on TRP tend to be black or white, and overall - It's a very good thing, even a neccessary thing to unplug newcomers. At the same time, it does have it's drawbacks in that life is usually a bit more... intricate and nuanced, and the latter part of your comment is usually not being mentioned in posts or comments. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?Truth and logic are the only things you should concern yourself with. I used to think this way too, and I'm not entirely against this viewpoint either, but then I'd like to hear an honest answer - how exactly does knowing the "truth" and "logic" help you connect with other people? Is it actually increasing your overall happiness and well-being? If the end result doesn't lead to a positive overall effect on your life, then what purpose does knowing all the "objective truths" even serve? If you ha… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 01:42 AM |
| 5 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?but this is "facts and logic" in and of itself ;P As I mentioned in the post, logic is still very useful for the individual , and I agree with you, but while understanding that connecting with people is "logical" and important, the act of connecting with people and being charismatic in the "moment" has very little to do with logic, if at all. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?I'd say that's a fair statement for sure. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Is "truth" and "logic" overrated?Right? That's what I'm thinking here. I feel like there are a lot of people on manosphere forums who focus too much on "objective truths" (biased or unbiased, doesn't even matter) and "logic" that they fail to see the bigger picture and connect with people. I'll admit that even I had a phase like that where I was "angry" about everyone else not getting it and the world being not the way I want it to be (objective, logical etc). | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Soft Nexted my GfMore context neccessary. What did you soft next her for? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What happened to LiveAFTSOV?How do you know? Curious. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Agreed. One thing to remember when reading TRP in general is not to take every single post / comment / concept purely at face value. After all, nothing in this world is "black or white". If for every post there was a caveat of "Yeah, well, but also remember that in x and y and blah blah blah, and this advice might not work in z situation as opposed to blah blah" , then we would not get anywhere. It has to be black and white on TRP, in fact it's absolutely neccessary. How could newcomers unplug i… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Young = weak position How so? I know some dudes that are 20 years old that have 4-5 eastern european russian plates on rotation. Of course, they are the exception. Rarely do they get shamed if ever and I wouldn't consider any of them to be in "weak positions". Maybe your comment doesn't reffer to sexuality, but their mental state still not being quite there. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?You're right. After having some time to dwell on it, it's definitely not just a women's case. That said, I'd still be inclined to say women use it more often. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Already on it. It's just kinda annoying. At this point it's so expected that I almost have to roll my eyes when it starts. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Agreed, but then the question becomes - why it works? And why does it work so well? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Fair enough. A petty argument either way, let's put it aside. Thanks for the contribution to the thread, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Regarding your edit, I edited my comment about 15 seconds after I posted it. By that time I already saw a downvote, most likely from you. Perhaps don't refresh reddit every 10 seconds, then early edits might not bother you. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:46 PM |
| 12 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?You know what? Fair enough. I try to not step foot in other subreddits anymore for this exact reason, at the very least the comment sections. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?Women only do that to guys it works on ^ If it's done on someone in the circle / someone known and they haven't given in to the shaming, then yes, it happens less (Still happens if it's a strong opinion against the status quo). I'm mostly reffering to it as a shittest women use to test a newcomer's frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Why is "shaming" such a popular tactic that women use?umm... No? Plenty of anecdotal experience to disprove this. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are masculine men only valuable because they are more rare?Yeah, fair. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Are masculine men only valuable because they are more rare?In that context - of course. I was more-so hinting towards "one environment", like if everyone in Capitol Hill, Seattle would suddenly become alphas. Nonetheless, I think we both here are on the same page and it's still "all relative". | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Are masculine men only valuable because they are more rare?So essentially - it's all relative. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Are masculine men only valuable because they are more rare?Fair enough, I'm inclined to agree with you. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Are masculine men only valuable because they are more rare?If every man were to become masculine, it means they’d all probably get more pussy than they did before. I can see your point, but at the same time I'm inclined to disagree. You mention that we have not seen a past where this has happened yet because of everything being relative. Think about it this way : Let's say that tommorow, by some kind of a miracle, every person in the world turns into an HB8-9-10. At first, people would think it's some kind of a miracle, that everyone is now beautiful be… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.The interesting thing here is that even if she is telling the truth (only kissing) , that still is an easy next. You'll never regain back the respect if you take her back, in fact you'll lose even more of it. The moment your girl doesn't respect you, it is over. She can't love someone she doesn't respect. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 01:18 PM |
| 3 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.There is no break, only a break up. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 01:06 PM |
| 17 | Long standing friend turns out to be a uber slave manginaWhat the fuck did I just read. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 01:25 PM |
| 23 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.Block only if you can't control yourself, otherwise it's a bitch move. Source : past me. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 21 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.I think if I see her I can convince her to change her mind Oh brother. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Lessons my father taught meHow to get upvotes : Mention "LIFT" in your post. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you display, that you dont tolerate her shit?If you withdraw time and attention for bad behavior, and she starts being stupid, shaming you (you're acting childish) etc, what's the play? I would continue to withdraw it until she has calmed down, and if she has lost interest after the soft next, that means that she was not worth it either way so who cares, but also a sign that my SMV is not as high (at least in her eyes) as I'd like it to be, otherwise they'd crawl back. Or maybe it's just women so who knows. I'd like to hear your thoughts i… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | “If you don’t know you want marriage in the next 5 years, I gotta move on.”Great comment. Thanks for the insight. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 10:25 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?Might not be THE best sexual strategy, or good if you are doing business, but at least you feel amazing not using it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:11 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?ugly whales at work showing off their Tinder matches. 2/10 fat chick has 100+ guys messaging her Think you answered yourself. It is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is American college price so corruptIt tells me you are narrow-minded and a "good boy" following the status quo and choosing what is acceptable and expected instead of being more daring. That said, statistics are indeed generally in favor of going to a university, not gonna argue against that. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is American college price so corruptOver here, if you don’t go to college, you’re stupid. Period. There’s a very real social expectation of you to go to college, and if you don’t, you must be a complete retard. Is that the perception over there? Or your own personal thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a great relationship if the attraction isn’t there? If so, how should I go about this?In that case, I agree. I interpreted the "telling her straight" ... too straight. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with ghosters/flakersText for logistics is advice for newly redpill guys so they don't shoot themselves in the dick. If you have game and frame, then you can text. That's exactly my stance on this as well. Good to know that I'm not alone in thinking this. Thanks for the comment. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with ghosters/flakersText for logistics yet I have 20 year old friends who are skinny & have game who text all the time and have 5 plates on a rotation. Maybe by the time they are texting, their game / preselection / smv has already worked it's magic and I'm correlating the success to texting when I shouldn't (good example is the Neymar post on theredpill). Sure, they might be naturals and the exception, but I'm not exactly sure if texting only for logistics is always the best thing to do, especially for girls ages … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a great relationship if the attraction isn’t there? If so, how should I go about this?You can't, you have to tell her straight; Wouldn't that give the girl major complexes though? Perhaps it's good in the long run, at least you know what to improve upon, but I can't imagine telling someone that you are not attracted to them anymore is gonna make the other person feel good. For example, my first ever "girlfriend" if you can even call it that (did not have sex) who was younger, when I was only 17 told me that I'm bad at kissing etc and laughed at my dick when I couldn't get it up (… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Female FantasyExcept the difference is that society doesnt take kids seriously, but they do women. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/19 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Their Ignorance is Your Power: Leonardo DiCaprio"Really" cares about global warming while constantly making choices that go against his own beliefs, like flying back to his home with a private jet because he forgot something unimportant, then immeditately flying back to his destination. I like the dude, but regarding global environment, he's either a hypocrite or just trying to keep up appearances with that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Are you lifting ? For the most part, yes. Now that classic wow beta streams have come out, have lazed on that. Definitely need to get back in there, I was really going at it for a while, definitely have some good gains and people notice it, and that's an understatement. went from 65kg skinny dude to 90kg fit. Are you trying to spin plates instead of getting a oneitis LTR ? Call me crazy or delusional, but when it comes to holding frame / not falling for oneitis etc, I'm doing great. I've read th… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Sound advice, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.excersising and going to the gym is great. Problem is "Starting" it up, but yeah, afterwards it always feels good. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.I guess the story in this thread is more relatable to younger gen than one might think. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.But that's the thing. I've tried this technique like million times by now. Even if I do it correctly for the first 2-3 days, eventually I just give myself a pass subconciously, and it's happened every time. I don't know. Cold turkey has lasted me for 6+ months, and I'm not even gaming anymore, just watching streams of games or visiting community subs, so that's at least an improvement, but I waste the same amount of time, so not really. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I can't seem to stop.I've wanted to try intermittent fasting for a while now, but I'm on a bulk right now. Gonna do it soon though. As for mediation, I literally meditated 10 months straight 30 mins a day, only skipped like a week total in that time, and if I did, I mediated an hour the next day to make up for the loss. And yet... I slowly just stopped, and now I don't do it at all. I really liked the benefits, I was clear and everything, but I guess it's one of those things that you feel like after doign so long, y… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Alright, but how exactly does this help me fix the problem? I know there is a problem, you don't need to tell me that. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Joking or...? Pretty sure the question was pretty self-explanatory, aka - how can I stop. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.yeah, have some sick gains. 6ft2, 89 kg fit. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.How do I get started? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Don't want to play games ? Delete your steam account and uninstall all games from your computers. Have literally zero games on my computer. I don't play games often, cold turkey most of the time, but when I do - it's full stop binge with no breaks. Don't want to waste time on reddit/fb/insta/w.e block the website or specific pages using an extension... etc Only using reddit. Definitely should ban it, even if it means I don't get access to redpill. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.You are whining about the injustice. No injustice here, I just have put myself in a pickle that I now need to get out of. FORCING yourself to do something that you don't like in the short term, and then do it again and again until it becomes a routine. Nobody can do that for you. The thing is, I HAVE done that. The problem is even if it goes on for 6~ something months, it can just disappear in one sec. For example, I meditated at start 10 minutes, and every week increased by 1 minute. I capped i… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Yep, that's basically me. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:38 PM |
| 3 | I can't seem to stop.Thanks man, great comment. Lot to take away from it, I agree that it's better that way. Sucks though, because sometimes these activities are fun as well, but if you can't control yourself (me) , then they aren't worth it. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.There is nothing right now that I wanna do when I grow up, that's kinda what I'm getting at. That said, I'm not against graphic design or programming, and programming is a safe bet. I kinda want to get good at drawing, but I think it's just a "Dream" and nothing more, because whenver I do try to draw I always quit it and I don't have the dedication for it, maybe I just don't enjoy the process. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Great comment, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Could you explain how that could impact me? I haven't looked into this. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.I have a bit, tried codeacademy and unity with c# also did some "code" if you can call it that by creating visual novels in Ren'Py which uses a bit of python. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Gonna go programming most likely. Not my first choice, first would be graphic design, but it's not available in the way that I want in my country. Programming is always useful and a safe bet, and I'm not against it at all. 3rd choice was economics, but I feel like you don't need economics to make a business, just good for connections. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.technically true, I'll take it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I can't seem to stop.Finished highschool, now took a gap year to figure things out. Going to uni this autumn though. Originally, I took the gap year off for the business venture and to gather my thoughts on what I want to study when I do go to uni... Now, I'm pretty sure I know less than a year ago, which is a weird thing. Year was definitely not a waste, I've gotten very fit in this time, for half a year had a great mentality and habits, it's just... kinda slipping now for the past month or two, and it's slipping d… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Definite goal? No. That could realistically be a problem for why I'm procrastinating because I don't have a goal that I reaaaaly want to work for. I want economical freedom, even if just for the fact that then I wouldn't have to worry about getting thrown out on the streets for degenerating. Right now, I'm being pillowed by my parents, and that's a problem. I've become so complacent and comfortable, hell even "spoiled" to a point where subconciously, there's no initiative for me to do stuff. Lik… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Thanks for the comment, metalgear. But see, that's why it's so frustrating. I already know these things, I've been here more than what's necessary to understand something as basic as "balance is needed". Maybe "understand" is not the right word, cause If I did, I wouldn't be doing these self-damaging activities and habits. It's weird, right now - I have just nailed in my head that games are not for me for the past 3 years, and it's kinda working. I'm mostly cold turkey, but then I get a nostalgi… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Thank you for the comment, appreciate the thoughts and advice. I'll look into the book. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I can't seem to stop.The only problem is I've "STARTED" like 3 years ago. Yes, there has been a lot of progress, but there's still a lot of problems. Maybe...maybe I shouldn't always look for flaws in myself, objectively speaking I have done a lot from where I used to be... but I still want more, and I hate it when I'm not "there" mentally, and it feels even worse not knowing why I'm not there yet. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I can't seem to stop.Have you considered monetizing your skills and becoming a league of legends tutor or Eli booster? That way, you have something to work for and more in your bank account to do fun activities outside! I was somewhat elo-boosting for a while, but I never took it seriously . Firstly, it's not allowed. Secondly, I'd had to be doing something even by my standards "unethical" (killing new players over and over to get some noob their account at a high level). Thirdly, even at the age of 13 I knew it was… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Why the hell do you care about ranks and levels for a fake online game? Do you think girls are going to drop to their knees because you are top 100 or you will be offered a lucrative job because you know how to pew-pew? Which gamer plays games for women attention? What is this angle. They do it because it's fun and it's competitive. Of course it doesn't help in real life, that's one of the main motivations for me to quit them completely, but there's no denying why there is an appeal for them due… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Expectations leads to disappointment. Well yeah, I completely agree, but come on . You have to have cognitive dissonance or blind blue pill type "belief" in yourself to not subconciously know that you are in fact expecting a change if you are doing all this hard shit that you don't want to be doing. I can't lie to myself like that. I know that I am expecting something, like even going to the gym. Am I really going to the gym with no expectations? Of course not. I might not always think about it,… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.It's important to consciously recognize that video games are MADE to be addictive and fun. BUT you need to realize that they are nothing but a fake sense of achievement and enjoyment. Replace it with hobbies that have real social aspects or that improve you in some way. Consciously realize this, and yet realizing does not help in the slightest for me. In another comment, I also mentioned trying out different things to replace my addiction / obsession with procrastinating etc, but I never got a … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.Thanks for the tip, I do have a "Red" diary where I do write some zingers and my thoughts, just not daily. Will try to implement that, but again - have already done very similar stuff to this advice for a long time, I mean it. Tried a lot of stuff with no long-lasting results so far, always so easy to relapse even if you abstain from this shitty lifestyle for 2-3+ months, it crawls you back in... Recommended read - Power of Now by Eckhard Tolle Already read it, great book. The end was a bit too … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I can't seem to stop.back up your game saves on a separate hard drive then detatch it from your computer and store it away. I don't really play games anymore thankfully, quit League and WoW, the worst offenders of my time. Don't do anything distracting. Don't leave room for that one entertaining thing you do hoping to get quick fixes from it. That doesn't happen. Once you play video games, you wanna play more and more and it ends up being a vicious cycle. Stay away from all of it. This is spot on. Even if my day was… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 01:36 PM |
| 16 | I can't seem to stop.What's been recommended to me by various people is that you need to replace some negative habit (vidya, facebook, etc.) with a positive one. Tried this multiple times. Never has worked as well as I wanted. Eventually, it falls apart because the habits aren't as fun or satisfying as that quick dopamine boost I get from degenerating. Of course...after that initial spike, it only gets worse. How do I put it... you get pleasure, but not fullfillment, does that make sense? I Tried drawing, making gra… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Marriage doesn't exist anymore. Call it something like "feminist civil law partnership". If she wants marriage, give her a private church wedding. That is what women want.before TRP, these were "reasons". Now... they give me a laugh. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 11:33 AM |
| 2 | How to beat your autopilot and achieve lasting changeBut by giving this advice, aren't you kinda going against everything you previously mentioned? If there's a central issue that needs to be solved in order to gain discipline, why wouldn't there be a central issue on starting to indulge in the material you proposed? Some bloke will read your comment, get a spur of motivation at best, and then most likely that will fade off just like all the other advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How to beat your autopilot and achieve lasting changeI agree with everything you said. For this reason, I can't take the "just do it" advice seriously either on asktrp. Curious though - how do you solve the central issue? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.The point is, a man who doesnt experience the ecstasy of joy and the blackness of despair has not truly seen life in all its colors. And why does he need to? First of, seeing life in all of it's colors is impossible no matter what path you take. One way or another, you're always going to have a warped biased perception of reality on some things. Deliberately seeking despair to tick off some checklist of "Seeing life in all it's colors" is madness. With this line of thought, I might as well do he… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 12:06 PM |
| 2 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.Thanks for the comment! Great to hear you doing so well. Just curious - did you go to a university? Or were you mostly self-taught in the business aspect and already knew what you wanted to achieve? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.If you dont like to spike yours, you are not really living. Interesting viewpoint. Care to elaborate? The problem I find with "spiking" emotions in general is that after mania there always comes depression, always. You can not be in the mania phase all the time because everything is relative. After a while of constantly being on that good wave, you will start to lose perspective sooner or later on what made it all good in the first place. Those activities that gave you thrill now bore you, have … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 5 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.You hit the nail on the head - calibrate your expecations. It kinda sucks, though, because it feels like you always have to sacrifice something to get to the "better, greener side". I feel like if I now went out and got incredibly good with women, I'd miss some parts of the lifestyle I currently have as well. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:40 AM |
| 26 | The worse I treat my ltr the more attracted she is to me, made a huge realization.But how do you combine it with what YOU want? I'm pretty happy just working from home, going to the gym, being mindful / meditating, and just living peacfully. Some might say it's boring, but it's good. No social media, no drugs, I even quit alchochol, just living peacfully, working on my stuff - It's very relaxing, actually. I'm not even sure if I have the energy to constantly go out somewhere, especially when I have things like my career, studies etc on my mind, nor do I even want to. Yeah I w… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 09:38 AM |
| 7 | Girl I was supposed to meet up with got there too late so I leftWhile leaving was correct, the way you responded afterwards was butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 17 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factors??? Game is more important than anything when it comes to women. I know skinny as a twig 19 yo dudes who have 5 plates on a rotation, meanwhile there are lifters / fit dudes who can't get laid despite getting attraction at first. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?No, because becoming a president has steps in between the final result and the beggining. And "Just do it" doesn't? You can't tell me that everyone who "just does it" does it to same extent as others. Everything is relative anyways so if all people started to "just do it" , then no one would be doing it because everyone is at the same level. It's like competing in human breathing, it's redundant. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?Is a "plan that worked for you" or some guidance on what to do in these moments considered a "special pill" ? I'm not asking for "THIS ONE SIMPLE TRICK WILL..." solution, I'm asking for all solutions. A solution that says "just do it" is not a solution. It has no real value. "How" do I "just do it" then? Otherwise we would turn any question into "How do I become a president" - "just do it" eventually. I solution would be finding a solution for finding your "just do it" mentality that eventually … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?The thing about discipline is that it is really simple. Just do it. Simple in concept, harder to execute. After all, if it was simple, everyone would have it, but that's clearly not the case. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?Solid advice, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?Degeneracy is a moral concept. Disagreed again. Whenever I watch porn or play video games, I don't think to myself "man, why am I playing video games, everyone knows they are bad!!" No, It's because for me - I know that they are a waste of time. I know this, I've tested this over and over again, I feel this with every inch of my body whenever I do either one of them. I genuinely feel worse every single time I do either one of them. There's nothing moral about the situation. I just could be doing… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?While I agree, I can't help to think that while it sounds good on paper, this type of advice really is no advice at all for the average guy. After all, if they knew how to control their own actions, they would. Maybe it really is the only advice, but considering that people who have heard this ask the same question over and over again, it's clearly not working, at least not for everyone. TRP is about what works and what doesn't after all, right? If people say "it works" , but it doesn't for you,… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?When your will to win is greater than any urge you'll find success And what if it isn't ? What if you have a reson to win, but it doesn't overcome the comfortability of the safe mediocrity in which you currently reside in? Do you just rot in your incompetence and die then? If you have a reason to win, would one even need any guidance in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?There is no degeneracy on it. Disagreed. If you don't approach women or have the need for it because you spend your time masturbating to some taboo shit on the internet, I'd definitely consider that as degeneration. Call it what you want it, whatever, but it's definitely not a net-positive thing and something that you should be trying to avoid. Also, what does degenerating have to do with morals? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?But how can you build discipline if you lose it the moment a spontaneous urge overcomes you? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop the spontaneous urge to denegerate / self destruct?Hey, I appreciate that. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: The Power of Sexual CompetitionSexual Competition = Pre-Selection, right? Just different names for the same thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Just ignore her for a whileThere's a difference between absence and ignoring someone for 2-3~ months, say, and then being like "I was busy" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Just ignore her for a whileDoes this work only for women? I feel like ignoring your buds like this would definitely worsen the relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Imagine going out for the sole purpose of picking up girls....What if you don't like going out? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.you're right. thanks! | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.true true | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.Can you tell which chapter it is? I will read the book as well most likely, but I'm in amidst of some others ones atm. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.Damn, both choices suck, but obviously trying is better than doing nothing. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.Pretty solid advice. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:05 PM |
| 0 | I don't have any passions, so working hard for something seems like it's not worth it.Find something to give a shit about. Other than "get out of your comfort zone" , how is one actually able to guarantee to find this? Feels like a thing that you have no real control over and it's mostly luck based wether or not you find that passion / fire inside you for something. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm too comfortable.You literally gave no actionable advice. Useless humble brag. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm too comfortable.Improving isn't luck. However, "top" success in my opinion is. (As in, things like "I will be the best rock star or richest businessman etc). I think the problem mostly lies in the expectations of people. I know that if I work at something for a while, I'll get better at it from experience, either it be gym, school, or a skill I'm trying to learn. However, I'm questioning if it's possible to reach the top of the top without having those unrealistic expectations. I think you kinda need a true bli… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 2 | I'm too comfortable.I agree 100% with you. It does feel like I have little control in "finding" that purpose and wether or not I do eventually find it or not is up to chance, a circumstances of events. Sure, If I do go out of my comfort zone more often, I have more chances of finding that purpose, but even then It's not guaranteed. I've realised the world doesn't give a shit about your wants and your dreams. Do people really think every famous or succesful people got there just because they wanted it? You rarely he… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 0 | I'm too comfortable.I envision that, I do not want it, and yet the change is only in the mind and not in my actions. That's why I'm creating this post in the first place. Shit, I don't even know what my passions or interests really are, I'm questioning a lot of things at the moment except the basics like good health, phisique, peace of mind, money and women. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:02 PM |
