Girl I’ve already slept with denied me sex last night, yet slept over. She’s in my bed now asleep. What to do?

bluefingerblue · 2019-10-19T13:10:24+00:00

I would get up, start getting ready, maybe jump in the shower, and when you get out she should be up. I would then happily explain that you gotta get going with your day and walk her out.

Quick kiss on her way out so she doesn’t think you’re pissed. Then soft next her indefinitely. If she hits you up again, great. If not, whatever. But I wouldn’t reward that kind of behavior by begging for sex in the morning or asking her to come over again.

Instead, and this is what you want to convey, you’re just going to hit up your other girls for sex from now on. You can’t be trifled with this no sex bullshit. She needs to understand she’s on thin ice from your decreased attention moving forward.

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-19T12:22:41+00:00

Try again in the morning.

However, denying sex, and sleeping over are part of the betaization process, which is inevitable.

She denied sex as a means of control, to see how you would react. If you kicked her out, it would imply that you only want her for sex, though you didn't. The fact that she tried it means she felt confident enough that you wouldn't say no.

Sleeping over is her spending time with you outside of having sex. It's also a subtle signal of possessiveness in that no other girl could be in your bed, while she's there. Girls slowly encroach themselves into your life in this manner.

Depending on how long you've been seeing her, things may be heading towards comfort, and perhaps increased commitment.

Sexy_Serratus · 2019-10-19T19:20:47+00:00

Stack as many things as you can on top of her without waking her up

Whitefarmer · 2019-10-19T14:35:27+00:00

Start poking her now like a creep works every time

LaMacondoPloua · 2019-10-19T11:13:00+00:00

Tell her that she needs to leave

LAdude71 · 2019-10-19T12:27:37+00:00

Your call dude. But remember - you teach people how to treat you. That includes plates (women).

iCeeYouP · 2019-10-19T16:49:42+00:00

Fuck her. Morning sex kicks ass

SeasonedRP · 2019-10-19T12:01:17+00:00

Be polite when she wakes up and cheerfully escort her out. Tell her you have things to do. Don't sit around and provide her comfort. Get her out of there then then ignore her. Don't talk to her about it and don't make a move this morning. She'll think you're a desperate sap if you do that, and you can expect more withholding in the future. She can make a move if she's interested. Otherwise, show her the door and devote your time to other girls. It's not a good sign if she's denying sex and you are still in the early stages.

q31 · 2019-10-19T11:13:58+00:00

She could be playing games, she could be shit testing, she may have already gotten fucked yesterday and didn't need more dick but likes your bed, she could have three furry monsters growing in her pussy and she wants to kill them before she fucks you again.

You need to COMMUNICATE with her and figure out which reason it was, then you can act accordingly.

whiffofass · 2019-10-19T12:09:17+00:00

I've been denied in the evening but then I've gone for it in the middle of the night and she was into it

NoVirtueSignal · 2019-10-19T16:57:33+00:00

She’s on the Jam.

Brodin69 · 2019-10-19T19:52:47+00:00

Superman that ho

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-26T05:04:48+00:00

Jerk off and bust your load on her hair.

LAdude71 · 2019-10-19T12:10:57+00:00

Open the door. Wake her up and show her.

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-10-19T15:18:56+00:00

Wake her up and tell her to get the fuck out. You've got another girl you'd like to fuck and she's going to be over soon.

By the way, you put all her shit in a box to the left.

Title	Girl I’ve already slept with denied me sex last night, yet slept over. She’s in my bed now asleep. What to do?
Author	KingSlime_
Upvotes	2
Comments	37
Date	October 19, 2019 11:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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