Been seeing this plate for about a month and a half. She’s pretty much exactly my type of girl and has been great so far. A lot of green flags but I know better than to catch feelings this early. She could be ltr material but obviously too soon to say for sure. I have another great plate that checks off all the same green flags and between the two of them and random hook ups every now and the, my career, gym and hobbies, I should be the happiest man in the world. I’m happy but I’ve recently been noticing myself thinking about plate 1 a lot. I know all plates break but I would like to keep this one but haven’t felt this way about a girl in a very long time. I’ve been on vacation for the past 5 days and get back into town tonight. Should I shift focus and hang with the other plate more and wait for plate 1 to reach out? Should I give plate one less attention (almost a soft next) to see how she reacts?