| 0 | I'm too comfortable.where do you want to be in 5 years? 10? I don't know. Only thing I do know is I want to have good health, good physique, economical freedom and my own place. Some lasses wouldn't hurt either. I do have a good business opportunity now in an erotic industry (creating adult porn games, has to do with graphic design), but I'm starting to question if getting the financial stability is worth it if I'm possibly damaging myself in the process. I already have a hard time getting it up, and constantly loo… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | What are some "direct" competitive artistic hobbies?And how would it help me telling you that I'm from, say, Baltic states? I don't suppose you live here, so it essentially gives as much away as me saying I'm not from the U.S | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some "direct" competitive artistic hobbies?Definitely an option. Will see about it if there is anything near me (not from U.S) Any other suggestions? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.Does it provide any interesting solutions as well? Or is it more just an in-depth look into what I kinda already knew? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.It just takes time and willingness on your end to try stuff out. Fair enough. I do need to get money to be able to experience a lot of things, perhaps that's one of the reasons why video games & other entertainment you can browse at home resonated with me, there was just no real other option if you wanted to get tons of entertainment without money. My early teens were very similar (i was a WoW nerd) WoW was probably what got me into video game addiction in the first place. It's really these 4 mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 05:46 PM |
| 3 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.I'll add it to my reading list. In fact, It just so happens that I wanted to order some books for my birthday. Might be a good time to do so. Perhaps you have any additional life advice on how to deal with this problem of mine? [Some background info in my past and my thought process in case you are interested and have the time] Even before redpill, there has never been a "spark" or a "passion" for anything other than... video games. Like many young guys, I was obsessed with them. Only difference… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.Great to hear. Must have been very difficult to change your old habits, especially if you were really ingrained in the BP programming and had your whole world shatter basically, aka realising you've been living a lie for who knows how many years. I might not value it as much as I should now, but time is on my side - 6 days short of being 20 years old, and already a year and a half in. Incredible how much has changed for me in that time. Only thing that truly concerns me now is finding a spark fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.Fair enough. It somewhat amazes me. That said, a year and a half ago I did write, in essence, a "this one girl... " post. Yikes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.I don't get it. Are there really that many people here who don't understand even the most fundamental aspects of "plate" dynamics? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My actions don't align with my "interests"Fair answer. Thank you. I guess focusing too much on the end result only brings you pain since you aren't even remotely close whenver you do actually work on it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The Hot For Student Epidemic Rages On | Why do women do this? Part of the answer is the repercussion of a society which has stopped constraining female hypergamy.Here where I live, age of consent is 16 - and damn is it good. The biggest plus is the fact that now you don't have to guess wether or not the girl is jailbait at 18 or not, but if she is jailbait at 16, which essentially gives you a nice breathing room whenever a girl says she is 18 but you're not sure. Hard to not notice the difference between a 15 yo and 18 yo after all, well, definitely harder than from 20~ to 18. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 12:02 PM |
| 2 | The Hot For Student Epidemic Rages On | Why do women do this? Part of the answer is the repercussion of a society which has stopped constraining female hypergamy.24 and a 17 year old... come on. Ridiculous how this is even a crime in some places. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/19 09:07 PM |
| 4 | I thought I was redpilled, afraid notI thought I was redpilled, afraid not looks at username ...ya think? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm a quintessential loser in their 30's who is wasting away their life. For those younger, please never become me, you'll see why.Sometimes people are just looking for pity to feel better about themselves. This dude has posted the same question in 5+ other subreddits. I know he probably wants to be better, but there is another part of him that probably loves all the pity. It's a double-edge sword one has to be weary of. Yeah, they essentially get attached to their victim & self-pity personality / ego, and subconciously want it to stay. People create identities all the time and get attached to them, which is never a good th… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?Good luck to you as well. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?You can't become anything fundamentally different from what you were born to be. You already said this, that's why again - I'm asking for some evidence other than your own opinion. A sample size of 1 is very hard to take seriously. Right now, what I'm getting out of your comments is that : People don't change / can't fundamentally become something they are not. If that's the case, then I'm wondering where you draw the line, since many betas have come to TRP and transformed to chads. Are you then… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?Alright, then get to it, cause I still don't believe the root since you have not given enough evidence other than your own opinion. At least answer some of the content, like if you truly do believe that you are 100% predisposed due to your genetics (aka not a blank slate), and that the environment and others things in your life doesn't change your so called "predisposition" at all. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?Please respond to my comments contents. Right now, it seems like you are pushing your own agenda, ignoring what you have no answers to and providing 0 evidence to your claims other than your own experience. Your cheetah example and this cat vegan example has very little to do with this situation and It's not giving me any actionable advice either. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?I get what you are going for, but AWALT does not mean that all women are cheaters or whatever, it just means that they all have the capacity to do that due to their hypergamous nature. Also, please give me any sources backing up your claims that a person is essentially predisposed to do a certain thing and enjoy it due to their nature. I agree that you don't enter the world as a "blank slate" (genetics of course obviously is enough already to disclaim that), but I find it hard to believe that yo… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?The Asian guy grinding is perfectly natural. Asians are grindy. Yet not all asians are grindy. They are just on average more grindy than other races. Also they have more people, meaning more competition, meaning more grindiness on average or at least it seems like it. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?Not sure how your comment relates at all. There's a difference between nature and interests. The cheetah likes running fast and killing shit because that's how they are due to their nature, nothing to do with interests. I want to fuck beautiful women, poop, eat, drink water etc because it's in my nature, but those aren't interests. Interests I think are something each individual have different. You can follow redpill principles being a musician, a sportist, a businessman etc after all. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?Even if so, how exactly does that help me? Let's say I'm predispoed to be great at archeology, yet I couldn't care less for archeology. Does that mean I should do it just because I have talent for it? It's fucking stupid in my opinion. I might not be wasting my "gift", but I'd be wasting my time doing something that I don't like. For me - I don't even know what my passions are or what I'm good at. The only place where I've ever been good at was games, was top 0.01% in League of Legends at the ag… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?But what if I want to become a freak, or "git gud" at something that I'm not "gifted" in perhaps? It's like an ugly girl wanting to become a top tier model. Sure, you can dream it, but can you really reach the goal in your mind? If she chases that dream, she will never achieve it, but is admitting defeat in reality better, and just essentially giving up? Is there really such a difference between an ugly girl wanting to become a model that different than an average dude trying to become a hard-wo… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How can you become a freak?But there's more under your control than you think. I really want to believe this... I used to as well. I don't know when, but somewhere along the way I started doubting things, even some aspects of Redpill the more I spent time here. Guess It's true what they say though - got to believe in something, even if you know there's no point to anything, otherwise you never commit to anything. But fuck it, It's not like doing nothing is better, better try and die than do nothing I guess. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How can you become a freak?You ultimately cannot control everything, but do yourself a favor by taking control of the aspects within your reach. I'm not arguing against this. I'm just saying that realistically (at least from my perspective) , there is mostly an illusion of control. Life is like a more RNG version of Poker, where you can do everything right and still lose. Sure, you have a great chance at winning, especially vs only one opponent, but the more opponents there are (7 billion people), the less your chances ar… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Awarness of the red pill makes me depressedwhat the fuck is this comment section | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 11:18 PM |
| 2 | LTR Giving me the ultimatumlol | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?You know, I really might have taken the wrong approach with the content of this post. The more and more I think about it, while I do think that "arts" generally lean towards the bluepill spectrum, I shouldn't be wondering about that as much as if I just like doing them for myself. Right now, arts feel like a chore (and everything else too). Could be my laziness. And the second big factor is I can't help to feel like most arts in general are escapism. Yes, you are expressing yourself, yes, you ar… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?I... I don't know. I don't "enjoy" anything productive, while at the same time whenever I procrastinate, I don't enjoy that either because I know that I'm not doing anything useful and wasting my time. The only thing I've ever really "enjoyed" was video games. I was top 0.1% in the world at league of legends at the age of 14. Incredibly addicted, skipped school, 6hr + day playing video games, nerd friends etc. Best player in my school, hell, even got a gamer girlfriend out of it all for a while.… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?Is the fulfillment of your artistic desires not enough of a reason to do it? The thing is - I don't really care too much about making things for myself and myself alone. After all, what's the point of creating something if you can't share it? And I don't believe I can ever really "share" what I create on a scale that would match my vision since the world is blue and wouldn't allow me to reach that scale. It could really just be a stupid "dream", one where you like to see the final results yet yo… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?If you don't actually enjoy making art, then don't do it. Yet I don't enjoy much else either that could be considered a "career path". Maybe I really am just lazy. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?When I meant graphic designer, I was thinking more in terms of animation, working for movie / game industries etc. The bigger problem for me might really be my viewpoint on art in general - it being escapism that is. Perhaps I should stop creating pursuing fiction worlds, characters, portraits and start living in reality. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?Hey... thanks, truly. That really resonated with me man. You hit the nail on the head with the "need to make a decision NOW". It really does feel like I need to make these decisions as fast as I can, but can you blame me? Time is running out, it's finite after all. Can't fuckaround forever. I also agree with you that It's a good idea to take it slower, save money, instill good habits so that once I actually do find the passion, or even the freedom to really persue my passions, I'd be able to do … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:51 PM |
| -1 | Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.Agreed. Too many people here trying to fulfill their bluepill expectations with redpill knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?If you’re questioning your passion already, I’d say that’s a pretty bad sign. That's exactly my viewpoint as well. I think I'm self-aware enough, at least a certain point, and I understand very well that this is definitely not looking good. That's exactly why I'm questioning things. There are diminishing returns if, for example, you start learning when you’re 30 in comparison to 15. Yes, sure, but to reach top 20%, this seems like the wrong way to look at it. I think to reach that, you just need… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?This is a good thing because it is an opportunity to use your Fire That's the thing - I'm not sure if there even is a Fire because I'm not sure if I believe myself to be capable of enough to eventually realise my vision, considering there are freaks out there who have boundless passion and have worked harder years before me while I'm still not even sure if this is for me at the age of 19. I'm from eastern europe as well where the minimum pay a month is 500 dollars, and unless I'm 1 in a billion … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?Can you reach the top 20% -30% of artists in the world if you grind? Anyone can. The question is wether or not they are determined enough - and I'm not sure I am. You mentioned being honest with myself, but how can you know the reason you are the way you are in the first place? You could correlate your success with something completely unrelated to what actually made you succesful in the first place after all. I don't have "passion" for any of the arts, only an "interest". Perhaps you could even… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?Who makes more money? Artists of course, but the next part of my comment is literally why I made this post. I'll use your own example. Can you even realistically get signed to a record label creating work that's purely yours with your vision without pandering to the bluepill world? I specifically excluded music in the art category, because you can make popular songs with no bluepill lyrics (genres like techno have no lyrics a lot of time etc) that appeal to a wide audience because there is not a… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?I’m a designer and soon to be creative director for a wicked fast growing company, but my passion lies in design and photography. I’ve been doing some sort of creative job since leaving college and I’m in my late 20s. Great to hear. Difference is - I don't know what my passion is yet, and that's why I'm weighing if it's even worth to put my eggs in this basket. I'm sure you didn't know your passion as well at some point of course. I'm 19 at the moment from eastern europe if that gives any perspe… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?Of course, that's understandable. If you can't even take care of your body, why should someone care about you from a sexual perspective? But that's not what this post is about. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:13 PM |
| -2 | Is there any point in becoming an artist?You need to unplug for a bit dude. Not much good content lately anyway, perhaps I should stop browsing asktrp every 2 days too. Have considered it as well. Not everything is about Redpill/ Bluepill. Never said it was, but working a job in an industry filled with mostly bluepilled nerds who I don't share much common with is starting to lose it's appeal the more I change my view of the world. Yes, there is a BIG POINT in becoming an artist. What is that "big point" then? I genuinely want to know. … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.Not really interested, but thanks for the suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.True, guess I shouldn't put all my eggs in one idea or "dream", but get an education in a field that has many possibilities in case something goes out of fashion or I get tired of doing it. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.Fair enough, but doesn't that just fortify the thought that life is mostly random? Like you said, to aquire discipline in an activity, I need to risk time for a non guaranteed payoff, and since I don't know if the payoff will be worth it and I have no real way of knowing it, doesn't that make it random in the end wether or not I'll be happy afterwards with choosing the path I chose, meaning, I don't really have a real control over my life and how happy I will turn out? After all, of the 300k sub… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.You don't understand discipline and believe motivation is the mechanism You're right. Only thing I do wonder is why I have discipline in other areas that are not "work" (meditation, lifting, eating right etc), yet it doesn't translate to work. You have no sense of urgency because you have no pride and are massively risk avoidant (this is the source of your lack of discipline) Interesting, I never thought discipline and risk taking is much related. You have to pick a direction and go. That direct… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.But your interests, your mission shouldn't be a chore, should it? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 04:58 PM |
| 0 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.Thanks for taking the time to respond! Not in school, currently taking a gap year after finishing high school (partly due to same reasons mentioned in post - aka don't know what I want to do). I'm from baltic states if that helps. I figure responding honestly is the only way I can get a clear response no matter how harsh it is, so the other reason why I took a gap year was because I saw a business opportunity in Adult / Porn game Patreon market which has to do with graphic design & programming. … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | I have zero interests and I'm stuck - a cry for help.[To expand on my gaming background] When I was about 6-7, I first started playing video games. At 8, I first got introduced to World of Warcraft. Games immediately appealed to me, and while they do to most kids and young people, they were something more for me. This "love", obsession, addiction - whatever you name it, I was enthrilled. I started skipping school, faked sickness 2/5 days of the week etc, constantly battled with my parents, internet router was taken away often so I wouldn't play, d… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Happy for you. The more I breathe, the more I feel like having a passion / field you truly love is the most important thing in life. I have none, and I'm stuck in endless mediocrity, always reverting to bad habits & easy dopamine because I haven't found anything that gives me that spark. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameYikes. Ex-fiancée now at least. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to game a girl who's impression of you was originally that you were a beta?Ah, the smell of scarcity. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?you don't want to dance with people, take drugs and drink alcohol? you don't have to do fun things with your life. Am I getting it right? Are you advising short term gratification + hedonism? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Asked out a 1/10 and my SMV fell immenselyTroll post. 1/10 hoe? 98 lbs after lifting for 1.5 years? Ok. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessMost guys that I know who pull crazy are not muscular, but skinny. One of my friends is 19 and has 6+ HB8+ russian eastern europe plates on a rotation. Sure, he lives an incredibly social life, is street smart, agressive, takes smart risks etc. He said he might have bpd, considering it comes in his family, and by his attitude, I wouldn't be surprised. Lifting on TRP seems a bit like a circlejerk. It mostly serves as a way to get you in the door, but if you lack game, you'll still have problems. … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 03:18 PM |
| -1 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessNot saying not to lift, but it is highly overrated when it comes to attracting females. It gets you in the door, but without game - you'll be kicked out in a couple of minutes. Have a skinny 19yr old friend who has like 6+ HB8 plates on rotation. Obviously these guys are the exceptions, but all of them have incredible game and usually a very agressive risk approach type attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | How to differentiate between women's real and fake niceness ?Focus on the bigger picture. Don't miss the forest for the trees. What you should be doing is just approaching and talking with women in general, and it will eventually get easier to spot things | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why I have to meet, plate, fuck other womenIn general I'd agree. Mentality (without hamstering) > Actions > Words However, clearly OP wouldn't be making this post if he had abundance, multiple plates in the past etc, which goes back to my first comment. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand why I have to meet, plate, fuck other womenYes, because wanting to volunteraly enter a scarcity mentality and seeking to catch oneitis & bluepill feels is definitely good advice. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:36 PM |
| 4 | I don't understand why I have to meet, plate, fuck other womenCan we ban every retard on here saying this? This advice literally works only for people who already know what to do, not people who need this to be said to them. Essentially - it's pointless. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Origins of “Chad”Yep. I do think that his original season showed a better representation of what he really is (the second video I linked is goldmine imo) | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 07:25 PM |
| 17 | Origins of “Chad”While not exactly a "chad" by TRP terms , the guy I will now link to is probably the most charismatic reality tv show player ever - check out Will Kirby! He's a doctor and incredibly well spoken. Had women fall in love with him in both of his seasons. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-HWghLf7g0 (Watch at least the first two minutes) If you want to see how he manipulated an entire group of people and won his season, check this out - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0orJVOjj04 | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Enjoy the sex, don't get married. It's that simple.Essentially - people trying to use The Red Pill principles to fulfill their blue pill fantasies & expectations. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Feminists want to kill Toni HarrisIf you start now - sure. You can theoretically sustain yourself though, especially if you started from beginning by playing Arena and getting daily quest rewards, but hearthstone is definitely pay to win. Addicting as well, would not recommend video games in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | The Rejected Woman | Chateau Heartiste : "I once saw a beautiful woman turn from flashing a sexy smile at a friend-zoned guy...to falling to pieces, her voice wobbling and the color draining from her face, when she realized the stunning girl standing behind him was actually his new girlfriend."what does crashing at friends houses have to do with their loyality? You might test how far they are willing to go to help you, but that's got nothing to do with loyality. I for one would likely never take any of my friends in unless it was very temporary and badly needed. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminists want to kill Toni HarrisSounds very similar to me, except I'm few decades younger. Also played both hearthstone a couple of years ago and poker as well, except I was the eastern europe guy. Black friday really did have a massive blow on online poker. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Feminists want to kill Toni HarrisDid not know you play the infamous children's card game. Hearthstone on a competitive level is like Poker. Won't win most tournaments, but the best players do have a ~5% edge over other pros and over long periods of time it adds up. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/19 11:14 PM |
| 3 | When a girl asks if you have an IG, and you don't, but she asks why... What do you say?DEERing has nothing to do with validation. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks if you have an IG, and you don't, but she asks why... What do you say?Ironic "Because I don't want one" is DEERing as well. (Explain) | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Saving all semen for one woman with a semen fetish – alpha or beta?And what if someone wants to supplicate others? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”vagina envy is getting stronger these days. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?Since it's been two months, how have been progressing? Better, that's for sure. Increased my overhead a good amount, as well as my bench. something like 75kg x 5 x 4, but with incline in there as well at like 65x8x3 on the same day. Squats and Deadlifts have also gotten higher, so overall - definitely some progress. As for diet - still on the same "diet" if you can call it that. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?This mentality is why you are struggling. I'm doing pretty great with this mentality so far, but alright. Of course I'd be struggling when I'm seriously trying to change an aspect of my life that hasn't ever been tackled before. Things take time, I was just looking for some additional guidance. There’s nothing wrong with fun and hobbies, as long as you are taking care of the shit that needs to be done. Fair enough, but I don't see how anyone who has achieved greatness did the "do what's neccessa… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 09:51 AM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?But I like movies. Both my parents worked in the movie business and I was brought up in a house that loved them. They bring entertainment and happiness to my life. Cool, I like games as well. Doesn't mean I don't understand that there are better things out there to do with my time. It's also a form of habit in a way. You have given value to movies due to your upbringing etc, but if you now tried 90 days really hard not to watch any movie and do something productive instead, if you'd succeeded, I… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?That's what I think as well. How do I trust so many of the commenters here when realistically almost none of them strive to achieve greatness or max efficiency? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 09:47 AM |
| 0 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?If me going to see a movie in theaters every 5-6 weeks helps me unwind and relax a bit then can you really say that it's "unproductive"? Nope, but there's no doubt a more productive way out there that you could have unwinded as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Good point, friend. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?it was a legit question, never was meant to be taken edgy or aggressive. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?I never said Dopamine is bad. EASY dopamine on the other hand... | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Fair. Does the urge to degenerate ever go away though? I've been off of a lot of unhealthy habbits, but I still get urged from time to time. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?is it so bad that I will never want to use easy dopamines ever again? In all seriousness, tekken is actually one of the only console games I've ever enjoyed (alongside mortal kombat). | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Sure, but there's a major difference here (perhaps one I did not mention). What you are doing is not easy dopamine at all - you are a proffesional dancer and you are a creator, not a consumer. Now, one could argue that I'm backpedaling my "escapism" argument, because what does it matter if it's "consumer escapism" vs "creator escapism" ? It's still escapism technically, right? I will say that the context matters, but I can't explain everything with a grey zone in there, it would be too long and … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:47 PM |
| 3 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Select positive behaviors / hobbies that you actually want to encourage and focus on orienting your reward system to those. Again - almost anyone who struggles with quitting these things KNOW and have selected positive behaviors / hobbies to encourage, but the DOING, aka the "focusing on orienting your reward system to those (instead of the easy dopamine ones) is the hard part. One could give you a list of the hobbies they want to implement, but two weeks later you come by and they are still ind… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Like everything else, videogames are a tool. Yes, they can be used as a tool for things you've mentioned - learning language, learning about beautiful soundtracks that music experts can use etc etc, but the key word here is that they are used as a TOOL. When people mention they have a video game addiction, never have I ever heard anyone mention they have an addiction for how much language they have learnt in a game or how "much creative ideas they are getting from constantly playing them." Again… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Yep, that's basically spot on how I feel about this topic. Especially the "when taken to excess" part. Of course playing a video game or using any of these things in small doses won't hurt you too much, but why are they even neccessary in the first place even in small doses? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?when you see music as same par as drugs etc I never said that. I just said that music is escapism just like drugs (but of course on a different level). | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?I'd say the key is not to avoid dopamine, but to carefully choose its sources. Playing video games is fun at first but quickly turns your mind cloudy and tired. Eating french fries tastes good at first but makes you feel like shit afterwards. Of course. I never said to get rid of dopamine, I said of "easy" dopamine (like you mentioned - fast food, video games etc). That's what the post is about, maybe you missed the "easy" part I guess. Otherwise I agree. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:39 PM |
| -3 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?They are creations of mankind, but how exactly are they helping YOU live your day to day life? Video games are also a creation of mankind, and how exactly are they benefitting people's lives? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Fair enough. But can't you be "unproductive" without easy dopamine? Instead of working all day, doing an activity for an hour and then turning to video games, couldn't you be instead turning to something that's not easy dopamine? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?So much extremeism on this post. Could be. I do tend to go either black or white and be hard on myself for even wasting a couple of hours of my time. Get rid of your gaming console. No game console, could never care for console games. Only ever played games on computer (which is also the platform I use for my work). Think this is more of an eastern europe thing (less money to buy consoles). As far as I'm concerned, muricans are the ones who like their streetfighters and marios. (kidding, but not… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?but again there are probably actual classes/lessons/tutorials for that which would be more efficient I would imagine This is essentially what I was trying to convey. You can find something valuable in almost anything, but that doesn't mean there isn't a better way of doing things. As for imagination being escapism - I would say yes. If it's in moderation, then it's not going to be too harmful as with anything (still would be better without it probably), but there's a reason things like maladapti… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:32 PM |
