Should I intentionally have a family outside of marriage to save money and reduce beta risk?

hedden93 · 2019-10-14T06:44:12+00:00

Lol don't just stop using condoms with hot chicks. Make sure you have some sort of relationship with her and she's mentally fit to be a mother.

Bruchibre · 2019-10-14T06:25:49+00:00

"this is the right play" lol, you say you want to have a family but what kind of family is that?

frognads · 2019-10-14T08:20:58+00:00

Common law marriage exists too. Also how would not marrying her make any of the process easier on your wallet? Unless you walk out on the kids and don't pay child support you'll be paying for it either way. May as well find a girl you think is a good match.

ZabuzAli · 2019-10-14T08:31:56+00:00

This sub likes to shit on marriage because it’s a shitty deal for men - and they are mostly right. The way I see it is you get married only for children. A married family who lives together is the optimal habitat for raising a child - children need security and stability during their formative/maturing years. Read studies comparing children of married, divorced, unmarried, and single parents, and come to the conclusion on your own. Marriage is essentially a sacrifice for the benefit of your (potential) child.

As others said, don’t dump a child in some random slut.

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2019-10-14T10:56:17+00:00

Really?

Absentee fathers are a major reason why society is going down the shitter these days. All you’re doing with this “plan” of yours is contributing to that problem. Even ignoring the societal issues, it’s just fucking shitty of you to get a chick pregnant and then bail. Those kids are going to grow up fucked up because their actual father is too much of a faggot to man up and be there for them, so their mother will be parading in an endless string of shitty men who really don’t give a fuck either.

I don’t know what country you’re in, but America needs real men to be real fathers now more than just about ever. It’s why so many “men” you see nowadays end their sentences like they’re asking a question, why they whine and bitch about everything, why they can’t even change a flat tire. They’ve been feminized because they didn’t have good fathers.

If you want a family, then you should grow up, marry a good woman and be a good father. Yes, marriage can be a shitty deal for men. That’s why you find a woman who has more traditional values and not some tatted up purple haired slut. If you want a family and want to reduce “beta risk”, that’s how you do it.

ZeppKfw · 2019-10-14T05:23:40+00:00

You don't need to be married to have kids.

Title	Should I intentionally have a family outside of marriage to save money and reduce beta risk?
Author	TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	October 14, 2019 4:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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