I saw this thread on twitter posted originally by @_MsShanJ

I wanted to type it out and share it here because I think its a really interesting summary from a RP perspective. She received soo much hate on twitter for this post, but I wanted to hear your thoughts?

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Why do Men love more deeply than women?

Men understand that love takes time. Men do not base their love off of the way a woman makes them feel. Men do not allow romance to dictate their decision making in a relationship.

Men understand what love truly is. Romance isn’t love. Date nights, vacations, trips aren’t expressions of love. They are perks of companionship.

Women take the perks and think they are in love because they are basing their love off of puesdo actions.

To build a foundation of love you have to first get past the companionship stage. Love should never be based on the perks of the relationship. Once the perks stop the “love” stops.

Women like myself are expressive and emotional. Anything that sways our emotions wins our heart. Even if what’s swaying it is false or nonexistent. We make it exist mentally.

We live in the delusion of what we think love is and feels like. We want to create love

Men do not want to create love. They let love be.

Love is love. Love isn’t a project. Love isn’t a science. Love isn’t a new revelation. Love is an unseen force that binds a woman to a man based on character. Women want to fall in love. Men want to be with love.

“He was with her for 10 years and just now married her”

Because he just now started to truly love her and all she carries with her. Sometimes men and women can be with someone for years, decades, and still be unsure of the person they lay next to. Everyday is a test.

Let me clear this tweet up. It is solely the choice of the woman to stick around for 10 years.

As women we have plenty options of men at our feet.

Remember that.

Men are patient creatures. If a man feels that a woman he loves is in a relationship with another man...He will wait. He will find ways to stick around and stay close. He won’t feel threatened by the new man because his love runs deeper.

If he’s right, she’ll be back.

If men truly understood their power and women respected their own power of what love can be divorce rates would be down.

Both genders are lacking understanding of what a foundation is. We in the western culture base it off what we feel. But feelings change everyday.

the simplest way I could explain it. Men have pure love for women. The same pure love women have for her offspring.

We love differently.

Men then women then children.

Men protect the women. Women protect the children.

So all in all. Yes women are more prone to walk away from “love” Women are more prone to “have love” for a man

Women are more likely to look out for her own emotions and social status.

Women are more likely to think her romancing and “sacrifice” of time with a man is love.

It’s not.

“I wasted 10 years on you”

Women believe her time is more valuable than love.

But if she truly loved the man she wouldn’t be equating it to time. She wouldn’t be measuring her love.

She’s really saying “I wanted other men and you wasted my youth”

Let me add a disclaimer:

I’m not saying men are better than women.Conditional lovers (women) have standards, expectations, needs and wants. As a man fulfills, we fall more in love.