| -1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?try reading biographies of heroic historical figures. Sometimes it can read like fiction but you know it’s historically accurate. And how the hell do you know that? Because some schmuck tells you this on the cover of the book? I'm also not saying that every biography is inaccurate, but clearly at it's best - it's just the closet thing we can get to the truth. How do you know that what some guy achieved in the year 536 was exactly how it's said in a book? Even if it's mostly correct (which you wi… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Fair enough. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:57 PM |
| 5 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?I do lift, 4+ times a week minimum. ... when do you sleep? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?I don't have a laptop, but in general, I'd agree. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?You can't, they have to have the willpower. Until they muster up the willpower they'll relapse over and over even. They have to want to help themselves. But in the cases where they SAY that they want to help themselves, yet the actions never make up for the words - what do you do with these? Are all people without willpower lost causes? And what if you don't have the willpower, how do you gain it without having the willpower to want to gain willpower? That's essentially the paradox I'm trying to… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Literature is one humanities greatest achievements, it is on you to explain why it is useless... Useless in the sense that even the most useless thing has some sort of a use - it still doesn't make it valuable. I find using /thread on your own comments to be comical. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?who of your idols thinks fiction is useless I don't really have idols. And again - why does this matter? You are essentially giving your idols a symbolic value, and refusing to think for yourself. I have leart many things from many people which have all helped me tremendously, but do I blindly agree with everything they say? Of course not. Take what I find useful and move along. Literature is one humanities greatest achievements, it is on you to explain why it is useless... I never said it's use… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?In the heroine addict cases, where they helped by anyone else? Or did the heroine addicts themselves internalized the habits on their own? It's important to know this, because what's stopping the heroine addict to say 3 days in the plan - "Oh what the heck, why did I want to reduce the amount I use anyway? I love heroin! -> proceeds to binge it and resets back to 0. What exactly is stopping all these people from "binging" on their addiction? If it's willpower, then that's fair, but obviously som… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Video games are not escapism... I haven't played them as an escapism in over 10 years but don't mind playing a game here and there. "played them as an escapism" - not sure what you mean by that, since playing them just for the sake of playing in itself is escapism imo, everything else sounds like your hamster rationalizing your incompetence. I'd like to know why you consider them not an escapism, especially when you literally indulge yourself in a different world that's not real. Only a small fe… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Incremental withdrawal is tough when you are addicted and the "binge" kicks in, not sure how to explain it. Ensure your area is set up for work or dedicate a specific area for it and then give yourself rest times to engage in social media/game whatever. Since I have only one computer, if I want to dedicate my work area to work, then that's it. Can't play games on it. Also, I don't use social media, deleted it half a year ago, couldn't feel better about the decision. Day planners are good, but th… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?"Fiction" in itself is something created, and something that's not "real". Would say you video games are not escapism then as well? Technically, they are "real" and a part of this world, so they could technically not be escapism, but I think we all understand that video games are, in fact, escapism. This isn't even about labeling things. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Keffir, isn't that a paradox? How can you start small and build slowly while at the same time being addicted to those things? If an addicted person could just say to themselves "Hmm, yeah, I do have a problem. From now on, I will instead of playing video games for 8 hours a day which I've done for the past 6 years will now instead do productive stuff when I wake up, and then play 7 hours, then eventually 6 and so on". It just doesn't work, because no addicted person has this rationale in mind. E… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:22 PM |
| 5 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Met a bunch of men who don't like fiction and they have NPC responses as to why. You are missing out on one of the largest parts of human experience. Start by reading history, a lot, eventually you will understand fiction. Also some of the best "fiction" contains better psychology lessons then any "non-fiction" books. Maybe start with "Blood Meridian" . The problem with fiction is that it's escapism just like anything else. I consider art and music escapism as well. Now, I'm not saying you can't… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:13 PM |
| 6 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?People give up on reading quick because they never find genres/styles they actually like. Yes, but reading fiction in itself I consider to be useless. Buy a pen and draw. True, I should do that. The thing is - when you are not good at all these activities, it's incredibly tempting to revert back to video games as a clutch, not only because they are easier and you are good at them (well, at least I am. not really an acomplishment is it huh), but because they are specifically made to make the play… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:02 PM |
| 3 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?If you’re addicted to video games and your current strategy is sitting in your house trying to resist then you need to create some tasks, goals and missions that involve things outside etc. And what if you are working from home for a project that has to do with graphic design and in general - remaining seated next to your computer 8 hours a day? It's like I'm playing on hard-mode here, and I have very limited options since I don't have enough money to do something else, and this is THE plan to m… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:55 PM |
| 4 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Disagreed with one thing - intentionally staring people down on the street CAN be used for practising frame, eye contact and in general - not making these things such a big deal later on in situations where it matters. The context matters here. You can't make these things become a part of your frame naturally before essentially "faking" them. How can you get good at something without practising first? Are you gonna tell a guy who wants to become a musician that it's insecure to practise playing … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being lazy and reliant on easy dopamines?Agreed Laziness is a feeling, yes. Calling myself lazy would be creating an identity for myself which would be Ego based. I am not lazy, but I do feel a strong urge of laziness when it comes to my work ethic. It is a changeable trait, I just don't know how to change it. Perhaps I need more time, perhaps I need a different approach, but the more I fail, the more time is being wasted, and not always does it bear fruit afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being lazy and reliant on easy dopamines?Sound advice. Only thing I'm wondering is - how exactly can you "track" things like "productiveness" etc? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being lazy and reliant on easy dopamines?Program yourself to just do the thing you want to do without hamstering I agree, but again - a person who is able to do this is at least somewhat " not lazy " and is able to take this action. How would someone who is lazy as hell even start doing something without hamstering? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being lazy and reliant on easy dopamines?Yes, but discipline in itself requires constant action, and if you are lazy, then constantly staying on that path is a difficult task. I'm not saying that I expect there is an easy solution for this, but turning laziness into discipline is the tough part. How can you take action to discipline yourself if you are too lazy to take action? It's a paradox. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Self-Confidence Must Be VerifiedDisagreed. You don't need to "prove" anything in order to not have the need for external validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 10:33 AM |
| 8 | Need a little help with this shit testThis is the only way to handle this situation? Really? He never said it was, just that the other responses in the thread are, essentially, not as good. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Any fathers of daughters here? Would like to know what kind of feelings you experience knowing red pill truths while raising a daughter. I know the anger I get from TheRedPill wouldn’t be healthy if I had a daughter.The only reason why it wouldn't be healthy is due to still not accepting the reality for what it is. The reason you are feeling this way is due to living a lie all this time, essentially bad expectation overdose. Why be mad for something that just is the way it is? The only one who makes you unhealthy is you. It takes time. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill knowledge from Napoleon BonaparteI have always thought that woman was made for man... - and man for country, family, glory, and honor. The last part has too much ego involved. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/19 08:30 PM |
| 4 | When did you realize the "honey moon phase" was over and you were now her beta bucks?There are no green flags but one - the non-existence of red flags. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Best books for social skills?Wouldn't say unpopular, just an opinion people don't want to hear and implement because it's true and requires action instead of pure mental-masturbation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:25 PM |
| 3 | She holds a degree level professional job, but I can't understand how..? (details inside)Hedonistic lifestyle is a lie. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated financially. What do I do?Too much ego in this comment. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Red flag degrees and jobs?Curious as to know why. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?No worries, I've learnt a lot from you. The biggest takeaway for me was one of your comments - "Hedonistic lifestyle is a lie." Cheers man. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?The way you are trying to discuss this also shows me that you are trying to find ways to justify getting on TRT, because you sincerly believe that your testosterone levels pose a problem and problem you think getting on TRT would solve all your life problems for you, which it won't. Going on TRT is something I'd never even consider unless I was at around your age. You taking that away from my comments shows that I need to improve on what I'm trying to communicate when I'm writting, so that's on … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 11:48 AM |
| 6 | Red flag degrees and jobs?What about stuff like dragonball z etc or fist of the north star? TV / shows in general are a waste, not just anime, but I'm wondering why watching something like breaking bad is better than dragonball or One Piece? (Shows I watched when I was younger) | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?588 How is 588 a very healthy number, when you are 42 and have 800 and you consider those "normal" levels though? It might not be bad, sure, but it's not exactly spectacular either. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?At what time was the blood taken? 10 am~ Good diet, enough sleep, no alcohol, lifting and supplementing vitamine D and zinc can raise your levels as well. Never smoked in my life, haven't used alchohol in the last 6 months, zero. I always sleep at least 8 hours, 90% consistent sleep schedule as well, as in going to the bed at the same hours. Again, black or white. Taking 4-6k vitamine D3 every other, if not every single day. No zinc though, planning to get that. I also lift at least 4 days a wee… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | How to exchange info with other guysIt was a funny one as well, that's not the point here. The point is there have been other people who make jokes that aren't even bad as well, and get banned/deleted because they don't have EC tags or they aren't known, like you. It's not pretty, but even here in redpill the bias is showing, and to be frank - it's pretty natural. Only thing I don't want to see then is moderators writting their "Timed out for x days. Don't pollute the comment section with jokes" etc. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?what do you consider "normal levels" ? I'm 19 and I had 588 about 2 months ago when I submitted my blood test. It's considered "normal" here, in fact, in the upper scale (by modern standards, of course) , yet I think it's too low (considering past decades), especially at my age, and even if it is "normal", then it's not good enough, so not exactly sure what you mean by "normal". How hard is it to get into Keto diets by the way? the calculator you sent looked somewhat complicated at first glance. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?How much do you think it is the TRT and how much the diet? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | If you could make a list of 5 things to always keep you mentally and emotionally sharp/healthy what would they be?Any diet / nutrition tips? Autistic question - how bad is my current diet and am I getting everything I need to feel energized? (Currently - not really that energized, but not depressed either). Breakfast - 3 eggs + a banana. 4 meals - 125g rice, a sliced fresh tomato a serving and chicken fillet. Thats literally, and I mean 95% of the word - that has been my diet for the last 6 months. I have a very black or white way of doing things, so eating this shit every day is not a problem for me. I'm j… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 02:41 PM |
| 13 | How to exchange info with other guysAgreed. No EC tags / known names and this would probably have gotten removed if the mods were awake. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Which movies have redpill content?Alright. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Which movies have redpill content?Don't get offended now. Indulging heavily into music, especially ones like you listed is never a good thing. Music becomes a coping tool like any other, a tool that lets you escape the reality for a couple of minutes to transfer you into a different reality. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Which movies have redpill content?Nothing redpill about singing how much hoes you bang, how you live a hedonistic lifestyle etc. Not only that, but listening to that garbage makes you a cuck. You are literally listening to someone who is more successful than you tell you about how much he fucks hoes while you don't, and more and more songs are accepting the "cucking" and promiscuous nature (like Tyga's "You don't even have to tell him" song) and even if you imagine yourself to be "them" while you sing along or listen to the musi… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | "Perfect" is boringyou'd want us to believe I don't want you to believe anything, and of course it's not perfect, nothing is. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?First, he raped a 14yrs girl as an grown man. Second he tried to do it again. And where exactly is this mentioned in the post? Edit : Found it in the comments. Fair enough, still doesn't change my original comment and the part that I quoted. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?...what exactly does it have to do with my comment? What does him being a "pedophile" make a difference for the part that I quoted? Also, 16 is a perfectly normal age to have consensual sex with someone. Where I live, 16 is the age of consent, and it's awesome. Age of consent being 18 and higher is the result of feminization. It was completely normal outside of the last couple of centuries to wedd even 13-14 year olds, if not even younger. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?That's good and all, but what exactly does this have to do with my comment? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 05:46 PM |
| 6 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?Its youre mission to help ur beta father become strong again ...says who? You are not "in debt" to anyone. If someone does things for you, and if they expect something back - that's their own fault. If he wants to do it, then he'll do it. If he doesn't and internet strangers tell him that he needs to do it, that's retarded. I would never expect my children to do x and y when I'd be older as a "pay back for me taking care of them". I find it absolutely disgusting, and it makes me look like I wasn… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Jordan Peterson Is A Beta HypocriteAgree with you on that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/19 08:29 AM |
| 8 | What has caused society’s recent (last 10-20 years) emasculinity?You can't change that. Someone will always get the short end of the stick. If all ugly people turned into hot people in a day, you would see that change only for a couple of months, if not weeks. After that, there would he hiarchies of all the beautiful people. For example, all 8's would be considered ugly, 9's average and 10's hot. Also - if everyone is hot, no one is. Who's to say people currently are either ugly or hot? Maybe we all are beautiful, but most people still label certain traits ug… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:23 PM |
| -2 | What has caused society’s recent (last 10-20 years) emasculinity?Really stupid curious question - what if you draw porn for a living and use your own product like a shitty heroin dealer? Wouldn't the fact that you're creating something yourself make it be in a different ball? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | How can i overcome my shyness and get better at talking to women?By going out and approaching people, regulary. My advice to you - approach people on the street, every single day for 30 days. Look into people's eyes when you pass them by even if you are uncomfortable, high five passing people on bycicles and do some very stupid shit, like dancing on the street. By constantly being in no comfort zone / environment, you will get used to it and it will become second nature after some time. Don't think about the future, though. Just take it 1 day at a time. Harde… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 01:07 PM |
| 20 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?Never. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:32 AM |
| 2 | "Why me? You could get a better girl than me, but you didn't, why?"I'm still unsure if beer is a meme when it comes to masculine things or if everyone really thinks It's something manly on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/19 07:36 PM |
| 7 | "I don't give a fuck about you"Do what you want man. That’s the core of the Redpill. That is not the core of the Redpill. I'd even say it's one of the stupidest things people say on here. "Do what you want" - okay, I will play video games for 6 hours every day, procrastinate and text girls cringy texts because that's what I want to do, right? If you say "Well, of course don't do that, but do x and y" ... then that breaks the original point, since at that point I am listening to advice on what I should do, not what I want to d… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 05:14 PM |
| 46 | "I don't give a fuck about you"Shouldn't have blocked her in the first place, just ignored her. Lost frame there. If you unblock her now, you'll look like a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Hard next this bitch?There are no green flags, but one - the lack of red flags. You should never rely on green flags, because the only thing they do is make you rationalize shitty behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Ex BPD gf now going out with a loser from my older circle...Why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 09:39 PM |
| 11 | Winning the Game of LifeI've wasted 11 years of my life gaming, and even though I was good at it - it's not even worth it for an hour. Think about it this way - if you eat 6 days clean and on the 7th day say - "since I ate clean for 6 days, eating that slice of cake at John's birthday is not that bad." Yes, it's not that bad, but you know what is even better? Not eating the cake at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Since time is a woman’s worst enemy, what would be the equivalent for men?All men know how hard it is for us our early 20s ?? I know 18 year olds who spin 5 plates. Sure, they are an exception, but they exist. Clearly their SMV is high. I'm not arguing that it doesn't get easier when you get older, all I'm saying is that this "make yourself into something and then you will be high SMV in your early 30's" attitude is stupid. You can be high SMV a lot faster than that, and it has little to do with age other than having more experience and more reflection on life when yo… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 09:28 PM |
| 14 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.100% Each approach is a success | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys have the desire to be part of a "tribe"?Being a part of a "community" /"tribe" etc is completely fine, as long as you don't involve your Ego, and by ego, I mean making that your identity. "I'm a [insert surname], that's how we do things!" - no, you just are and you have given your surname / family a symbolic value. It's not real, but it has real effects. "I'm an american, so I need to protect my country" - not really. Do so if you wish to, absolutely nothing wrong with that, but don't make it "a part of you", essentially. Just do it b… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | If you were dating a women from one of the wealthiest postwall women from Taiwan, how would you play itLast sentence is you taking a moral highground, even though I agree with you. There's no need to involve ego in this. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Question to the mods -Read the title again - this post is not for the audience, it's a question for the mods. I tried reaching out to some, but have gotten no answer, so that's why I made this post. The post involving all the information will be a seperate one. If you are a programmer yourself, I can DM you the details since I'll release the post a little later (if it's allowed). | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Question to the mods -because I've seen people be banned for less. You can never be too sure. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Question to the mods -Who said anything about limiting? This is just an extra source that I could potentially use for the project. I'm looking for programmers out of TRP as well, don't worry about that one. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Reviewing MY VERY FIRST POST on The Red Pill from 2013Putting yourself out there to fail and make mistakes is not taking a step back, but I get what you mean. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/18 09:41 AM |
| 3 | I never feel like doing anything or going anywhere. How do I change?Getting a dog to fill a void or to "help" you is an excuse like any other to fix your real problems. You also put pressure/expectations on the other party (the dog) to achieve your goals, and having expectations is literally never a good thing - either they get fulfilled or they don't, and if they don't, you feel bad. The dog example is applicable to a lot of things - AFC's looking for a girlfriend to fill a void in their lives, adults making children to "fix" their lives (while missing the real… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:26 PM |
| 0 | SHOULD I GO FOR THIS WIFEY or LET HER PASS? Would LOVE some WISE GUIDANCE.People who moralize/shame etc all have their ego on the line. It's funny - It always comes back to ego. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Whats your TOP books that are 100% MUST read?Even a bigger "pill" than all of redpill combined. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Will most girls write me off because of my body?Big if true | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Unicorn checklistThere are no green flags, but one - no red flags. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:50 PM |
| 4 | 2 month plate saying Im too aloof etc.Even so why post if you don't care... ...because he's looking for advice? This is definitely a TRP circlejerk. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Free Muffins!Why would you want to eat muffins? They have a lot of sugar! Bleh | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/18 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Never watch girls storiesSo essentially - it's to look at degenerate content (memes), mostly biased bluepilled information (news) and being a consumer of other people's work. Got it. The other useful things you mention can be find in different places that aren't Social media should only be used if It benefits you, and "interests" alone don't cut it. Your interests could be memes and games which obviously aren't helpful for you. As far as I can see, social media should basically be used for business only. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do women care so much about validation?Aren't you looking for validation? If everybody disliked and shut down your post you would be upset. ... that's only if you are ego-invested. Otherwise - you don't feel upset. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Her Internal HierarchyIf she talks about her exes then dump her ass and show that you always had the power What I meant was - now that she knows that you will dump her if she doesn't abide by your rule, she has a reason to hide it. Aka - you won't know if she actually doesn't talk about her exes because that's the way she is, or if she does it because you set an ultimatium which she understands she needs to follow, thus you never know which one she really is. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I prevent going insane?Thanks for the insightful advice. I was wondering - did you ever mix business with pleasure? For example, venturing into business that interested you and you were passionate about, or were you just hustling for money? Perhaps you have some book / forum recommendations if I'm not asking too much (although who knows, maybe you never had a need for those). | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38So a couple of years ago it was Red then? Or even 100 years ago? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38So it's "dominant concepts" more or less, yeah? Isn't "feminism" a concept that's not dominant, though? (as an example). By this logic, feminism is red since it goes against the dominant paradigm. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?Thanks for the discussion mate, have a good day Anytime. Have a good day as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38Missed it. Is "Anti-establishment" essentially something that goes against the principles of society? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 9 | How do I prevent going insane?Any advice on how to get rich? I got the other side mostly covered haha. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I prevent going insane?Try again | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Her Internal HierarchyTell her that you have a rule which is never to talk about exes. This gives her power. She know knows that she can shit-test you with this and see your reaction. If you don't pass it, for example, tolerating that behavior, then she will know you are a bitch. Also, her talking about her ex without you telling her that you don't want that is a good thing. It shows you her true nature. If you would have told her that you have such a rule, she may want to talk about it, but withold it since she know… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?But don't you think that all of them have some red flags Almost all of them do. What I'm trying to say is - green flags don't really matter. The only thing that matters are the red flags. You still may LTR a girl with some minor red flags, no one's perfect. All that matters is how far you are willing to endure the red flags and wether you are hamstering or not. An example to make it clearer "I've been plating this girl for 12 months, and I really enjoy her company. The only Red flags that I've r… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 03:46 PM |
| 5 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?"TRP green flags" There are no "green flags". The only green flag is... - non-existence of red flags. "I've been seeing this plate for 8 months. She cooks for me, is very submissive, cleans, doesn't have any guy friends, has [insert another 100 green flags] and so on and so on... but she also goes out partying with her "slutty / bitchy" girlfriends and posts very slutty pictures on her social media... should I LTR her? ?? Do I even have to give you an answer wether or not you should LTR her? We … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to discipline/punish kidsThe problem with Ego is that it creates an identity for yourself, an illusion to what you actually are. You are not what your mind thinks you are... you just... are. Some Ego examples are : "After spending 2 years on this forum, I can finally say that I'm a Redpilled man!" Can you spot where the Ego lies? ... ---> It's the "I'm a redpilled man" part. Other examples : "I'm your mother, so that means I know what's best for you." The mother has created an identity for herself in that she gives "val… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?My comment about the one-time decision, is in regard to the fact that a woman can like "you" one day, and be completely indifferent the next or encounter Chad and blow him in his car. She isn't yours, it's just your turn. No one's talking about that. You could be the brokest ass motherfucker with ridiculously good game and personality and she still might branch swing, but in that time that you were together , you'd probably want to know if It's a genuine relationship she has with you or not. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 09:10 AM |
| 2 | What we can learn from the conga line of female teachers who are having sexual relations with their underaged male students.Thinking about the past or the future is retarded. (Indulging/daydreaming, that is). Always try to stay in the present moment. Don't give out shitty advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?That is a beta mindset, because you are concerned with how they view you. Nothing to do with concern. I understand where you are coming from and what you are trying to say, but it's different, and here's why. The "Beta" mindset would be : "I hope she likes me, since I have x and y" or something similar. Whereas what I'm trying to convey is : "How do I make her reveal her true self to me for my own benefit?" (To get a genuine connection, for example). You don't care if she views you as a Beta or … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?You have weird logic it sounds like you think chicks only bang poor dudes or something. My point is more that if a chick fucks you and likes you when you have essentially nothing else other than your game / personnality going for you, then you truly know she likes you and not your assets. The more assets you have, the less you really know if she likes you for you, and not what you bring to the table outside of yourself. That's why having a lot of money is detrimental when it comes to finding a g… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 10:02 PM |
