Hey,

I don't get the behavior from a plate of me. (almost 7 months plate.). I've got this one plate who kinda flaked on me for another guy she's more attracted to and I acted a little butthurt that day. Was her first flake ever on me. I gave her a soft next after her flake, and even let her make it up to me. She cleaned my full house naked to make it up to me.

Anyway, after this disrespect she isn't asking for hugs anymore from me like she used to, leaves without a hug and is less affectionate overal. Still lets me do everything to her in bed though and have sex whenever I want when she's over. I don't like it and am thinking of replacing her. The weird thing is that I never text her first and she keeps initiating contact twice a day so she can see me twice a week.

I believe her flake/disrespect to me wired something in her brain and will never ever be attracted to me again like she was, meaning it is better for me to ditch this plate than wait it out if she gets more affectionate again. Is this the correct answer or am I reading this situation wrong?

I know me asking them to be affectionate towards me might be BP, but that's how I want it. I don't plate woman who aren't really affectionate towards me.