| -2 | How to discipline/punish kidsThere is, it all comes down to mindset (and not rationalizing) and context. The problem with explaining this in my first comment would make them go "Well, I do know what I'm doing" , which doesn't get us a clear answer. By the answer I got ("Nah, I'm a good parent. I don't need to mask my intentions in any psycho babble"), we clearly see that it really was Ego-based since they felt the need to defend their identity (by defending and calling what I'm saying "psycho babble") If he would have ignor… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?Of course, it was tongue in cheek. By the way, I have a post that might help illustrate the points I made in this post a little better. Search - "Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil." on the main sub. I can't link it because it deletes the comment since it's a bad bad subbreddit | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?Fair enough. I think it's fine if you are in it for the sex and some companionship, and not looking for someone who's gonna be your life's "soulmate" (Probably shouldn't be "looking" for that either, if it happens it happens (after enough vetting of course, but I guess the point I'm making with this post is that it becomes harder to know the real nature of the girl you are vetting if you have a lot of money since she could be masking her intentions better)). | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 06:36 PM |
| -2 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?She's going to drop panties for an alpha regardless. Maybe, but is she gonna be with you because you are alpha with money, or that you have money and you are alpha? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 06:30 PM |
| -7 | How to discipline/punish kidsI don’t need to mask my intentions in any psycho babble. Defending. Ego shows itself again. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 06:28 PM |
| 4 | How to discipline/punish kidsThere's a good episode of Southpark on this (Called "Tsst", the episods with Cartman being schooled by the Dog Whisper). Obviously it's just a show, but I took the advice and applied it to real life situations and it worked. Take it with a grain of salt though, of course. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 05:08 PM |
| -9 | How to discipline/punish kidsI'm a good parent Identity. Stop using your Ego, especially in the first sentence. If you said that to perhaps have others think you might have a better knowledge on this subject than others, you should have just said "I'm a parent." You saying that you are a good parent doesn't make you a good parent in itself. It makes you a good parent only if you actually are one. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | How to discipline/punish kidsYes, it's incredibly smart to take advice on how to raise disciplined kids from random strangers who may have good advice or not on bluepill forums /s | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 04:53 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?True. Would be pretty funny to have a fine ass looking house, yet you drive a ZAZ Zaporozhets | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 04:07 PM |
| -1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?Having a nice car or nice house is not detrimental to your game. Completely disagreed. You think a girl will act like a slut when she's approaching the wall and she's looking for a Beta Bux? Hell, it doesn't even have to be the wall, It's just natural for girls to look for a provider. Take an example : A slut is looking for a relationship for comfort as well as materialistic purposes, but she enjoys casual sex as well. She meets an alpha guy with a lot of money. Do you think she will act like a … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] To those of you who have a good income, do you hide it?Of course nobody hides their house, but if you know it's gonna be detrimental to your game, you'd probably want to make up some excuses for why you have it. ("I inherited it from my rich grandma, but I work at McDonalds") You can choose not to do it, but you'd need to understand that there's an incredibly likely chance that the girl you are vetting for a LTR is not showing her true nature just due to the fact that she wants you to be her Beta Bux primalry and Alpha fux secondary. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38A Red Pill book is a book that rejects dominant ideology it can be obscure or not. But why? Why does something need to reject the dominant ideology to be considered "Red"? If Redpill suddenly became the dominant ideology and something like feminism (It's not the dominant ideology now either though, but take it as an example) would become obscure, would that make Redpill "blue" and feminism "red" ? Is feminism "Red" now as well since it's not the dominant ideology? Incredibly basic example, but -… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/18 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Long time female friend is questioning why I haven’t lost my virginity yet ?How long have you been lifting? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38Is "Bluepill" to you essentially "the majority" then? If everyone lived with Red Pill beliefs, but in different magnitudes, would that really make only the top "Red Pilled" and the rest "Blue" ? Sure, without the "good" couldn't exist the "bad" and so on, and the Pareto principle would still probably exist, but just by the simple fact that they all understand the red rules, how can they be blue? I think an even easier look at this would be just taking an obscure blue pilled book (the opposite of… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 11:31 PM |
| 3 | What are some common mental fallacies that i can avoid in my life?What about someone like Arnie? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of the red pill and ayn rand??? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Commodity FetishismWhat's interesting about your posts for me is that I get the sense that you are very well adept at understanding how the ego based society works, but I'm still not sure wether you yourself have an ego based mindset, or if you have actually escaped it and still pose as if you were still under it. (For reasons unknown to me... perhaps financial, who knows.) Either way, great post. I enjoyed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Is banging a one block away neighbor, considered as shitting where eating?All I'm saying is - if you expect to meet her more than x times a month than you'd like, then do it. For me, that would be 0, but I understand that's almost impossible, so I settle for 2-3. If I'd realistically have to see them more often than that, then I wouldn't do it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Is banging a one block away neighbor, considered as shitting where eating?Wouldn't consider it just for income. Gym, your small grocery shop that's 5 minutes away from you with a lot of regulars etc. I'd even say School if it's small enough and you have a lot of the same classes. Even if you don't care, that other person might, and they might try to ruin your reputation behind your back etc. In this case, if the neighbour and OP don't cross paths often, then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | LTRs and ExerciseThis only works if the person lives an Ego-based life. For your own benefit, It's probably a good thing since that's like 95% of people, especially women. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a good Reddit guide for getting your girl into BDSM?Look up Uncle Vasiya (Vasily Zaitsev, I'm sure you've seen his name around here if you've been here for a while. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 12:12 PM |
| 6 | When did you fully swallowed the red pill?There is no such thing as "swallowing the Red Pill" or becoming a "Redpilled Man" That's your Ego talking, not you. Examples: "As a mother of two, I don' think that bla bla bla." - Pretty simple. "Listen to your teachers, they know better than you." - well...only if they really do know better... and not because someone says teachers know better. "Since I'm a Senior / Endorsed Contributor, It's fair to say that my opinion has more value to it than other opinions." - Not that you see this often fr… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:57 AM |
| 8 | Found hot lingerie hidden in my ltr wardrobeI wouldn't proceed with the lingerie stuff. I would proceed with ending the relationship. Look, It's clear as day that you are not getting what you want out of this relationship and that she's getting the better deal. Not only that, but she just lied to you about the lingerie. That itself doesn't mean that she's cheating on you behind your back, but it doesn't have to, because lying to you about this means she doesn't respect you, and if she doesn't respect you... - that's reason enough to end i… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Ex LTR sending me messages and trying to follow me on social media on her extended vacationGhost. "I dont' want to come off as butthurt" ... even if she does think that, why should you care? You cut her out of your life for a reason, and by cutting her, unless you are deep down lying to yourself, you don't want her in your life anymore - ever. If she thinks you are butthurt, the only thing that gets affected is your Ego, your "Identity" (I don't see myself as a butthurt person so I feel I need to defend myself when someone says I am!!!!1!). Your identity / Ego, your past and your habi… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:12 AM |
| 5 | What does your life look like in the later stage if you're not having a kid?I don't have kids, but in my opinion, having a child for... essentially reasons like "not being alone" or " So they take care of me when I'm old" or having that "something" that gives you fullfillment later on in your life is egoistical. You're creating expectations that either become fulfilled or they don't. If they do fulfill, you'll feel like you thought you would, or even not as well as you thought since you already lived it out in your head in a way and it didn't happen as a surprise. If th… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Why do the women in my life treat me with such disrespect?pussy | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Men who also shaped TRP and the Manosphere: Clint Redwood.Yeah, have done that for a lot of posts in the past. Definitely a recommended approach to reading TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/18 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Men who also shaped TRP and the Manosphere: Clint Redwood.Definitely would like to see some more names come up, really enjoyed some of Clint Redwood's posts just now due to your post. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?Then I have to wonder if there was a need to chime in in the first place , considering that in my first comment I was obviously talking about the guys who use Tinder as a buffer, not as an efficient tool to accomadate their skills. I even mentioned that Tinder does have it's uses for guys that already slay. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?I agree in principle, but I find that the men who get laid a lot on Tinder are generally successful approaching in real life as well. I wasn't talking about those men, obviously. That's why I men I don't think the problem that you describe actually exists for a lot of people. Completely disagreed. I'd say it exists for most men. How many matchless men are on Tinder that don't approach or men that get ~3-4 matches a week or something and then never getting anywhere with them? If I was a betting m… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Removing Power From Men : Mom Says 6-Year-Old Son Is Transgender. Dad Disagrees. Now He Might Lose His Son.Right, and that's the transition into adulthood. Fair enough. Right... but no good parent lets their child do whatever they like. Agreed. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | How to take care of skin?What a reliable source /s | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Can Constantly Listening to Music Reduce Intelligence?Nice meme | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.They aren't evil, they are what they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?Alright, fair enough. I take my "no exceptions" statement back, but certain conditions need to be reached. In order to use Tinder as your only source and for it not to be counted as a buffer, you need to be able to get chicks in real life as well and your game needs to be on point. At that point, you can choose to get efficiency over quality if that's what you want, but not the other way around. If you only get some from Tinder and get anxious in public and can't approach a girl, then deep down … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Removing Power From Men : Mom Says 6-Year-Old Son Is Transgender. Dad Disagrees. Now He Might Lose His Son.The issue regarding your first part of the comment is that most parents are shit at raising their children, and that often when a child comes to teenage years, they might already be actually wiser on a lot of things than their parents, yet need to obey them because "parents know better" TM and most don't have the resources to move out at that age. Parents know better - not neccesarily. Only if they truly do know better. Being a parent alone doesn't cut it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 09:01 AM |
| 12 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?A "Buffer" is essentially an excuse. Some of the buffers are, but are not limited to : "She's out of my league, there's no point to approach her" "She's with her friends, I don't think now is the right time" "I'm not gonna Day-game, I'm just gonna use Tinder instead". This does not mean that Tinder doesn't have it's uses, but it all comes down to context. If you are using Tinder as your only source to get women, then it's a buffer - no exceptions. However, if you are day-gaming all the time, app… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Improve your self, not your relationship.Would an over rated comment be called "ORC" ? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/18 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Improve your self, not your relationship.If people perceive your comment as you being triggered, I'd advise you to not immediately blame the "autists" as you mentioned, but perhaps look at it differently - If people perceive you as being triggered, then perhaps you should look at how you are presenting the information instead of essentially blaming others for not understanding what you were trying to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/18 10:35 AM |
| 11 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?Tinder Buffer | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 08:50 AM |
| 5 | Explain why hitting on another girl while you are currently working on one is goodDon't get defensive. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Nexted my Oneitus, you know the story, fucked other bitches and am lifting and she calls me.It's not even about self respect, it just doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I need time management and prioritising help.procrastination is one hell of a drug. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I need time management and prioritising help....and then you open another browser? Open incognito? Make an exception when you need to... until eventually you are back at square one? | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 09:14 PM |
| -5 | Why do some people NOT work out?The difference is some activities are better than others and some benefit you physically and mentally and vice versa Everyone copes in life differently, and it's not up to you to decide which one is better or not. Just gonna leave this here. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:28 PM |
| 0 | China swallows the Pill and comes up with a school to train boys into men - and it works.A lot of good stuff there. The only thing that I disagreed with was the nationalism behind it all. Loving your country/culture is completely okay if that's what you like, but don't make an identity out of it. The moment you say "I am a proud American" or "I need to defend my country because x" - that's where it starts going haywire. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 2 | I need time management and prioritising help.What if your work needs internet connection and the usage of the computer, yet you are addicted to internet / procrastination while on it? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 92 | What are the 3-5 most influential Red Pill Theories?It's her turn | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Stop getting on the HubAnd how can I use this info to my benefit? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/18 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that you will die and probably not be rememberedDon't get defensive. Also - there's a difference between wanting to become famous and "the whole world noticing me" vs doing the things you like to be doing even if you don't get famous. In your reply, you seem to understand this. Just drop the expectations of becoming something, just do it because you want to/like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | what to do after getting the phone?Yeah, true. I don't drink, but I think I can turn it into a joke like "Oh, I meant drink water, you know" or something else. Rock climbing also doesn't really exist here where I live, but I get what you mean, It doesn't matter what I choose really. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that you will die and probably not be rememberedPast or the future doesnt exist in reality, it's just a concept. The only thing that exists is the present moment. If you want/like to take pictures, that's fine, but looking at them and starting to think about the past is bad, because you no longer exist in the present moment, but instead in a place that your mind has created. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that you will die and probably not be rememberedCongratulations. You will never be happy or fullfilled with this mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/18 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Stop getting on the HubOnly problem is - you can't focus. Literally - I stopped my 35~ day streak because it was interfering with my work. Whenever I get a hard on, I can't think straight, and it sucks. I guess going into a cold shower anytime it comes up is an option... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/18 12:36 PM |
| 1 | what to do after getting the phone?And how does this work if you aren't going anywhere? Seriously, I don't want to go to bars/clubs because I dont drink and its a trap, and other activities during day/evening are limited due to -3 degrees celcius over here, its winter after all. Like, I dont go to concerts/shows whatever, it's a waste of time mostly. So if I say "I'm going to that opening ceromony at X" , I'd be lying, because I wouldn't be going there if the girl doesn't come. People here mention the "let her go on YOUR adventur… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Why redpilled man with oneitis from beta days have so much urge to fuck oneitis?That is not a redpilled man. Scarcity and ego written all over it. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | What are the tools neccessary to become wellspoken, charismatic and structured?You’ve gotta have well thought out opinions to give you structure. Good point. If you don't know your shit, how can you have the structure for it. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | What are the tools neccessary to become wellspoken, charismatic and structured?Read. You wanna improve your verbal expression? Start with verbal comprehension. Read every day. Nonfiction, biographies, and whatever else interests you. Write. Learn how to structure your thoughts and transfer them into words and sentences by writing. This is what I believe is essential as well. Now I'm just wondering - how to best "extract" the information in the shortest amount of time and how to extract it better. In hindsight, my question should be more about the "structured/wellspoken" pa… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Tell me about “normies?”Why do you have the need to be "normal" anyway? With a TRP mindset, you are never going to be "normal" anyway. You simply can't enjoy a lot of things because you know the underlying truths behind them. You can eventually learn to enjoy them if you want to (post anger phase), but you will still fundamentally have a different outlook on things. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 03:24 PM |
| 5 | What are the tools neccessary to become wellspoken, charismatic and structured?Not sure about that channel and how good it is. Seems very "normie-esque" in a way. I saw a couple of videos, and some of the things there seemed good, while others seemed questionable and included just to get that 10+ minute revenue. I guess it's worth it to get the "good" out of it and drop the unneccessary advice. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | What are the tools neccessary to become wellspoken, charismatic and structured?I've seen the book mentioned a couple of times, will need to check it out! Thanks for your response. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?That's what I'm thinking as well. Red flags + her actions (and what they truly mean, not what you think they mean) are the real indicators. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Question on (unsatisfied) LTRLTR of 3 months Enough | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 10:08 AM |
| 2 | One night stands, fwbs, plates. How are you all getting laid so often and easily? Like are you all jacked and extremely rich or something?If you had said HB7 I'd believe you, bur now...I'm not sure. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?Correct. Reality is reality, nothing more nothing less. Your Ego is the only thing that spins a situation or a thing to be either positive or negative etc. This guy is in the dark, and by the upvotes he is getting to his reply to your comment - so is a lot of the RedPill community. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?Latvietis? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?Good points, but then I have to ask : How can you ever find a girl with a low n-count then? And I'm not saying it in a "I want a girlfriend" way, just in general. The n-count gets mentioned a lot, but how can you ever be sure about the real number? Personally, I think what really matter are no Red Flags when vetting a girl, but at the same time, I would consider a high n-count (>10) a Red Flag as well, so I guess it becomes a...red flag when she mentions it or it shows in her actions...? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:26 AM |
| 2 | What to do if a girl can’t meet you at the time and date set ?Isn't that what "plating" does as well? Gives you more personal power/good and sacrifices long-term societal values? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 14 | Why do most men still go to bars and night clubs if women are just going there to waste their time?Don't get defensive. Not a good sign. Shows that you are too ego-invested in your created illusion of yourself and you feel threatened. Also drop the lmao's etc. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Hard Nexted my LTR of 2 Years for Lying About About Spending Time With Beta OrbiterThree immediate things I personally noticed in your post : Never give a woman power over you. You did this by expressing to her that "you wouldn't be there" if she continued her endouvers with her orbiter. This gives her the knowledge that you will be at the very least mad if she continues acting like it, so she'll either continue to do it behind your back (like she did), or stop doing it (and she'll probably hate you for it). If you didnt't mention any of that and just looked at her actions, yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/18 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Liftingwhat meat, what veggies and what fruit? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 03:15 PM |
| 2 | LiftingWhat does your clean diet consist of? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Older men over 30, how has the dating ecosystem changed over the years and what part has social media played?How do you see girls below 25 that you meet through friends unless you have a large social circle? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?Good point about the sugar, but is sugar from fruit really that bad? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?Alright, I'll check it out. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Does using Steroids or TRT fuck up your DNA?Alright, makes sense. By the way, how much in general does your lifestyle change your offspring's DNA? Let's say you were born, and in you first 15 years you were fat, with low testosterone and other problems, but then you worked really hard to change all that, learnt redpill, got money, became fit etc, you get the point - how much of that will also influence your child? Is it mostly not DNA but just the upbringing that will change massively? (If a person stayed a fat fuck and didnt do anything … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to see my phone lolI'm not saying yes, I'm not saying no. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?I'm not saying that it's a bad level, but at the same time, it is on the lower side. 5000 IU doses of vitamin D Seems about right. I take 4000, I'll increase it, doubt the 1k changes much though. more red meat (less chicken). If I had money, I'd buy red meat, but when you are 19 and from eastern europe where the minimum wage a month is 380 euros, it gets pretty rough. You seem to be feeling quite good and are pretty active, which are good signs your T is ok for your body/genetics. I refuse to be… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Girl wants to see my phone lolxDD | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 09:26 AM |
| 9 | How To 10x Your Confidence With Women (By Entering A Flow State)How do you become confident? Yes | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthI help my friends move while I expect them to return the favor sometimes while we enjoy a beer. Disagreed here completely. You don't do things with the expectation that you'll be returned the favor. I help my friends move because they are good friends of mine, and if they don't return the favor, I don't care, because I never expected them to do so. I also sometimes won't help my friends move if I have more important things in my life. If they can't understand that I have my own life and things t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?...why though? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Does using Steroids or TRT fuck up your DNA?weird flex but ok | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?You are pretty determined to go on gear and looking for what you want to hear from some random strangers on the internet. Gear is not going to fix your issues. For the record, I'm not thinking about going on roids. If you got that out of my comment and post, then my bad. I should have used different words and communicated better. What I do want to do instead however is try to maximize my natural levels as high as I can. What are your stats? Fuck I'm not even gonna make excuses. I don't even know… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How are my Testosterone results?If you're 19 then it might be a bit low and if you're 60 then it's pretty darn good. I am 19, and I believe I've done a lot of things to maximize it from natural sources. I used to have a lot of anxiety in public, no real-life social life, gaming 6 hours a day, didn't go to school 1-2 times a week~ etc. Many people told me I could very likely have depression, but I didn't want to be a victi so I never listened and I'm glad I did that. Now I've turned it around -I sleep 8 hours a day, eat eggs + … | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?didn't work, still stupid regarding this. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?I'm not saying that it's the "end all be all", but surely there's a massive difference even between 586 like me and someone who has 1000, right? | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Does using Steroids or TRT fuck up your DNA?can you provide reason why you belive this or perhaps some sources? Right now the only thing you got is words. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?Because Testosterone is very important, pretty obvious. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How are my Testosterone results?how much would be "normal" levels? | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthIt's a transaction. They only give you something you want if you give them something they want. Good point. I do sometimes forget that it would be selfish of me to get everything out of a girl without giving her anything in return. I don't mean it in a blue way, I mean it more as "make her feel excitement, fun" etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | When I'm drunk in a party, I get beta and BluePill kicks againMy main point is just don’t get drunk. You will be at a serious disadvantage. I don't drink (19 yo), dabbled in it every 2-3 weeks once a night, Realised I don't get much enjoyment out of it, and I also realized that If I can get my natural state to be awesome without any substances, then that's only gonna benefit me. Needless to say, I have achieved that now and I feel calm, collected, happy and just generally enjoying myself at social settings without drinks, even at 4AM in an underground Tech… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | When I'm drunk in a party, I get beta and BluePill kicks againConsider this, when you talk to a woman your true intentions are usually to fuck her right? Yet you dont just walk up to every girl and announce "hey I want to fuck you". kind of hiding your true intentions eh? You are right about that. I don't really care what she says. I think the struggle for me comes in when I know I could get the girl without doing stupid shit. Without escalation and "talking" to them, I know I won't get anywhere unless my SMV is of Brad Pitt or something, and even Brad Pit… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | When I'm drunk in a party, I get beta and BluePill kicks againThat is a good point that I also tought about when I wrote the previous comment. But does that mean that I need to do so as well? Whenever I go out, my intentions are always clear - have a good time without lying to myself. If I get scared to approach someone, I don't say anything to my bros about "Oh I didn't even want to hook up that night, I was just having fun, you know" , I just don't say it, take a mental note and try to do better next time. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | When I'm drunk in a party, I get beta and BluePill kicks againDon't have a car, but good advice when I'll have it. "Oh, I have to drive tonight" ... every single night, that is... Although this is also kinda "faking" your true intentions, eh. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 12:52 PM |
| 5 | When I'm drunk in a party, I get beta and BluePill kicks againWouldn't that bother you that you are doing shit like that to get girls? Faking that you are drunk just to fit in just to have a chance to sniff a HB6's pussy (who thinks she's an 8-9). I'm not sure I can. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 10:37 AM |
| 0 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.There's a difference between being stupid and both parties using different terms for the same exact thing. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Good place for a early in the day dateYou don't have to believe it to enjoy it. Enjoy the fiction. I can't...maybe I will be able to eventually? Anytime I watch a movie, I think I could be doing something more productive instead. Watching a blue-pill comedy gives me very little enjoyment if at all. Same goes for music. It's like if a healthy diet person eats cake once every 7 days as their only snack. Sure, it's probably not too bad, but you know what's even better? Not eating any cake at all, ever. Eastern European techno parties a… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Good place for a early in the day dateKeffir, what if I don't drink, also no coffee or tea, wouldn't like to go get icecream since it's winter like 8 fucking months over here + there's sugar. Outside is at best 7 degrees celcius, usually lower as well, and I personally don't like to go to clubs/bars because, again, I don't drink and feel like it's a waste of time + I wake up at 7:30 AM, so Past 23:00 it's lights off for me. I'm also not on Tinder because as Rollo's said - it's a Buffer. I only day-game, and until my game is sufficie… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.You can call it whatever you want, but you are just nitpicking definitions at the moment. We both know there is a difference between "using your mind" and "staying in the present moment" and between "Hmm, I wonder if I should go to the barber shop that Greg told me about" and just...observing things without thinking. Of course we are using our minds all the time, otherwise we wouldn't be alive... I thought this was common sense. Don't be the "well uhh... technically... " guy. No one likes those. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Friends always disrespecting me in my homeAnytime. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Friends always disrespecting me in my homeEasy question : What you need to understand is - you can't control how they act. This means that you should never "expect" things to go a certain way, and by never I really mean NEVER . The only thing that you can control is how YOU act and what you decide to do with your available knowledge. It also has to do with your expectations. If you went to a restaurant, and you had to wait 5 hours to get your soup when it said it'll be ready in 45 minutes, you would be pissed, right? In reality, the onl… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women get more desperate the older they get?They get more UGL (u-gul, as in "Ugly") | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.Explain your viewpoint then, because right now you haven't given reasons WHY you'd need to use your mind when meditating. If you mean it as "Focus on your breathing" as using your mind, then that's not using your mind. Being an "observer" of things (without labeling them) does NOT equal you using your mind, not in the context of what people usually mean by the word "mind". If this was not your argument, then I'm all ears. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]What are the other 2? To me, there are no "other 2" after that one, everything else is just in different tiers of great/good below that. I'd advise reading Endorsed Contributor posts. My favorite ones are VasiliyZaitzev an KeffirLime. LiveAFSTOV is pretty good as well (the Always DARE, Never DEER creator), although I do think he has some nuances I slightly disagree with. There's also a lot of good stuff in GayLubeOil's posts if you are capable of reading his posts. Speaking of GayLubeOil - I bel… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Never give a woman power over youOne thing that you didn't need to have in all of this - expectations. You expected her to act a certain way because of the "teamwork" aspect you guys have had before. Do not do this. Either your expectations are filled and you feel like you thought you would, or they don't and you feel "bad" emotions like you did. Good thing that you did what you did afterwards, but again - LITERALLY never have expectations. Don't expect to get the promotion next month, don't expect anything out of this girl. Ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]Like I've mentioned - use DARE. (Deflect / Agree & Amplify, Repeat, Exit). I personally like to Exit the most in my daily life when I'm just wandering about, but If I'm in a conversation, then I try the other 3, especially Agree & Amplify. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]If you'll face no substantial consequences (like a woman being mad at you), I'd advise you to use DARE (mentioned in the post). | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]Agreed. In hindsight, I should have mentioned this as well. To all the spergs out there - I would also like to mention that what /u/leftajar said about women also applies to men (obviously) , but it just happens so that men tend to act that way a lot less. I would also like to mention that regarding the "Boss" example, you will probably still need to explain yourself even if they are angry, morally self-righteous etc etc, as context, like leftajar mentioned, is key. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:17 PM |
| 12 | LTR lied about attending a part while I was out-of-town. Need advice.She could have done something and she could have done nothing at all. It doesn't matter either way because the bottom line is - based on her actions, she doesn't respect you, and that's more than enough to end the LTR. Good on you for ending it, it was definitely the right call. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Is music or sports a better hobby?Whichever you like more. It's really as simple as that (as long as they both provide value to your life). | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 04:18 PM |
| 2 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]I wholeheartedly agree with everything you've written. I think my ending paragraph was focused more towards the people who have internalized the topics somewhat, without yet being able to add anything important to the discussion in a balanced and constructive way. What I mean by this is basically - There's no need for them to be making comments in every "Black and White" post about how the world isn't Black and White, but I also don't expect them to stop making those comments. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:22 PM |
| 11 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]I would say it's a top 3 post in all of Redpill, if not THE best and most important post in all of Redpill. It not only gives you a great guideline on how to communicate with women, but with people in general. Don't read it one time as well, truly internalize it, write down your thoughts if you have any, and then read it again. There's a reason why it had 2,5k upvotes and 5 gildings, but that's just the cherry on top. http://trpbackup.com/posts/2 - here is the post if you or anyone else wants to… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]Yeah I'm not trying to attack your post or anything. Yeah, I know, no worries. As far as I could count, the only qualification is "if there will be consequences in doing this, and they are consequences that you can't afford to take". If there are no consequences or very little consequences like a woman getting mad at you, then never explain yourself. I guess you could also count the Patch Notes thing vs someone screaming at you and why it's different, but I think the "rules" don't apply there si… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]A lot of TRP theory is nuanced, but the "Black and White" post are as needed as much as the nuanced ones. There are people on "Black and White" posts saying "Yeah, uhh, but well, it's not always like that". They can be either blue and not know what they are talking about and hamstering, OR, they could even be giving legitimate advice as well, adding to the post's value with their own experience etc, but that's not what matters here. Of course it's not always right, nothing is black and white. Ho… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]I never meant it to be taken as a rule. In fact, if you look through my post - I never mention the word "rule" except for the "the rules change" at the boss example part, meaning, the rules change in how and when you should use this lesson (mentioned at start). I do agree with you that a rule should apply almost all the time, and we can definitely take the phrase I mentioned in the title and formulate it differently to fit certain criteria like you did. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]I definitely see your point, but I think for some people, especially newer users, this might be easier to understand than "It depends". I'd consider my post a "strong guideline" by my own standards, but I wouldn't be surprised if some people changed the rules depending on their prowess in certain situations. For example - the boss example. If someone is charismatic enough and knows they will be able to get on the good side by acting a certain way even if the consequences are dire, then that's a … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | My ex falsely accused me of rape and nothing happened of it cause I didn’t. BUTDoes it apply outside U.S as well? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.Just like I told the other guy - Read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. You can't meditate using your mind, because if you do, you are entertaining your Ego. You can only meditate by being/existing. By this, I mean - whenever you meditate, focus on the sounds, your breathing, your surrounding, BUT without thinking, without giving labels to things. You are just an observer. Just look at them / hear them without letting your mind start giving those things either positive or negative connotation… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.Read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. You can't meditate using your mind. You just are. That is all. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Destroy Your Dick DecemberBest post in the last month. Going to internalize this. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.I don't get the "bond with your father" comment. If the Father did things right in the upbringing, there wouldn't be a need to "bond" to "fix" things. Bonding for bonding sake is fine if that's what you want, but bonding for the sake of TRP is stupid because not all fathers are good role models. Some are blue pill as hell and there's not much you can learn from them. In fact, I would bet that most people who come here didn't have a strong father figure. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Why are guys here shocked that girls sleep around and cheat? Isn't it time for a paradigm shift? Lets talk about it.Except thats not what meditation is about. Meditation is about entering the present moment. It is not meant as a way to find issues, because that means you are using your mind. The moment you start using your mind, you've already missed the whole point of meditation. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthFirst of all, compromising your own values to better accommodate women is entering women's frame, that's number one. Of course, you can have or want to have values/qualities that ARE better for accommodating women, but you need to do it from your own frame, not women's. "I will become x and z to have better chance at fucking a HB9" vs "I will become x and z because I like doing it, or even if I don't, I understand the neccessity of it in the real world." (example - lifting, becoming more social … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthI think those comics are generally anger phase induced, but at the same time, pretty accurate and sad/funny depending on how you look at them. That said, the first one about "Simon" seemed unneccessary. I understand the "harsh reality" part of it, but at the same time, good on him for trying and having fun. Of course a crippled guy will have a much much harder time to get girls, but in the comic, it looked like his life wasn't that bad. I feel like the comics are very much so in the woman's fram… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Autistic bodybuilding question - does salt have an impact on your body fat?Alright, that makes sense. One thing I do want to ask about salty "snacks", for example chips. Other than them being useless calories etc, are they really bad then? I'm avoiding these things like plague at the moment, but unless I'm mistaken by the vibe of this thread, then there is practically nothing bad in snacks like those, right? The only thing I need to avoid is sugar then... | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Autistic bodybuilding question - does salt have an impact on your body fat?> Makes you hold more water weight So basically... having no salt in your diet is actually bad then, right? If the goal is to look as aesthetically good as possible, then you wouldn't want to hold more water in. Also, I need to pee a lot more without a salt diet, which gets pretty annoying. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Autistic bodybuilding question - does salt have an impact on your body fat?Can you "Fast" while remaining at the same weight? Let's say your daily calorie intake needs to be 2600 to remain at the same weight - can you get the 2600 calories in until 6PM, and then not eat until the next morning? (for example, until 7:30AM) ? Would this impact your body fat % while at the same time, you wouldn't be losing weight? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Autistic bodybuilding question - does salt have an impact on your body fat?What is the correct amount if I may ask? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Plate or FWB- how would describe this relation?Nope, I'm a "guest" so everyone just assumes I am inferior to everyone else. No one assumed that. Your comments and the way you replied are the reasons why your frame sucks. It's very clear just from the way you write. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Three strikes you're outI kinda agree, though I do think that hitting them up 2 times is fine, but more than that? Smells like scarcity, like you don't value yourself enough. Even if she does agree to meet up after 3-4 tries, you could have spent that time doing something or someone else. Don't tolerate bad behaviour | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Plate or FWB- how would describe this relation?It really does | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best book for an early twenties man to get into investing?Alright, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:16 PM |
| 4 | From faking it to making it. Consciousness and Competence, for the future of our nationsWhy does prioritizing the nation over chicks mean it's a "good sign" ? To me, this sounds like an ego thing for you. As in, you seem to be standing on a highground over others. "Bettering the nation" is not more prestigeous or "better" than chasing chicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 03:20 PM |
| 3 | What’s the best book for an early twenties man to get into investing?Question - is Bogleheads also useable for someone out of U.S? Do the principles etc apply elsewhere? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Going out tonight with my "ex" oneitis after long time. Im losing frame thinking about itSmells like scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?So like... if I make chicken n rice in olive oil, after I finish and start eating my "meal", I can just drizzle it on again on the food? Sounds pretty dank. nuts So peanut butter is good for that, right? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?make sure you have enough fat in your diet. What are some easy ways to get "Fat?" Peanut butter (natural without any sugars added, of course) ? any easy implemented recommendations other than what google suggests? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?I started living in the preset moment. That said, even though things are much much better, I still have a way to go before I fully kill procrastination. Gaming is killed, except for the world championship that I'm watching in League. After that, Esports is gone as well. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?I might even agree with you, since I was a huge procrastinator a few years back as well as addicted to video games, and I wanted to do graphic design... Boy do does things just not go well together huh... | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 3 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Weren't you on roids? Lol | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:08 PM |
| 6 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?What if you want to learn graphic design? Learn how to make EDM? Video editing? Programmer? Etc | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:07 PM |
| 6 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Sugar I've been wondering for a while now how Sugar affects you, but I don't trust sources outside of TRP that much to give me a real answer to this. Could you exapnd upon how exactly is sugar bad? And what's too much sugar? My only source of sugar is sweet chilli sauce on my rice n chicken, literally the only one (although 4 portions a day = 40~ grams, which is veerry likely too much). | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | "Anger" towards cheaters...Life Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It is What It Is It's actually called "The World Shouldn't be like anything, it is as it is", just so you know in case you want to recommend it to someone else as well! I have read it It seems since I've upvoted it, but I'll read it again. I think I know what it is about as well, and I "understand" that as well. Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" book is probably on a similar track to your post. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | "Anger" towards cheaters...Makes sense, I think I just need more experience and time. A bit unrelated, but how do I best manage to not let this impact me when I start thinking about it? I had a great day today, for example, but then I saw some...clips of that shit... and immediately afterwards I had the "...what am I doing, this feels bad" thought. Suddenly, the realisation about "nothing matters, there's no point to anything" kept coming to me etc. The only reason why I choose to do "worth-while" things even if nothing m… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | "Anger" towards cheaters...if that includes fucking chick's with partners then so be it. My script is the exact opposite at the moment but I think you meant that in comment. Have you perhaps had a "shift", or maybe seen someone else here talking about that? Like, at start being very against the idea due to their "morals" etc, but after a while their morals change and they start to not give a fuck and just TRULY embrace it as a natural thing, instead of just "knowing it" (like I am at the moment, without too much experie… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?This pill is bitter hence people will come, experience it and go back. It's hard to be Neo, the matrix truly was far ahead of its time. Some months into the Red Pill journey, the anger phase does kick in. I believe after that, it's smooth sailing until you truly realise how shit it is (I haven't reached that point, hopefully my experience is different). Like, I haven't yet had experiences where I fuck a girlfriend while she's texting her boyfriend etc, I imagine those are gonna put some people i… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:23 PM |
| 8 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?This thread is a circle jerk of naivety. It is, but you would be stupid to not acknowledge that Tattoes on a girl = red flag. Even with my somewhat limited experience, I've noticed this heavily already. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?A very very very tiny tiny tiny part of the world is truly red pill. Do you mean that they are redpilled or not? Because I think the previous comment basically agrees with you in the sense that they are "winners", "high status", have huge social circles money etc etc, but they don't "get it", they just naturally were able to get into those positions, or, at the very least, worked their asses off but just didn't have the knowledge when it comes to women. I think when people say "natural alpha… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:43 AM |
| 10 | Should you tell a girl about your past hardships and your life as a teenage looser?This right here. Women don't care how you made it, a lot of people here have tested that and so have I. Just be the awesome you that you are today, don't mention your past "beta" self or your struggles. It doesn't accomplish anything. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Feelings Over Facts: The Fall of AcademiaI'm curious about this as well since I havent taken one, probably never will... but it makes sense that you can "prepare" for the IQ test format, at least. What does it even measure? your innate "smartz"? If I am very good at academics for example, and get a high score, is my "true" IQ really measured? or am I just a tryhard at solving those types of problems? Not to mention that with more knowledge and different tries, the IQ test results would surely differ, right? I mean, a measurement of you… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/18 05:40 AM |
| 3 | What to do after losing your best friend and strongest connection you ever had?lol what vandaalen said | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:11 PM |
| 3 | And this is why feeling shame, pity and sorry for yourself earns you no respect. Knowing the masculine way of dealing with pain is one of the largest mental muscles of a strong man.Your environment definitely has an impact on you, and if you dont have a strong enough frame, it will slowly consume you. First you say "I'll just order a pizza today instead of making my own meal, after all, I've been disciplined for SO long, how bad can it be?" Then you go "My friend is back in town, and I could go meet him when my gym session starts. Yeah, I'll do that, after all, I've been going to every single one for the past month, it wont matter if I just skip 1, right?" And so it begins… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/18 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Congratulations, Fortnite has been successfully uninstalled.this right here. The reason quitting a long lasting video game addiction is hard is because...quite frankly, you dont know what to do, so eventually when you get really bored, it starts creeping back in your mind. Fill your time, I'm speaking from a "very" long experience. Find something social, fun, relaxing but challening and with constant measurable growth. This is very important because thats essentially what video games provide. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 08:45 AM |
| 3 | "TEXT ME"Huh. Most people on here, for example when day-gaming advise to have extended convos, like 5+ minutes at least, yet this is very simple and without much effort. That's probably the only thing that's confusing to me sometimes on here. A lot of people give good advice, but the advice contradicts what someone else says in the "micro management" aspect. Everyone says that you need to approach, sure, but "how" and "what works" is quite different in each and every post. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 06:28 PM |
| 0 | How Bad Is The Social Stigma Surrounding Interactial Dating?who cares? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 04:00 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?In that case, I'd give it a pass as well. It's like ordering a pizza, but the pizza turns up late and a little cold but it's free because they didn't get it on time. Still gonna eat it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?Should have ditched her right there on the spot. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How am I not attracting any female attention when I believe I’m doing the best I ever have?Probably not, but maybe he is Quasimodo or something. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 10:36 AM |
| 3 | How am I not attracting any female attention when I believe I’m doing the best I ever have?Submit a picture, might help us judge if your physical appeareance is a real factor to take in. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Music?Yep, good list. Good to see others listening to Techno as well. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Michael Kimmel, male feminist founder of the Stony Brook Center for Studies on Masculinity, the institution indicated by reddit admins as providing good reading on "positive masculinity", forced to step down on accusations of workplace sexual harassment and sexism by past collaboratorsMan, it's like the plot is writting itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Music?Listen to Techno - it's the music of Present, which is better than any music with lyrics. For example, a lot of hip hop which is considered TRP is actually pretty beta, rapping about women and putting them on a pedastal or spending a lot of money on them etc. Try some of these Techno bangers - Carl Cox - Inferno Jay Lumen - Asteroid I Hate Models - Daydream Sam Paganini - Rave Ben Dust - Homeless Bjarki - I wanna go Bang. Adam Beyer - Your Mind. ■ Still Bangers, but more for the feel - Boston 16… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Brought a girl to her dorm but she was too drunk, we kissed, I put her to bed. White night or nah?You literally said nothing of value. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:53 AM |
| 26 | Beta male orbits thot for 9 years while she rides the cock carousel, then she hits the wall and he buys her a house. Don't be this guy.what does the last part have to do with anything? Him fucking hoes does not change the fact that he bought a house to a girl who friendzoned him for 9 years and who he married. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminist: I wish I was born a man. Men have it so easyI thought about this for a second as well, but I think the difference is that a girl who is a "5/10" still has an easier life than the 5/10 dude who is practically invisible. A 1 or a 2 from each gender is obviously bottom of the barrel, but even then I have no doubts that the 1-2 girl will be getting more sympathy etc than the dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Roasting girlsNever self-depricate even as a joke. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Anyone thinking of leaving the West?no one said anything about family. Why did you even bring it up, it's completely unrelated to anything. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Well I’ll be deleting reddit nowthe irony of this comment | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Well I’ll be deleting reddit now/u/BrutalMan420 is right. This post is literally useless and is only a way for the OP to vent and get external validation. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 12:26 PM |
| 2 | TRP banned sucks but it may be helpful to our overall qualityDon't agree with the last part. What do Taxes have to do with Frame? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Serious question to guys on here who don't want to get married and have kids or even get an LTR, what are you going to do with your lives?Not sure if this is actual advice or sarcasm. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm lazy.You actually hit the nail on the head. I think deep down your "best guess" is correct. In fact, I even wrote a post some days ago as well regarding that I could very well have impostor syndrome or a fear of success/failure. I was introverted, no social skills, and only now in the past year I've truly turned my life around, and with the blue pill conditioning that was happening all my life, It's no wonder I'm feeling like this. Understanding this is one thing, though. It truly does run deep… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | I'm lazy.Yeah... I'm always multi-tasking, and lose attention very quick even if I do get out of my lazy slump. Ehh, I guess I'll go check myself. Better to know for sure wether I am or not than always be guessing. At least if I know I have it, I'll be able to formulate a plan to work in it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm lazy.btw, I slightly edited my comment just in case you didn't read the edited version. Thanks for the reply, I'll look into the sub. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm lazy.> Or maybe you just do not like the task/work and rather do something else. Well, yes, that's exactly the problem. I could be making 5k a month with my project in two months time in a country where the minimum wage is 440 euros at the age of fucking 19, but instead I choose to play World of Warcraft in private servers just because "I'd rather do something else" or "it's more fun". It's fucking stupid. Do I not "care enough" ? Am I too "spoiled" and think everything's gonna be alright even if… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm lazy.I fucking hate to put myself in a victim position, but honestly? I don't know, maybe I do have it. For a long while now, I've thought to myself that I may indeed have it, but I always disregarded it due to a "Fuck it, I'm not gonna feel sorry for myself" mentality (or maybe I'm just a lazy fuck). I did struggle at school with my attention a lot, sometimes did have problems controlling myself or being hyperactive especially when I was younger. It also says that they have good attention span for t… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 03:17 PM |
| 5 | How to get a fwb to initiate sex?Sounds like you are in a perfect situation. You get sex when you want, which is better than her initiating it randomly, since you might have other things going on at that moment which are more important. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Vagina EnvyGlad to see you get the endorsed tag. Deserved. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 3 | TRP Observation from when I was homelessSure, but in the words of Vandaalen - "Hedonistic lifestyle is a lie." I myself believe this to be the truth as well. You reach true freedom and happiness internally, not from exterior sources. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 09:19 AM |
| 1 | End Game or Handling Life on Your Own TermsWhat do you mean with "caste" in this context? Not sure if I understood correctly. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | TRP Observation from when I was homelessTrue. It makes complete sense, yet I haven't experienced it, so in my mind even though I know it's true, without my own personal experience to back it up it's a bit hard imagining exactly how it is, so that's where maybe the doubt is coming for some of the people here. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Shared an unpopular opinion in group chat, got shut out. What can I learn from it?both. since you cant not give a fuck before, dont give a fuck now. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Linus Torvalds apologizes for twenty years of being insensitiveRather it works with his methods than it works sub-optimally with "kindness". I do agree that it would be even better if he could accomplish quality together with social skills, but it's not a perfect world. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The Redpill at 18If I hadn't quit video games, I'd duo with you if you were on EUW. Was a 2 trick Akali/Master yi at Diamond 1 20 points in season 3 when I was 14, which is a literal equivalent to Master these days, I think. Anyways, short and simple post that probably helps some people here. Good start. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Redpill at 18> Looks at username Fellow LoL player I see, a dirty shaco one at that haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Linus Torvalds apologizes for twenty years of being insensitivebasically what happened to WoW | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | The Power GameDoes that include just not liking a certain person? Probably does, just wondering. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Female Coworker finds out I have a kid-- starts throwing obvious IOIs. What gives?I'm not saying it's okay, I'm saying it's the reality. It would be nice if double standards didn't exist at least in the LEGAL department (like what you are saying), but I know very well that women will be given a pass in a lot of scenarios where men won't be. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:30 AM |
| 16 | Female Coworker finds out I have a kid-- starts throwing obvious IOIs. What gives?The concept of "equality" is something TRP has no place for, so why are you even bringing this up? Men and women are different, and double standards exist for a reason. People want men to act a certain way and females another on here, yet consistently cry about double standards (maybe it's just a different userbase, I dont really care). Double standards have always existed, and for a reason. This "equality" movement is just trying to destroy the balance. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The best defense against oneitis is to learn how to love women. Appropriately.How do you daygame without "investing" in a girl then? Do you just play bored in the conversation? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 06:56 AM |
| 7 | Rejection is better than RegretDisagree. I can say the same argument about "you only live once". I only live once, so I will NOT approach her at the gym because it's my training and relaxing zone. I can game literally anywhere else that doesn't jeopardize my potential well-being. Since I "only live once", I want to maximize my well-being, which in this context means not shitting where I eat. Worst case scenario isn't likely going to happen (sexual assault/ getting kicked out of your gym etc), but even sharing the same env… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Rejection is better than RegretYeah, all I'm saying is be careful. I personally am really cautious about this, even if I feel IoI's. They'd have to be really blatant for me to even consider them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 09:54 AM |
| 14 | Rejection is better than RegretIf I was you, I'd program myself to not approach at the gym. It's the place you workout, afterall. It's just not worth it to jeopardize that potentially imo. Don't shit where you eat on a smaller scale. I personally wouldn't want to see the same girl who said "no" everytime I go to the gym, been there. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | At what time should I daygame?Source? But that does seem like it could be true, also the reason why I wanted to make this thread, since I always went daygaming from 1-2:30 PM. So I guess I'm stuck with older chicks... hmm, gonna be interesting to see how that turns out. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | My textgame sucks10 year difference then, not sure if it works on my generation, but I'm willing to try it just for the experience itself. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The Reality Is ThisI say, "Listen, then play." I say - "learn, study AND play." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | My textgame suckslegit question - how old are you? Just to see if it's a different demographic thing. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Interesting hobbies?I lift and meditate, and while they are cool, I can't exactly say they are my hobbies, since there's no passion/adrenaline when I do them, even if I take them seriously. I treat them more as a neccesity. I live in eastern europe and I also have no money atm, that's why I'm working on entrepreneurship right now. This also means no surfing. I do want to try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Wouldn't be a bad thing to have a passion for, but we'll see. All these are somewhat related to physical activity, though… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 11:19 AM |
| 0 | Interesting hobbies?How is getting good at chess more useful than video games? Perhaps the mental exercise, but other than that, sketchy. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 10:56 AM |
| 18 | My mom causes arguments out of nothing and I can't fucking handle it any more. What do?Tell your dad to do his job or you're gonna have to do it for him. Yeah! That's the attitud... wait, hold up... | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyEven with my shitty gaming addiction from 8-17 and the problems it has caused me to this day, there was one thing that I learnt - Solitude. Even with all the shit that comes along with the gaming package, learning Solitude might possibly just been worth it. I can be alone for an immense amount of time without the need of other people's company. Now...all I need to do is reverse the cancerous parts of it... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Got stood up last nightOne example from your personal encounters perhaps? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Got stood up last nightExample? No matter how I look at it, you still look like a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)I get what you are saying, but understand this - If she wants to cheat, she will WITH or WITHOUT you. We are also not the ones making the final choice of "cheating" , she is. No matter how many redpill bros "unite" and not fuck women who have boyfriends, there will be some other shmucks who'll take your place. The problem isn't our doings, but the way society has enabled women to act. That my friend, is a problem we are not capable of solving even with all our combined sources. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach - tips request for first stepsAny suggestions perhaps then? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | DARE?Aight, cool. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | DARE?This is exactly what I think about this whole ordeal. So basically, I should just DARE everything a woman says, no matter how small since I know I'm making the right decision...that's what I'm getting at, at least. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | NoFap is becoming a problem.Yeah, it's something already. We are basically in the same situation, except I don't use tinder. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 0 | DARE?If it was more like a shit test, then DARE. You have to be the judge of the mood, sometimes questions are just questions and not shit tests. That's kinda what I'm trying to get here at - do you DARE "normal" questions from women anyway? I don't see an upside to DEER'ing them in any form of way, so I'm wondering if it's wrong of me to DARE all the time in regards to women. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | NoFap is becoming a problem.Not sure... sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, haven't exactly counted. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | NoFap is becoming a problem.Isn't it different for everybody, though? Like, this seems like a thing that has a lot of factors going for it. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 5 | NoFap is becoming a problem.Are you having wet dreams yet? I had one at like day 13 or something, first one in my life, actually. Would be nice to have one again... | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 07:23 PM |
| 15 | NoFap is becoming a problem./u/LiveAFTSOV - I remember you had knowledgable / different opinion about doing NoFap etc. If you have the time to respond, what is your take on the situation? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Not Your Usual Ex.Smells like scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 02:29 PM |
| 21 | "Big Dick Energy" - Female's own theory that confirms RP truthsIt fucks with her ability to pair bond. And the "Why should she pretend that she doesn't like blah blah" is a stupid argument. It's like if I play video games (I did for over 10 years of my life 24/7) and think it's a good thing, it's ridiculous. I used to think the same way, but then I realised that I was just conditioned to feel that way. In THAT moment, I thought they were fine, but in retrospect, it's just hamstering. It makes you feel good/fine in the moment, but the consequences afterwards… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:48 AM |
| 1 | The more I learn, the worse the reality becomes...I liked your analogy. Might use it if you don't mind! | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The more I learn, the worse the reality becomes...That's kinda what I'm saying. Problem is, brain takes time to reboot completely. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Boring life syndromeCan you expand on what you mean by this? | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Boring life syndromeKindal lost me in the middle and the end, okay start. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The more I learn, the worse the reality becomes...Don't worry about that, I will. This does not take away from my drive towards success. The anger... I can't explain it... it's more like an empty frustration inside me. It's certainly not an "ANGRY ARGH", but more of an "Angry" nothingness when I see make-up'd sluts at the bar, not approaching them because of how appaled I feel at the situation. Some could interpret this as an anxiety to approach, perhaps, but I know myself well enough to know the difference between "anxiety" and just a plain "I… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | In high school; raised smv immensely and getting a lot of IOIs but still see myself as too ugly/inexperienced to make any moves.Good. The amount of social freedom you feel is immense. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl asks to hangout then says nvm?I kinda agree with you on there, actually. Been times where I didn't push as hard because they had a boyfriend or whatever, I just figured "Eh, the juice is not worth the squeeze" and went on to game others. Hmm, but then I'm wondering - IF you choose to still pursue a girl who has a boyfriend, it might even be considered scarcity mentality. Then again, it depends on the individual and each situation is different, I guess. For example, I can "chase" a hot girl who has a boyfriend without scarc… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Girl asks to hangout then says nvm?Messing around with another man's woman is fucked up. It's not his woman, it's just his turn. She doesn't belong to him. Also, it's her choice to cheat on her "man". You literally can't be blamed for her choices, so there's nothing to do with morality here as well. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.Just be yourself, if you're a geek, don't pretend you are not. What absolute bullcrap. I was addicted to vidya from age 8-17, breathed that lifestyle every single day, etc. I never considered myself too geeky, but by all merits, I was. Fast forward 2 years, I have my life for the most part together, Im lifting 4 times a week, eating healthy, never been happier and actually having real ambitions and good social connections with both genders. You know what I think? You haven't pushed yourself far … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill About Maslow's HierarchyI know what you are trying to say with your "real" argument, but then what about things like foods, protein shakes etc we use for body building for example? That's not "real" as well in nature and in "reality". It might not be "real", but it's still part of our reality, and that's what I personally count as "real." I would want to be good at League again, but it takes too much effort going through a shitty lifestyle to get there, and maintaining it is even harder. Playing 12 hours a day a vide… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to have stronger frame over someone who holds more power?That's life mate. Maybe you wouldn't do this but there's someone out there who would. And they'd get further than you if you were in this situation. The universe isn't balanced, the world does not reward good living and shitty people win at life. It is what it is. If living is defined by success, then sure. If it's decided by more factors, doubt you would call this "winning at life." Good second point, although you don't exactly "starve" if you DON'T act like a dickhead to get further in your … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to have stronger frame over someone who holds more power?This is pretty harsh No kidding. I'm an everyday reader and practioner for half a year now, and this is probably the only thing that's actually disgusted me in the last 3 months. Hearing women do disgusting things is one thing - imagining myself doing something like this to a normal dude who's just trying to be a good boss makes me sick and question how that helps anyone in the long run to actually bring positivity in their world and others. Seems like something you do because there's bitterness… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Western culture embraces open hypergamous behavior. Marriage is dead. Child rearing not possible without fear of being financially raped and removed from your family home.SirKolbath, from 1-10 , how retarded is this. I want to get so good at self-improvement and experience what its like to be on the top just so I can afterwards know what I really want? Like, is it really retarded if I get on top of the world, fuck beautiful women and then afterwards, realise that all I wanna do is play Vanilla World of Warcraft? I'm not saying that's gonna happen, but I will say that after multiple years of doing this and finally being happy and understanding why, I still want to… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill About Maslow's HierarchyBut what if the thing you are trying to "be" isn't really healthy for you? Let's say I want to be a professional guitar player. That in itself isn't bad, but to become a professional, I would need to live a hedonistic lifestyle, which contradicts what I'm going for. In my case, I still kinda want to become a professional League of Legends player since I was top 0.1% in the world at the age of 14 (humble brag, I know), but I never did because it contradicts with a healthy lifestyle. At what… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | NoFap & Making Porn...Hey man! Good to hear the progress! I will tread carefully, even though I personally believe that I am no longer controlled by my brain, and instead, I'm using it as an instrument. Funny how it works, once you realize tha your thoughts aren't you, you become much more happy, focused and full of life. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | NoFap & Making Porn...Man, you guys are great hahahaha. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | NoFap & Making Porn...Hahaha, imagine if I included that in my CV! | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | To what extent do you lower the bar, especially when learning?Was thinking the same thing. a 7 for me is the minimum, the "average" so called. After hour n a half, I only got 8-9 approaches in (700k city, centre , sunny day 1-2:30 pm.) Take into consideration my age as well - 19, so I'm going for 16-19 and good looking 20-23 somethings (although you can already see a massive difference in the skin texture) I think going for the low hanging fruit as well might be damaging somehow as well in the long run, but maybe not if you are "lowering the bar" and actua… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | NoFap & Making Porn...> As for you, OP. I suggest not making porn video games. I tried NoFap and it definitely cures ED but I think making porn games won't do you any good. Thing is, there's so much money in that business. It's literally a pathway to economical freedom at my age. If I can be financially independent at 20-21, I'd take the trade off of not getting as hard as I can. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:37 PM |
| 0 | NoFap & Making Porn...Except the key difference here is that even on NoFap and my bad porn habit, I actually do have the willpower to just treat my porn business as just that - business. Sure, I get hard, but I don't act on it because my thoughts aren't me and aren't beneficial for what I'm trying to do. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | NoFap & Making Porn...You might be right. Back then when those things happened, I didn't really see that much value in myself. Playing video games, just okay at school, no muscle, skinny, unhealthy lifestyle etc. I really was thinking "but what if I don't get blah bla blah" any time I did get lucky. Now? I have a very different outlook on myself, I feel happy and motivated every day and I'm striving towards my goals. The NoFap probably is also going to help, but I think once I'm the moment, I'm gonna be fine no matte… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 08:51 AM |
| 2 | NoFap & Making Porn...It is. The only reason I care is wether or not using an approach like this will actually minimize my ED at the young age of 19 nonetheless... | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Diaphragm breathingHey man, if I wasn't an eastern european 19 year old, I'd probably give you gold! Thanks a lot for the advice! It's weird, everyone usually says to inhale with your nose and exhale with your mouth, but I guess I'll just use my nose only then from now on. Are there perhaps some exercises you recommend for me to use to become better? should practicing 4 times a day for 5 minutes this and thinking about it while walking around work? Again, thanks a lot for the detailed response! Cheers | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Diaphragm breathingHmmm, interesting. So basically, what you are saying is that all the advice on diaphragm breathing everywhere online etc is actually wrong? That said, I actually do think 2% is a lot in the long run. I'm 19, 2% over the course of 50~ something years is something that adds up, but alright... 2% better or not just for the inhaling, that's one thing. Doesn't diaphragm breathing lowers your voice? I've heard also some other minor benefits. If not for breathing, perhaps it's worth doing it for th… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Diaphragm breathingI'm wondering how you came to write such a meaningless comment, honestly. I was not thinking about breathing my whole life prior, and as it turns out, I was NOT breathing "normally". If I stop thinking about it, I will go back to breathing "normally", which is what I'm used to - aka breathing wrong. I'm gonna give you some benefit of doubt in that you can actually expand on your comment in an actual meaningful way, because right now, it sounds like nonsense blue-pill mess only a newcomer could w… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Should i tell my blind dates im short?Perhaps it's all a matter of perspective. If you have killer game and have no problem with your height, perhaps putting them on as an SMV boost is a good thing as long as it actually helps and doesn't make others think you need to hide / mask something. I was more thinking that if you have bad game etc, boots like those are only going to make things worse usually if you are actually anxious about your height. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 10:06 AM |
| 8 | Should i tell my blind dates im short?doesn't that show insecurity? You need X to mask that you are insecure about your Y. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with younger girls> It sounds like you have figured out things on your own, so you just need to apply now. And that I will. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with younger girls"I know. Get ready at 8 I'll pick you up." That's almost exactly what I was going to write. Try not to pussyfoot So...is "pussyfooting" around even when I go for logistics with one message? I've seen people say you need a small rapport as well, contradicting sources, but I guess that's to be expected considering the amount of people post on TRP. So, I'd like to know - why should you IMMEDIATELY go in for the logistics? What's the argument for it with completely 0 rapport after getting the number… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | FR: Crabs in a bucket mentality - Don't change. You're already great.No denying in that, but using only age as the reason why you have wisdom is stupid as well. Example : stupid parents who actually have no clue about a certain thing but tell you to listen to them because you aren't old enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 11:21 AM |
| 14 | "Why do you flirt with so many women? How would you feel if I flirted with other men?"At first I thought your 2nd sentence was your answer. Not the worst idea, actually. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Best way to approach on campus?Sure is, friend, sure is. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Best way to approach on campus?> So we also had 200 in our class I meant that in our 8 classes together, we had 200 people, meaning 1 class is ~ 25 students. Yeaaaah | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 04:47 PM |
| 0 | I suffer from premature ejaculationGonna upvote myself from this account as well! | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Best way to approach on campus?...meanwhile in my country our Highschool had 8 classes... which means 200 people. Must be a whole different experience out there. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Being called out for flirting + Working towards sex with a girlNot to your question, but advice it is nevertheless. Changes your mental state. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:09 AM |
| 8 | Why do we lift?Isn't that like... a bar and a half? lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | IDGAF vs social understanding?You're right. It is my fault that you got that impression. I should have perhaps written it differently, although it's a bit hard when you know that the longer the post and more details, the more chance it will be completely ignored. That said, perhaps not immediately jumping to conclusions based on 1 post could be a lesson for you as well. You can give advice on topics without coming to a black or white conclusion of a person as well. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | IDGAF vs social understanding?You didn't. ... I know, that's why I said "let's say". You argue as if you have a reason to treat the people around you like shit, but you don't. ...and you deducted this from what... one asktrp post? Good one. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?> But you can create meaning FOR YOU. I get what you mean, and I already know this, but at the end of the day, it's still "fake meaning" in a way, as in, you create something to believe in where there's nothing to believe in in the first place, kinda like religion. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you ditch women that seem mentally unstable?aren't they the same? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?If you consider meaing as an emotional reaction, then I agree, but if we exclude emotion, then I guess there really is no meaning, which is fine. Good point about the "and can sustain". I really enjoyed competitive League of Legends, but not sure if gaming is something I want to get back into. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | IDGAF vs social understanding?Someone gets me, alright. You hit the nail on the head. You're right, I do sometimes get in my head and overthink things. Maybe I just need to remind myself not to write posts about things I resolve naturally everytime I get there. Sure, we can chat sometime. Perhaps discord? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | IDGAF vs social understanding?I think it’s useful in your situation to state on what you’re working on or searching for rather than your current success with it. Kinda hard telling my homeroom teacher that I'm making Adult Porn games since I have no problems with amoral business and I'm only there for the money and the freedom of being a content creator... yeah... That said, you are right about the "describe the same situation in different ways". I can just describe my situation as a "business opportunity with me being in ch… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | IDGAF vs social understanding?From your future plans, you're looking down on others. So let's say I do succeed, and I'm making a good profit at the young age of 20-21 or something. I would KNOW that my approach is better, but is that really "looking down" ? Let's take "Redpill" as a whole, then. People post about their experiences here all the time, and we all know that if a post is about a blue pill example, then the poster is better than the "blue pill example" chump. I'll take myself for an example as well. Everytime I se… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Three Harsh Truths About Cold Approach PickupHmm, perhaps, but what exactly can you do in 15-20 minutes? Do 5 sets of bench press? Alright, if you go each day for 15-20 minutes and do one compound exercise, it probably is better than going to the gym once a week for an hour. I stand corrected. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | A guy being to clingy?Something I've noticed with women, is that they love to drip the clingy lines about partners, even though they are cingly themselves. Same rules don't apply to both genders, you should already know that. Otherwise, same line could be said about everything, like - "they hate feminine men yet they love being feminine themselves." Ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a girl who likes youSo, if the first date goes only "fine", are you the one who needs to reach out to her for a 2nd one? I thought it was the other way around, as in, if she's interested, she will reach out again, especially for plates. Would like a response to this. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?Never tried listening to audiobooks. Best places for that? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?Look, I honestly don't have to explain anything here since it seems you're very narrow minded individual and thus, not much point for me to even be typing this, but I'll do it for discussion's sake. And? You're still hamstering. Asking genuine questions is considered hamstering? No wonder you can barely read good stuff on here if the attitude's shifted this way. other factors, like her being sick. You're still trying to minimize your failures by citing "other factors." Sick? What utter nonsense.… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What's the point?Read some Eckhart Tolle Might give him a try sometime, have to finish The Rational Male and stoicism goodies afterwards, so might take a while! | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What's the point?Thanks for the comment, your comment really resonated with me because of how similar your view on this matter is with mine. I'm not even sure it's a negative thing that there's no point, maybe it's just a "bad" day today and I'm sick and I'm getting too deep in my thoughts. Nevertheless, hitting the gym and sticking to my goals has lifted my mood. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What's the point?Think that's what I needed to hear. Maybe the point is that there is no point. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What's the point?"life sucks and then you die" That wasn't the point. The point was more - "life rocks and then you die anyway." You're simply rationalizing away your failures by convincing yourself that you didn't really want to bang that girl. How convenient for you! If there's one thing in life I've learnt, it's to never be a victim. Re-read the post, I'm not rationalizing anything. I did want to bang that girl, I wanted to bang her so bad, but alas, the circumstances didn't go exactly that way I wanted due t… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Three Harsh Truths About Cold Approach PickupNot everywhere it applies, though. Example : gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thoughts & Advice?Actually makes a lot of sense. Gonna try this. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Is comprising a movie your girl wants to watch but you dont want to, beta behaviour?It influences you subconciously. Just like Disney movies sold you the blue-pill dream when you were little. Same goes for music. I only "hear" songs with sad/depressing lyrics and other anti-trp music when I'm out somewhere in the public or perhaps in a house party, and you know what? I've never felt better. I personally listen to techno since it's the music of the present moment - in a way it's like meditation. A lot of other genres / songs focus on either the past or the future. Both of them a… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Is comprising a movie your girl wants to watch but you dont want to, beta behaviour?Kinda true, 90% of the movies are pretty blue with dialogue that goes against TRP narrative. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Counting Calories...Tracking the food is very easy, scan the barcode Do you do this on the scales? Have never "Scanned" barcodes in my life. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:32 AM |
| 4 | How does the red pill fit into marriage?9 comments but I see 3... hmmm shhhhhadows | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Scuffed patchy beard curseDoes tanning still look good with lighter hair? Should you have a "lesser" tan if you're more blond? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I walked away.Yeah, I think I gotcha. I would just use something like "Yeah, we promised to meet up" or something and then bailing. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | I walked away."I have to go see a friend" "Friend? What do you mean? We just got here?" now what? Yeah, you can still leave, but if you go to a, let's say, a festival, and suddenly say "I have to go see a friend" or "I have to leave, how the fuck can it not seem suspicious at all? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:07 PM |
| 4 | In high school; raised smv immensely and getting a lot of IOIs but still see myself as too ugly/inexperienced to make any moves.Ah, the result of beta male shaming. Same happened to me, took a good while to get where I am today. My best suggestion? Do "stupid" stuff on the streets. Hold eye contact as long as you can with every passing person on the street. Say "good day" to every person you pass by. Ask for directions to strangers even if you know how to get there. Wave at people in cars. highfive passing people, move your body as if you would be dancing and so on. In few months time if not weeks, you will be so disenti… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 07:46 PM |
| 2 | What is “never explain yourself”?Isn't that "explaining"... just with a story? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | I walked away.How do you best do it without looking butthurt? I mean, clearly if you suddenly take a 180 spin it will look like something's wrong to her. Like, how do you NOT butthurtly leave the area? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 5 | She's pregnant, fuck my lifeDisagree. You live once, and if you, for example, know that you don't want kids and take all the pre-emptive measures (condoms, pulling out etc) and you are still part of the percantage, than no - you dont own anyone anything. You dont own the society to support the now new mom and be a good dad just because "it happened". If then you go for abortion and she doesnt go through it, it's not your responsibility - she made a choice, just like you can. Never let any fuck pressure you into something t… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to max out the testosteroneApparently roids make you angry like you are, calling everyone a moron or a retard. hahahahaha | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Plate/semi LTR, decides to go on a two day trek with a male friend. Next?What the fuck is a semi LTR?? It's like pregnancy. You either are pregnant, or you aren't. It doesn't work any other way. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:22 PM |
| 3 | If a plate branch swings, do you allow them to swing back?clown | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRPAnd this is a fundemental misunderstanding of MGTOW. Mgtow do not want to get laid, InCels can only think about getting laid. I'm not denying that there truly are people who has no success with women and ALSO don't want any, all I'm saying is that most of the people who do subscribe to MGTOW would, in fact, want to have success with women, but are unable to, thus using MGTOW as a way to mask their failures. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I delete my Instagram?Sure! I did, absolutely zero regrets. Feels amazing. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRPBut this is beyond the point. It isn't. To be a "Man going his own way", he first actually needs to have success with women. The amount of people who would leave the "MGTOW" commnity if they were actually able to pull women would be insane. This is why you need to have success with women before you turn MGTOW, because otherwise you are an incel who uses MGTOW as an excuse for them not getting laid instead of actually seeing it as a way to live life differently. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Daydreaming...I read about Maladaptive daydreaming, and I'm not sure that's it since it seems a lot more serious than what I have going on. The only time I daydream is when I listen to music and that's even then for only some of the songs. The cure is just to STOP yourself when you catch yourself doing it, like I've been. Haven't day dreamed while listening to music in a week now. Meditation is also good, meditating 10 mins a day for about 5 days now, although used to meditate periodically in the past as well… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m lost my brosIf he is, then I disagree. Social media is a waste of time, especially for men. It's a buffer at best and doesn't contribute to your life a lot. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRPIf it truly meant that, then yes. 90% if not more who claim to be MGTOW don't have a lot of success with women. It's not even statistically possible that all of them would be, just like from the 280k subscribers at TRP, a very small percentage truly are, but unlike MGTOW, you don't have to be "RedPilled" to be a subscriber and want to improve yourself, but the same doesn't apply to MGTOW - you either are one or you aren't. If you start to follow MGTOW as someone with no success with women, you w… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting an Ex Back Into BedIt's not even about sex, it's about your self-worth. Think from an "outside your own head" perspective and take a good look at yourself. Maybe you'll understand how low you're valuing yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | TRP And MusicTry these Techno songs - Jay Lumen - Asteroid (First drop is probably my favorite Techno drop of all time). I Hate Models - Daydream Sam Paganini - Rave Ben Dust - Homeless Oliver Huntemann - Rotlicht 747 - Aurora Centralis If you need more, I can gladly provide you some more. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:22 PM |
| 3 | TRP And MusicBelieve it or not, but there are a lot of people who make music for, you know, enjoyment? the money factor if they get good enough comes as a bonus. No one goes in the music industry thinking "Yeah, I hate making music, but If I work on my EDM/Guitar/Whatever skills for 4 years, I will be good enough to attract large crowds who will give me money for the music I have no passion for I'm making. Not every song is commercialized crap. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 05:06 PM |
| 8 | TRP And MusicTechno is 95% redpill, because the genre makes you be in the present moment whereas a lot of other genres make you think about the future (Making you anxious) or thinking about past (Making you think about what's already been). Listening to any songs about women is also bad, puts them on a pedastal. Even a lot of hip-hop songs have lyrics like - "I bought a car for the bitch" just an example. You might think it's not a bit deal, but consider this - every little thing you feed your body changes y… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Daydreaming...Clown hahahahaha | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What would you tell your 17 year old self?School isn't that important. What's important is LEARNING. I hated my subjects in school, but I was always curious about graphic design and programming and a bit more "unorthodox" ways of getting ahead in life, and you know what? It feels great. It feels great to go against society's pressure - "Finish school, go to college, have a family" etc. The amount of freedom you feel is incredible. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | What would you tell your 17 year old self?I'm also on the fence about this. I went to a great school, though I was just an average (7/10) student. I absolutely hated it. Currently taking a gap year and I have never felt as free in my life, I feel like I'm on the top of the world. My opinion might change about school, who knows, but I believe that school is neccessary for average folks. You can learn most shit on your own if you have the right mentality. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Aesthetics or SizeNice. At the end of the day - it it makes you feel more confident about yourself and it also is great for girls, then what's not to like? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend of 2 years is attracted to our landlord.When there's doubt, there is no doubt. That said, too vague of a descfiption for me to tell. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 06:59 AM |
| 4 | I am NOT feeling resentment towards past failures with women...Yeah, exactly! In a brutal twisted way, what happened turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I am not sure if I will ever thank them because there's a very little chance that they planned it would lead me to this, but there's certainly a "gratitude" for the situation itself. Now whenever another dude tells me "You are so mean for treating her like that / ignoring her, she just likes you", I know it's best this way - she'll (hopefully) learn a lesson, understand that I don't like her as well as… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 0 | How long to wait before escalating on 1st date with a girls whos DTF?Nah, I mean, I get that, that's exactly what I'm doing right now due to me not drinking. I was just wondering if that could work as well in my situation. I do need to spend less time in my head and overthinking things, though. P.S I don't drink cofee or eat ice cream either haha | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How long to wait before escalating on 1st date with a girls whos DTF?What if I don't drink and don't use any substances? I feel like it's still possible to pull off something like that off, but at the same time - "lets grab a drink" and then not drinking could be iffy. Maybe you can turn it into a joke when she asks why you dont have a drink with something like "I have one, see? - Water." | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Completing the rest of your tasks or going to sleep?How exactly do you "practice" decisiveness? | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Aesthetics or SizeDo you consider someone like Connor Murphy a very jacked gym-rat? From an aesthetic perspective. Would like to know because that's kinda what I'm trying to go for. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How can I be as fun sober as I am when drunk/on substances?Simple. Remain sober, and eventually it will become your natural environment and you'll feel great and as fun as you used to be while drunk. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Sister asks about plates, what should I say?Basically - you can't teach an old dog young tricks? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 4 | What's the deal with tattoo culture?Would like to know as well. Tattoos on women signal that they are impulsive, which is bad. On men, it also signals the same thing, but men being seen as impulsive is attractive to women, it seems. Would appreciate a detailed answer. I'm kinda on the fence about tattoos on guys, unless there's a REALLY good reason and meaning behind it. If it's done just for the sake of it, seems stupid and insecure. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to “pickup” the girl at the bar who’s interested in you because your the guy not paying attention to you?More appropriate would be "Low risk with small chance to succeed but with a High reward" | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | What "positive" things can you do when you're bored?Kinda interested in getting good at drawing. If I recall, best way to get good at it was trial & error the shit out of the basic forms, straight lines etc. Right? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What "positive" things can you do when you're bored?You completely missed the point. Congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Lift + fighting?Curious - why? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes YouQuestion - does this mostly apply to night game? I'm thinking it would work quite well with cold approaching as well, albeit slightly different probably. Do the rules stay relatively the same in that setting? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | What "positive" things can you do when you're bored?Ah, wish I had a park nearby, would've tried this out perhaps. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Are You A Victim Of Beta-Male Shaming?Interesting, always thought omega male meant something a bit different. Thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What "positive" things can you do when you're bored?You can be very happy with where your life goes or is currently at even, but correlation does not imply causation. It can still be a bad thing for you and you can come out moderatively fine, doesn't mean you should keep doing it. I can have a well paying job, good looking plates and so on, but if I have a cocaine addiction, that doesn't mean that It's okay, that it's something that I should keep on doing even though the rest of my life is okay. And you do care. If you didn't, firstly - you would… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill TraumaI'm all for a lot of TRP teachings and truly do believe it's seeing the world through a different lens. But when you believe arranged marriages, which partly are indentured slavery, might be a good thing, then I think you've drunk too much of the kool-aid. EVERYONE, Men, Women, Blacks, Whites, should be able to choose the path and action you want to take in life. Arranged marriages, social and religious conventions, peer pressure etc all sound like pretty terrible rhetoric's to abide by, regardl… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What "positive" things can you do when you're bored?This is definitely not the way to go about this or your situation. You are using Streaming as an excuse to continue playing video games, like a twisted spin of your current situation just so your hamster can be happy, but in reality, you are just making excuses. The only way to beat your video game addiction is actually trying to beat it. Right now, you are doing exactly the opposite. What's your end goal? Even if you do become a succeful streamer, you'll need to have a constant schedule for tha… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Dude, what is the deal with the response timing!?Maybe you're not their top priority. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 02:26 AM |
| 2 | [Personal Advice.] [M28.] I've seen SO MUCH LIFE-DESTROYING INFIDELITY in my life. I now look at all women now feeling great reactivity unconscious anger. What else can I do here, and not MGTOW after ALL THIS STRAIGHT TRUTH?There's too many words here in your post Proceeds to write a long ass comment. Just messing with you, mate. Thanks for the comment. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What TRP quotes have helped you outWhen there's doubt - there is no doubt. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Bitched out againAre you implying that he should be having a different reason as well? If so, what other reason is there really? Why and how can I as a person really care about literally someone on the street who I don't know. I don't see how you can learn this interest to be truly "genuine", and I feel like that comes more whether you have that type of mentality/ personality or not. I can relate to people, sure, but I'd be lying to myself if whenever I tried to cold approach someone I'd be doing it out of "genu… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Did I have an absolutely terrible sex experience, or is something wrong with me?lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Did I have an absolutely terrible sex experience, or is something wrong with me?it's totally reversible though :) how long does it take to fully reverese that usually? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | My family, mostly my Mother, actively work against my self-improvement constantly. I live with them. Is moving out a priority? Should I cut them out?Who cares? bad influence is bad influence, family or not. If it turns out he misses her or realises something else, then sure, reestablish contact again. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Never forget your true advantageEver triple-drop mollies before a rave? Nothing will activate your reward centre more than that, and it's extremely easy. Yes, but unless you have an infinite amount of resources to be capable of living this hedonistic-type lifestyle, then you'll have trouble sustaining it and eventually will need to do something different with your life, thus leaving behind that lifestyle, which will be hard. I'm 19, and I wish that my mother didn't spoil me as hard as I have been, even though I love her. Up un… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | If both our parents are home at night. Is meeting midday ok?That's the plan. Wake up 6 am 5/7 days, 1 day is for clubbing and 1 is for "after clubbing". Problem is, that still leaves me with rest of the days going to sleep at 10 pm, and how many people want to hang until 10 pm? Not sure. Maybe it's fine to have plates over from 8-10pm or something potentially? is that a shitty timeframe? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If both our parents are home at night. Is meeting midday ok?Yeah, but the point of a routine/ schedule like that isn't to wake up at 6 am and go to a club. Also, I don't live in US, in a city with 700k people, and there aren't really these "After hour" clubs. I'm also 19, which while is the least of the concerns here, still probably an obstacle considering not that many people my age stay up till early hours in pubs and then want to hook up, well, not that I know of. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | If both our parents are home at night. Is meeting midday ok?> Generally harder to escalate and go back to their place or yours. Yeah, I thought this was gonna be the case. Feels bad, because a few days ago I made a post regarding waking up at 6 am 5/7 days of the week, and I'm just not sure how I'll be able to pull girls. Even if I do day-game and get numbers/connections that way, how will I be able to seal the deal if I'm going to sleep at 10 pm? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Have you tried to fully reboot with NoFap> I'm shit tired of doing the same thing (i.e., fapping) and getting the same results (e.g., no energy to pick up women nor to take care of myself). I'm tired too, but my mind apparently doesn't find that enough. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Have you tried to fully reboot with NoFapDamn, at least someone can follow them :/ After ~4 days of no fap, my mind turns off, my dick gets hard and the regret comes afterwards. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Lets go back to my place and watch some porn on my flat screen mirror.how the hell do you show frame in text convos lol. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Have you tried to fully reboot with NoFapwhat are the 2 rules? are they just "no porn" and "no fapping" ? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | If both our parents are home at night. Is meeting midday ok?why are mid dates bad? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder Experiment: Russiaas an eastern guy - eh, kinda true. you see a good amount of people in the big city with drunk faces in their early 40's and people being drunk before noon. and the countryside? Yikes, practically every single one seems to be drinking. I mean, It's kinda understandable considering there is literally nothing else to do there. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Conflicted about waking up early...> Chase your purpose instead of chasing pleasure. I agree, but is going out 1 time a week "chasing pleasure" if rest of my days are being spent on my purpose? Is there really no "down-time" for self-improvement? Does one really want to spend his lifetime ONLY on self-improvement and not "living" as well? You could argue that always chasing and becoming better than your previous self is "living", but then I wouldn't be seeing people posting on here or even chasing women, since that doesn't really… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Conflicted about waking up early...What does my post have to do with hedonistic lifestyle, though? Is going out 1 time a week with friends really hedonistic? I'm not here wanting a lifestyle of snorting coke, partying all the time, traveling etc. All I want is my own place, financial stability and full control over my mind and body. After that comes my mission (which I'm choosing to post-pone until I get my own place, aka working on something that will get me my own place first) and women. I'm just really wondering - at what poin… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Conflicted about waking up early...> He means go to happy hour, which is drinking between 4-7 PM I don't live in the US, first of all. Not sure we have such a thing over here. Also - friends don't go out at that time, so I'd be going solo, which while is fine, is not really what I want to be doing 100% of the time. Also, Wednesday's are the days were everyone parties, so it's more like Wednesday + Thursday are my "days off", so to say. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:32 PM |
| -4 | Conflicted about waking up early...Not sure what you mean, honestly. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you know more tricks to feel extremely good like these?not with that attitude! | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 10:29 AM |
| 2 | The effects of monk mode for 2 months at age 38how tf will women come automatically when you dont communicate with them in monk mode ???? i see this comment all the time, and it's stupid. did lifting help me get more confident about myself? yes did scheduling and focusing on my mission help me better my life? yes did all that help me get women? No, because they dont know I exist since I rarely go out and when I do, I have approach anxiety, even though I can hold a conversation and frame pretty well. you actually have to approach for somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | The Sixteen Commandments Of Poongive her some drama etc etc isnt that the opposite of what you want, though? why would you want drama in your relationships/ with your plates? and isn't this against stoicism principles or even just "be her rock" ? conflicting advice regarding these 2, would like this explained. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Best lines during sex?I got horses in my farm, like a farmer Yehaw. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Going out with a Prostitute.At least she told you. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Update on GF who deleted her Snapchat app when I was with her. Well handled?TSM_Bjergson KDA player btw /s | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:23 AM |
| 4 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.It doesn't. The 2 point contributor just wanted to be a smartass. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | You need Mental Stimulation To Become AlphaThat doesn't mean that they are frowning upon intellectualism. They can be watching TV, playing games etc but almost everyone, especially girls do respect smart men. Of course, they need other traits as well, but it's always seen as a good thing to be smart. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts from the Anger PhaseOP and everyone else, I don't exactly "get" how you all go from "I was x and y, had oneitis etc" to "I'm spinning plates." Like shit, I'm 19, and although I don't live in the us but instead eastern europe, it shouldnt be too different, right? I'm going to the gym and getting the rest of my shit together that is not related to women, but this shit escapes me. Does it have everything to do with approach anxiety and wether you have it or not? Escalation anxiety as well. Maybe living with parents al… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 07:33 AM |
| 0 | HOW DID YOU QUIT MASTURBATINGAnd how does this impact things? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:42 AM |
| 3 | HOW DID YOU QUIT MASTURBATINGWhat exactly is the difference between fapping to something like incest porn or masturbating THINKING about it? I don't exactly see how either one is good for you. Like, what exactly do people here mean with "just use your imagination" ? What exactly is the difference between fapping by looking at taboo shit on the screen or fantasizing/using your imagination for that? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Arnold Schwarzenegger as a Role ModelWould like to know what to do in this scenario as well, because if I wake up at 5 am, there's no real night life I can realistically partake in and sustain. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 07:46 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with orbitersAnd how the fuck are you supposed to know that? From reading a single post? Fucking hell, maybe you're right, but not every person is the same, not every person is from the u.s, and while the male hamster could be taking place here, It just seems so black and white here sometimes. Is there no gray zone anymore? Everything is either one thing or the other, and considering how fucking huge this world is, that seems impossible. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:29 PM |
| 5 | How to become more “Masculine"That sounds like a lot of wasted time learning things you can make other people do for you instead (if you have the resources). I'm a millenial, maybe that's why I don't get it, but time is limited, and why waste it learning shit you're only gonna use once in your life, and without a doubt you'll do worse than professionals unless you spend a lot of time, and them at that point - why waste so much time on something that gives you so little benefit? And at what point do you stop? This sounds like… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | How to stop biting my fingers?Had the same problem for my whole life up until the last 6 months. What I did was just...clip my nails veery short. If there's no nails, then you can't bite your fingers much, or you don't have a good initiative. Repeat every time they grow back a bit where you want to bite em. Do this for a month or two and it will kill the bad habit. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:46 PM |
| 6 | I'm feeling sorry for ghosting girls after the first date..Blocking and deleting is only neccessary if you can't handle not replying to her. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Get fucking CUTI have 0 clue about either thing you guys are talking about and yet just based on the way you type you seem like the soyboy here. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Is there a TRP way to find out why a girl abruptly ghosted?Better - don't. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle disrespect????????? What the fuck is even this comment. "Game everyone but her" Why the hell does he need to game anyone from his job, that's just plain stupid. Don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Garment care and you. Why it matters and how to do it.What do you mean by "rogue eyebrows" ? Never heard of that expression. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How often do you see these posts on FB?She should have just wrote "Chill out, you crazy dog!" | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Get flirted with and/or stared at on a daily basis by women, yet still a kissless virgin, help.I'm 19 but are you me? Same problem, except I was skinny gamer kid instead of chubby gamer kid. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 5 | After TRP I'm filled with disgustHe's not really blaming female nature, though. He is just angry that they are the way they are, that isn't really blaming them, that's just coming to a sad realisation. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [Longer FR type post] What can I learn from this?> Need more abundance mentality Yeah, for sure. Need to game other girls, this one is nothing special. > And about those looks? Those are nothing compared to the dread game built by gaming other chicks! What do you mean by this? Unless I misinterpreted what you were saying... but, I mean, what's the point of dread game if you nexted the girl anyways? Seems just like a confidence booster for yourself, but in reality it doesn't change anything with that girl if you are gonna go game other girls an… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:49 AM |
| 2 | First rule of dealing with rape accusations and the police, keep your mouth shut.These days it's more like "Guilty until proven innocent"... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I be open with not wanting to date a girl because of high n-count?Talk about an overexageration. I really doubt that the girl from my school that looks like Hadrid from Harry Potter is getting any action. And I bet you're only including u.s. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | HB10 extremely coldspeaking from experience, very much likely this guy is already done. Hasn't even gotten on a date with her and thinking about scenarios where he dates her and what would happen if they break up...bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Whats the fine line between "strong silent type" and "socially inept autist"? I'd really appreciate some guidelines on talking less.maybe from the brief clips, sure, but despite being hated for almost all the season, in the end he won his season while basically spat in their faces with his closing speech while they still voted for him to win it all. He's like that annoying smart cocky guy that gets his way in the end. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Whats the fine line between "strong silent type" and "socially inept autist"? I'd really appreciate some guidelines on talking less.What do you think of a personality like this? Dr. Will Kirby (A contestant from BB and no, it's not staged). You can watch like the first 7 minutes of this man and I'd like to hear your thoughts about this kind of a mentality, lifestyle etc because I believe that this type of person firstly has much more fun with life and just oozes charisma and intelligence, and one of my life idols. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 0 | How to thrive in your social discomfort (both in life and in the present moment)This might sound stupid, how do you "work" for it? This has been bothering me for a while. Like, I feel like I don't know how to "work" or "learn", or at the very least my focus sucks ass and I can't do it for a long time. Maybe some advice for a young one? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Are there free body workouts viable instead of weightlifting?It does Source: myself | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A More Socially-Acceptable Version of Redpill theoryNot neccesarily. If you get a good friend to start implementing TRP principles in real life, then your friendship might get boosted to a whole new level and you'll perhaps have someone to bounce ideas off with etc. It's not at all bad, but I do agree that it usually doesnt benefit you one bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:26 AM |
| -3 | How to deal with study procrastinationWhat a bunch of bullshit. You need internet these days to study, since most homework is in a certain system, at least here in Europe Writing down "I will do math from 17:30-18:30" doesnt make me want to do math at that timeframe and crossing that out gives zero to little satisfaction. Works maybe for 2-3 days tops. Maybe im just salty since its my senior year and the exams are coming up, but sticking to a to do list has rarely helped me in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsLet's say that I casually mention "I had a tiresome day" (not mentioning anything further) while maintaining frame, is this also crossing that line? Like, where do you draw the line? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsCurious - is saying stuff like "I had a tiresome day " with frame seen as weak? Not bitching about it, but just casually mentioning it? Like, at what point do you draw the line? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Hobbies and activities that increase SMVI'd disagree with video games in that if you reach the highest heights, you will be getting a lot as well, because at that point it's not just a hobby, but your proffesion - something you excel at. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Alcohol Consumption whilst in High schoolDepends, actually. I know a guy who's 16 and is 10/10 genetics wise, hard working, disciplined and genually high on life, constantly saying things like "Man what a beautiful day we've been given, I wish I could bla bla bla" etc. Incredibly sophisticated and all that. Problem is, while he has 0 problem with social interaction / being the center of attention (probably due to the amount of opportunities he has been given to practise), dude doesn't "understand" girls. Dude's never masturbated in his… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How to break into my college scene?Through the door | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Why do I feel bad?I very well know that, but it doesn't work like that. A girl being fine rejecting me in 5 seconds doesn't make me feel fine rejecting a girl in 5 seconds. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do I feel bad?Haha, maybe when I get better at game, who knows! | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Baltics Yeaaaaaah boi. Latvian gang | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with regret?Disagree. Approach anxiety, heavy introvertism etc can definitely lead to this state, even if you are good looking. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Balance Your Personality and Your Alter Egos, And Control The Beast Within You To Be The Best Version Of YourselfJust like snorting drugs on random girls | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Ubermensch Mode - The Animated Video - (Combined With IM's Monk Mode)Pretty sure you are white or at the very least not black. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Reputation in High School is shattered. Comeback?Would like to know as well. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Reputation in High School is shattered. Comeback?2 point Is this really neccessary? I'm 19 and I don't have time for social media and posting shirtless pics seem phony as hell. You could say "who cares? Some will like it, some won't - don't worry about the haters", but at a certain point you gotta value your self-respect. If I feel like only tools post those kinds of pics, then how the hell isn't it insecure from my own perspective to do that. Seems extremely shallow and killing my self-respect along the way. I can respect good gains or their … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Wake Up and Take Massive Action!As long as you truly understand the value of your own existence and the miracle by which you are still living, you’re gold. Trying to get there. Hope it comes with time. I'm only 19 but I'm already seeing improvement. Good day to you, my guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Wake Up and Take Massive Action!I'm improving, and trying to change my self to something I never was, which is awesome. That said, is it bad that I don't really have a fear of death? Like, it's just something that'll happen and there's no point worrying about it since you can't escape it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Still falling for womenQuestion: Even if you are trying to meet other women, wouldn't there still be some women you preffer more than others, thus wanting to spend more time with them or "that" one? And if so, should you immediately try to withdraw yourself from them for your own sanity? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationok | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:16 AM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationI dont know why, but your comment really hit me. It is that simple, huh. Should really stop worrying, worst ill get is rejection and perhaps some gossip/ weird looks. Have hzndled that in past, and whats 1 month anyways? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situation2 grades (2 years younger, 1 is 1 year younger). Didn't really care for my own grade company since it's very limited and the girls are meh or I've known them and vice versa for too long, a bit hard to shake the gamer introvert image even if that's a bit in the past now, but honestly, the younger ones are hotter anyways. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationYou need to learn to recognize when someone is speaking to you in bad faith. I know your first comment was meant in bad faith, I'm not retarded. Doesn't mean I need to respond to you with a butthurt comment, but apparently that's what you were aiming for, so if you consider this as one, then here you go. Honestly I'm more impressed that you felt the need to even test something like that and then come to the wrong conclusion, thus bamboozling yourself. lol | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationNo. I somehow subconciously knew that it was gonna happen, probably due to internalizing TRP concepta. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationYou're probably right. Would it be a bitch move to initiate convo with a girl over text though? I mean, if I can isolate, why wouldn't I if there are no drawbacks? Also, is there any 'time limit' I should approach in? I kinda need to focus on studying atm and unless they agree to go where I'd want to go, I'm not gonna be going anywhere on my own. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:23 PM |
| 3 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationThanks a lot for the comment, man! But I do wonder - how exactly can I escalate it? I usually overthink these things, and that's probably the case here as well, but here me out : At school, there is basically 0 downtime when a girl I'd like to have a quick convo to set up a meet is alone, always with an ugly friend who is into me as well, which makes it pretty hard to open in public, since even if the hot one wants to set it up, it leaves her in a situation where she'll probably say no, right? I… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl I soft-nexted for 4 days is now ghosting me. What's the best thing to do here?So let's say you soft-next her for a week, and after 6 days she writes to you something, but you need to ignore it. Now, a day later, you want to do something with her in the up upcoming days, but you dont get anything from her because she figured you ghosted her or something after not responding after 6 days... Do these situations happen or not? I mean, seems pretty ordinary if you arent top notch SMV. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Übermensch ModeHonestly, I never cared about this crap, and still don't. Bottom line is - I want to be the best version of myself for me and who I let into my life. And while from a biological standpoint it might be true - no, my purpose in life is not to exist. My purpose in life is to make life my bitch and enjoy it And to answer your question, the blue pill guy who procreates is the winner, because in one generation he exists and you do not And why does it matter? because you say it does? ature doesnt give … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Übermensch ModeSo... lets say my ancestors are blue pills and just strafed through life and had children just because that's how it should be...that's called winning? If I don't have children but I'm full TRP, while my blue pill friend has a shitty marriage and has two children who don't respect him... who is actually the winner here? That gene/ancestor crap is bullshit, imo. I couldn't care less about my ancestors, I only believe in myself and people who are actually important to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | If you could come back to when you were 18, what would you do different?I don't know, It's only been a couple of days since I've turned 19 | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Buying drinks in this situation?corruption of a minor I guess so, but unless she accuses me of buying her the drink, I can just say that I'm buying the 2 drinks for myself, right? Basically it's only bad in the worst case scenarios. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Buying drinks in this situation?I get that, I'm not saying that I'm not taking that into consideration, but I'm wondering... How does me gettings drinks with her change the fact that she could accuse me of rape? And why does it change if she's a minor? Again, I'm not from USA, it doesn't matter if she's a minor here if the age difference is fair in the game of law, so again I don't exactly understand why you brang up the minor argument (or the rape argument, cause she can accuse me of rape even if she's not drunk). Again, not … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Buying drinks in this situation?? So...apparently I can't take out few years younger girls at this part of my life because...reasons? Like...I'm not exactly sure what the fuck you are implying. All I'm asking is if it's a viable option or should I just forget it. Your answer was piss poor, so kindly fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How to train for hypertrophyAlso, that type of physique looks ugly as hell. Really wondering why people go to such lenghts unless it's for themselves, cause aesthetic wise it looks like shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 04:27 PM |
| 4 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsHow is "Genuinely" being interested in other people the same as asking others about their lives instead of telling about yours? I tend to mostly talk about the other person and not myself, but that doesn't mean it's genuine. Like, I listen, can even have a good convo...but was it because I was genuinely interested in them? Most of the time, it wasn't - it was just a way to start a conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 07:46 PM |
| 6 | What do YOU want?Financial Independence, No anxiety when Cold Approaching, 88~ KG and fit as hell, and traveling to E-sport and EDM events because that's where my heart's at. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 5 | You are trying to trick youLol whatever, I was just being curious what the standpoint on these things are. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 11:26 AM |
| 0 | You are trying to trick youBut, masturbation is seen as blue pill behaviour though. I can definitely see why if it's as you said - "binged" or done overtly, but I don't exactly see the problem of it if it's done once in a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 08:28 PM |
| 7 | You are trying to trick youIt's easy to sit in your boxers at home covered in dry cum after a hentai binge. Legit question - was this just a general example or is this how TRP really perceives examples like these? I mean, can't you be full red pill and still sometimes want to jack off to your weirdest fetishes that aren't impossible irl? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Is the marriage advice only for U.S?hopefully you have good localized sites too. Not really, when your country is in Northern Europe and only has about 2 million people, it's a bit tough to find good forums. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Is the marriage advice only for U.S?No, like, I get that. I personally feel like you can have a LTR without marriage, but in some countries, marriage is beneficial for the insurance + tax decrease. Probably not worth the investment, though. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Is the marriage advice only for U.S?Oh, I'm probably not going to marry, but I'm just curious. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Stop talking about your weaknessesWhat's the point of this question? They didn't affect me at all...I'm not exactly sure why you made this comment, because even if they don't affect me, It's an example. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 09:44 AM |
| -1 | Stop talking about your weaknessesThat's cool and all, but I think there's a difference between being competitive and cunning, and just straight up using people only for your own benefit. There was a guy who said he dates/goes out with 5/10 girls just so he could later use them for connections or for some of the skills they can offer him. I personally think that that type of attitude doesn't help you in the long run. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Stop talking about your weaknessesHonestly, yeah. Some of the comments are completely unneccesary. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 01:27 PM |
| -3 | Stop talking about your weaknessesCan't believe this is upvoted. Look, I get it, but being a shitty person is apparently what being a "man" is all about now, huh? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.Ok, can't really object against that. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.what fucking lies? holy fucking shit, you are from a completely different generation, you know less than two shits about me, and act like I'm lying about having a school, a project, and everything else going on. Fuck off, you didn't even answer or give any fucking advice, all you did was humble brag without any proof. Have a fun fucking life, see ya. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:27 PM |
| 0 | 18 years old - confused.To be fair, the guy who apparently has shit shit together also worte 1/3 of what I wrote, and people who give advice often have longer posts. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:25 PM |
| 0 | 18 years old - confused.Chill out, you crazy dog. Take care | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Misrepresentation of Domestic Violence Statistics in Australia Confirms Anti-Men NarrativeBut... I agree? There were literally 2 or something comments that made comments like "women destroy babies en masse" like and "they are murders", I was only questioning that part. Yes, It's definitely fucked up for the emotional state / mental state of a woman, but I wouldn't call abortion "murder", that's the only thing I meant to say with my comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.If you get 8 hours of sleep that would really help. Dunno how you can do that. I usually sleep about 6 hours, sometimes more, sometimes less, but usually 6-7 hours. I have a hard time keeping with a schedule for more than a few days myself. I just keep trying. If I fail, I try again. Yeah, but that's exactly where the frustration comes from, because I'd like to think that one day I'd be able to be consistent every single day or at least if I do fuck up or I was ACTUALLY busy, then I'd be able to… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:47 AM |
| 0 | 18 years old - confused.This might reaaly sound like an excuse, and even I believe it might be one, but since it's winter and the weather is grungy and dark all the time, it's...I don't know, you kinda don't want to do it, you know? That said, I do feel like I might be talking out of my ass here and that I'm just afraid of rejection/ making the first move. I don't have problems looking girls in the eyes or just maintaining casual conversation, but going straight into the action with my intentions clear is definitely ha… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.How do you have zero funds? Get a job or three. I'm going to school and I'm working on a project the rest of the time. where the fuck do I fit in the time to do a job in my senior year? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:37 AM |
| 0 | 18 years old - confused.Also, where the hell do you even learn how to set up a business, especially if you have 0 funds prior. Again, I feel like I just don't know where to start a lot of the times. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.I do not want to be making excuses, but it's my senior year, I already have a project right now, and who knows? I might do that in the future, because that is a passion of mine, but a lot of the times when I want to do something...I don't know how to "study", you know? Like, I need to learn discipline and how to focus before I can do those things, right? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:07 PM |
| -1 | 18 years old - confused.I incorporatd my first business at age 13 in 1987 and had an office at age 15 in 1989. Stop bullshit me. Actually would like to hear more about this, I'm curious how you managed to set it up, serious. "gaming houses" they live in that are financed by sponsors, or they go to actual officers they rent to do their jobs. They don't do it at mom and dad's house because that means they're shitty amateurs. not pros. True, but that's not why I said "That's not how this works". To actually set up an E-sp… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | 18 years old - confused.I did adress most of the points you made, thought it might be interesting for you. If not, that's alright. You probably have more important shit to do. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:48 PM |
| -1 | 18 years old - confused.So you have internet at work. 40 hours a week and go home to silence. Except I live at my fucking home because I'm 18 years old? I work from home -.- If you want to do e-sports, rent an office with other e-sports players. Incorporate. Share the bills. Set your schedule. Don't bring your work home. That's not how this works... that's not how any of this works. I'm all up for advice, but do you even have a background in proffesional gaming? If not, then don't give advice where you probably have no… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.PART 3 It's not a healthy thing compared to the other available options in life. YOU JUST FUCKING SIT THERE. Except my work related field is also revolved around sitting at the computer, and the project that I'm making is very related to some of my past. Piggy backinting the "Go outside" comment of yours, if I'm devoting time for my project, and I'm at home at 4 pm, I go to sleep at midnight / 1 am, where do I fit that boring "going outside" shit? If I want to secure my financial freedom, my hap… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.PART 2 Only use the computer for work, it is not a pleasure source for you right now, you have proven you are not in control of yourself so you should cut it off till you gain more self control WOW, outstanding fucking advice. Hmm, you know, I never thought about it that way! Doing productive shit in my productive time? Why didn't I think of this in the first place? Good thing I now know that there will be no obstacles in my mind to help me be productive in that time now haha haha... no comments… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.PART 1 Ah, I knew one of your types is going to show up. I know you are just trying to help, but you...you guys bring up already the things I know I should be doing, but what exactly do you help by telling things like "Figure it out" or "take a cold shower". Saying that doesn't actually help me find a solution to "figuring it out", and doesn't make me want to have a cold shower. Like, holy shit, do you actually think I'm so fucking retarded that I don't know what I should be doing? I "know" what… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Misrepresentation of Domestic Violence Statistics in Australia Confirms Anti-Men NarrativeI never claimed that, and I believe that it's not natural for both genders. It probably doesn't fuck only the female psyche, but the man psyche as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Misrepresentation of Domestic Violence Statistics in Australia Confirms Anti-Men NarrativeWhat does abortion have to do with murder? is TRP against abortion? What? Why? If it's beneficial for both parties or not doing it can fuck up your own life, why would you want it. The baby isn't even alive yet, come on. Hell, if I was killed before the age of 2 or something, I probably wouldn't really care because I'm barely 19 and I literally don't remember anything prior the age of 3 or something. Like, where do we draw the line? If I'm ejaculating, why isn't anyone screaming that I'm doing s… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old - confused.Haha, yeah, that's inevitable, I guess! Thanks, and good luck to you as well. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:02 PM |
| -1 | 18 years old - confused.Except the problem is - my project and everything I do in my career revolves around internet and computers. There is no escaping it. And no, I'm not gonna go cold turkey on who I am and become someone who I am not just because some redditor told me (I'm not saying that you meant it like that, I've just had another guy tell me a very similar thing and he said I need to change everything). Once you're in the E-sports scene and actually competed proffesionally since a very young age, it's kinda har… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I think Monogamy is Dead.how the fuck was your comment relevant with anything he said??? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...That said, I think you do have the capability to control your gaming addiction. I'd recommend that you limit yourself to playing games only when you've done everything else you need to do for the day. That's why it's an addiction. if I knew how to do this, I wouldn't have even mentioned it. If I could play for an hour or two after a day of focusing etc, then there wouldn't be a problem. Yet, that's not what happens. What happens is I start to value feeling good > priorities, and so I just happen… | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...Oh, I know they exist, it's just that they don't exactly exist in my ecosystem. If I really tried to find them, I probably would fine a few, but this is not a big enough concern for me to fix at the moment, since I have more important things to deal with. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...You agree. But won't. So where does that leave you? Leaves me in my situation, which is pretty shit, and the only thing that's left is for me to fix it. Do you like dancing or not? It doesn't require drinking. I do like dancing, but that doesn't mean I like dancing in public or going out specifically for the reason of dancing. It's an activity that I like to do when I get the chance, not something that I specifically go out for. It's like this - when there is a party etc, sure I'll let loose and… | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...I agree that it's neccessary, but I don't like spending much time outside of the house, gaming makes everything else feel pretty empty to me now. And about that dancing - I don't find it "fun" to go out alone to a place where they play dance music and I currently don't have money to grab a few drinks and let loose. What this would actually look like would be me going to a dancing club and shuffling sober, but then I just look like a poser, and while it's not important how I look to others, I don… | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...Only problem is - gaming is an actual addiction for me. I literally can't stop playing games when I need to do more important things instead in that time. If I could do all my schoolwork, go to gym, work on programming and THEN play for like an hour or something, then I probably wouldn't even be typing here at the moment, but that's not the reality. The reality is I come home from school, I'm tired, so I maybe do 1 thing or 2 "productively" and then say "a little gaming won't hurt me, I'll just … | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 07:03 AM |
| 0 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...You know what I hate? when people say that they are "trying to help", then assume things about me that they have absolutely no fucking clue about and then act in a superior tone. It's really nasty, and you should probably look into that. That said, your last paragraph did give me a bit of a different view on how to deal with my shit, so thanks. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...You actually rate yourself, claim to be popular, claim to be in the top % of a game, etc. Not a good look. I did not rate myself popular. I was just saying that I'm part of the "cool group", which in itself sounds pretty stupid, and I get that, I don't think the group that I am in is any more cool than other groups, and I actually spent most of my life up until now hanging out with nerds and I still do, it's just that in my class there aren't really options for that, we have 3 other guys and 21 … | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 06:36 AM |
| 2 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...Opā, latvieši ir visur :D Sāc ar kaut ko mazāku. Pieradīsi un pēc tam būs vieglāk. Tur jau tas joks, es ļoti labi apzinos ka tas palīdzēs, bet vēl šis "klikšķis" smadzenēs laikam vēl līdz galam nav noticis. Tāda sajūta var Tevi nekad nepamest vai tieši otrādi - atradīsi savu grupu un jutīsies lieliski. savā ziņā tas, manuprāt, ir pat labi. Ja man izdosies atrast to "savu grupu", tad visticamāk es jutīšos savā elementā vairāk, nekā tie, kuriem tas parasti nāk viegli. Un šo postu ieliku /r/seducti… | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 09:36 PM |
| 2 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...I think that might be the problem. I don't have a "clear" destination, but then again I doubt most people have one. I "want" to become a programmer, though. Currently learning C# in some of my free time. I had a legitimate passion for gaming (I was top 0.1% in the whole world in League of Legends at the age of 14, and when you are top 0.1% from over 100 milion people who've played the game, I'd say you really do need the passion for that). Right now, I still love gaming, yet, I can't do it, beca… | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 09:12 PM |
| 2 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...You try and you fail. Same as everyone else. There is no secret. You have to keep trying until you succeed. remember that the master has failed more times than the novice has even tried. Yeah, but I get this. I try and I fail, but I haven't given up and I'm trying again and again and again. Aren't I allowed to be dissatisfied with my current state of not finding solutions for my problems? I'm just expressing my frustration that this "trying" hasn't beared much fruit, but that doesn't mean I ever… | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 08:37 PM |
| -3 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...Since you were condescending, I don't see why I shouldn't be when your advice was basically thin air. Well that's not terribly surprising, you have shitty taste in music. Sounds like '70s Italodisco. Maybe you should hang around with some 60 year old Italian ladies. aaaaand there's another one. I sure like people who think their music taste is better than others. Not elitist at all :^) You must learn how to become that person who has a satisfying life. Oh really? Hmm, thanks for the advice, man.… | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I think I cockblocked myself by making women feel insecure or viewing me as a playerI'm starting to think your 20k followers aren't the reason why you are in your situation, it's just an excuse and you don't want to admit it that you may not be as higly perceived as you think you are, or maybe you are, but for the wrong reasons. Good luck, you'll need it. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | I think I cockblocked myself by making women feel insecure or viewing me as a playerfollowed/unfollowed people for a long time. that alone makes me not want to read your post alone anymore. People who do that seem like snakes to me. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 01:51 PM |
| 9 | Questions to ask a girl to really get to know her better, and at the same time get her excited to talk about herself?Also, just like good music. Start with classics. Now you lost me there. That's some "le wrong generation/ my music taste is better than yours" type material right there. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Everyone, I'm scared SHITLESS when it comes to kissing.Alright, will do, man! thanks for the response :D | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How much do Braces impact looks?Oh, that's for sure. Don't get me wrong, I'm really excited. I've wanted braces for a good while now and now that I've gotten them, I'll take extra care with my teeth. 1.5 years for a good looking smile is nothing. Sucks that during that time it might affect some things, but I'll try not to think about the negative and work with what I have! | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for it?what can she exactly help me out with though? I have never seen her do gym activities, only standing beside the counter. I, at least at the moment, have no creative ideas without making it seem fake. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for it?I mean, sure, I guess there really isn't much akwardness to be had even in the worst case scenario, but yeah. This girl really seems like she likes me, and I can tell the difference between friendly friendly vs attracted friendly, at least I hope so. Only thing that's left is for me to man up and try to see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for it?That simple huh | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "You're not cool?"how exactly do you keep it "simple" without it becoming boring/ becoming an interview (asking too much questions) ? | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 07:17 PM |
| 1 | My first ever dinner date, any advice?Always order a fish dish, just in case she's a militant vegetarian ?? Is this because you have to order for the girl? That honestly seems really stupid and I would never like that being done to me, although I know i've seen it in movies. Sure, it's "confident" and you leading, but I wouldn't want to eat for the next hour something that I don't want to eat, or make someone else eat something they don't want to. Or did you meant it in a way that she will judge you or something if you pick a food w… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How Pull Girls as the Party Host?True. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What % of girls are you interested in?I'm the one that offers value first. It's not like a taker mindset. It's coming from a giver mindset. That's not a "Giver's" mindset if you stated earlier that the only reason you go for the 5's and 6's are because of the advantages that they will give you afterwards. It sounds a lot more like an "exchange" mindset, but even then that's not it. If by "giving" you mean your "fake attention" and friendzoning them/ making them fall for you, then that's not giving. You are just leading them into fal… | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 02:43 PM |
| 1 | F@#k!! She's not interested!! Started off well but it ended bad. Why?I'd like to disagree knowing one of my past experiences, but from a logical standpoint you are correct and my case was most likely an exception or her still being 15 and not knowing shit. (Don't worry, I was around her age) | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What % of girls are you interested in?I game 5,6 (average not ugly) sometimes because guess what, they probably have friends that are 7s in above they can introduce me to. Or they might be a 5,6, but they can help me in other ways, if they have a certain skill set. Because most of the time its the average and ugly girls that actually have life skills and just knowledge/skills in general about a certain subject I'm interested in, and they can be useful to me in that way, other then providing me with a wet warm hole to fuck. I've alwa… | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 08:52 PM |
| 14 | What is the source of loneliness? How did you get over the feeling?Even though I had an addiction for 11 years (high-end gaming) and it fucked me up in some other areas, it did teach me one thing - solitude. Being comfortable with yourself on your own. You mentioned that you have great friends, and a great job, but I wanna ask you - are you really excited about something other than relationships/girls in your life? I feel like having a passion for something is, if not the key, then a great part in being comfortable with yourself and realizing that you can be bo… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Just did my first "full" cold approachRealisticaly, how often does cold approaching a girl lead to her introducing you to her friend via facebook? Maybe the skeptic in me wants to deny it, but it seems reaaly unlikely. Not to mention I have better things to do than sit on facebook and social media portals all day in hopes of getting something like that happen. I want to be the one making things happen, you know. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Just did my first "full" cold approachmarrying comment Well I did ask her number again after the part about her boyfriend (aka the "maybe you need something new"), so I don't really see how asking for Facebook would changed for me in getting her to come on a date with me. Plus, I don't use social media except WhatsApp or having 3 pictures on my instagram. You presse the issue is that bad? | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How can an 18 year old realistically go on dates and get one night stands?I mean, you say you don't want freaky, but you mentioned one night stands... Dude, One Night Stands is where Freaky lives. I think you misinterpret it wrong. I do want the kinky/freaky. In fact, I want it to an extent that it's probably not good for my well being. What I meant was that it's probably not realistic in most scenarios and it's not a situation on which I can rely on. Let's say I like a girl, I invite her out and I realise that I do not want to date her, but just have some fun with he… | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How can an 18 year old realistically go on dates and get one night stands?I'm working on all of that, don't worry. It was more of a question how I can do it NOW, and I agree with the points that you mentioned afterwards. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How can an 18 year old realistically go on dates and get one night stands?Problem is, I live in a moderately small appartment (for 4 people), and my parents need to pass through my room to get to theirs (what were they thinking, right?). Not only that, since I have a brother, we shared a "2 story/floor bed", and while soon it won't be here anymore since we are grown up, it's gonna be really weird to bring someone over to fuck on the top bed since the bottom bed will probably leave a bump on my head. Not to mention that while I have a good relationship with my parents,… | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 07:36 AM |
| 2 | How to improve approaches?On one hand, I get what you mean, because if every girl is "the one", then none of them are "the one". That said, if all of them are perfect/ "the one" , then I'd really just need to chose one out of all of them, cause if they are "the one", they are literally identical, each and every one of them, otherwise they wouldn't be "the one", so in essence, there's no point in choosing more than one to "marry" since you'd get the same scenario with the other "the ones". | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Everyone, I'm scared SHITLESS when it comes to kissing.Alright, I see. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 11:39 AM |
| 19 | What is the female perception of 'Adventures'?You shut your whore mouth. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Signs She Wants To Bang YouMorals are flexible I mean, maybe. I am only 18 years old and I obviously don't have enough experience to judge that, but from what I gather this type of mindset seems detrimental in the long term, and while it might bear fruit in the short term - Is it really worth it to chase girls in a way that you aren't yourself? I imagine getting girls by morals that you aren't comfortable in the first place would be very hard, and even if you succeed, you will be questioning yourself with what you've beco… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to improve approaches?Oh, absolutely about the confidence part. Like, I am pretty happy with myself, but when it comes to approaching people and just generally even wanting to be a people's person, I don't really have much confidence there. If every girl were for you don't you think you would have a hard time saying i do? Honestly have no clue what you said here. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Signs She Wants To Bang YouWell, maybe, but that to me seems kind of like a dick move. I'm pretty noobish at the game, but my moral standards don't allow me to just do that to the person who gets cheated on, since I don't really think me getting laid wit the girl will be worth the afterthought, unless it becomes something more long-term, but from what I've heard, if she cheated on her boyfriend, who's to say she won't cheat on you? Then again, that might just already mean that you don't believe in yourself strong enough t… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How to improve approaches?Hmm, I see. At the same time, I have to ask - how exactly can you "provide" something completely new as well as still being yourself? If, let's say, the girl is tired of men asking her the same thing rudely, does me just being confident and kind will bring her some kind of a different reaction? Cause I pressume that there have been some nicer guys talking to her as well, so I doubt even that would be new to them. I probably just need more experience and eventually I will find some interesting wa… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Signs She Wants To Bang YouWhat do you mean by this? If she touches you and she has a boyfriend, does that mean that it doesn't matter to you anymore that she has a boyfriend and that it is game on or did I misinterpret your sentence? | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How to improve approaches?I'll check it out, but I think you missed the point completely. Now, I can't really know for a fact that they aren't sick of being hit on the way everyday, but that's not the point I was trying to make. You see, the weather here is usually cold (northern europe) for most of the year, the people are a lot more pesimistic due to our country's and people's history. Think of it as a bit of a stereotype, if you get what I'm saying. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Everyone, I'm scared SHITLESS when it comes to kissing.Hmm, I think that's solid advice, honestly. I get what you mean, I think. iY's the same principle as if I'm asking someone out, I'm not asking them "Do you wanna hang out?", I usually just say something like "Let's go hang out", right? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Everyone, I'm scared SHITLESS when it comes to kissing.What do you mean? I didn't say her "she needs to practice" or something, I knew I was the shitty one, or at least I felt that way. I asked her if I could try practicing with her, but instead, she just basically flat out said no. I mean, she was younger than me and frankly, quite shallow, but still, I think that the situation could have been handled a lot better. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t Resisttrue, I agree. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistNo offense, but The irony here is that when you go out and your main agenda is to pull a girl you are actually much less likely to pull than if you go out to strengthen your frame. Wouldn't this also be "outcome focused"? I mean, the part about strengthening your frame? If you go out thinking about how you are going to strengthen your frame, then that to me also seems a little autcome focused, cause not every time you will be able to succesfully strengthen your frame, even if you fail. not every… | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Conversation starters for DM's?Alright, I'll do it. I got this. | /r/seduction | 09/05/17 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Conversation starters for DM's?I don't actually follow her on Instagram. I'm basically non-existant in social media and while I do have a profile, it's like I just don't bother posting. I don't like social media, and I'm gotten 18 years old, for whatever it's worth. Feel like it might be a bit awkward to start following her instagram when I've engaged her and I don't really know if it's going to go further than where I'm at at the moment. | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Date ideas If the girl I'm going with is below 18?not sure if serious or not... lol | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Date ideas If the girl I'm going with is below 18?for? I'm 18 and she is 17, it's legal -.- | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Date ideas If the girl I'm going with is below 18?If you're good at any sports, go for that. How does this exactly work, then? I ask someone on a date to...play basketball? what? And no, I'm no pushover in sports, but I don't play any either. Only thing that could work though is that she loves volleyball, and I like it very much so. Don't know where we could play some, and I'm probably much worse than her since she trains there (although I have some experience in it too, but nothing serious). As to being funny, you can go to a comedy club or a … | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Date ideas If the girl I'm going with is below 18?I don't drink coffee, but bowling sounds fun :P Will try that. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Date ideas If the girl I'm going with is below 18?I don't know. That's why I'm going on a date - to get to know her. As for me - I like video games, being alone, procrastinating my time on reddit, but most importantly - I'm making an adult video game (designing + programming). Bunch of interesting things, huh? I will say, however, that I'm funny as hell and that's my best quality and I have no doubt in my mind that that's the truth, since I've been told that for basically all my life. I can hold a conversation well, but again, I feel like my ho… | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I just texted my crush "Wassabi" after 6 months after she basically rejected me the first time.Well, too bad. I'd rather be "desperate" then and try one more time for my own mental health then. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I just texted my crush "Wassabi" after 6 months after she basically rejected me the first time.Maybe you are right, I don't know. Tell me how to not seem desperate then if you are looking for a 2nd chance. I seriously want to know how it is possible lol. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 05:01 PM |
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