Why are most of you playing and wasting time dating? Arrange a marriage and call it at that. No need to be cheated on by women who just play.

If she would hold your hand before marriage, she would hold another man's hand before marriage. that's disgusting and if you feel indifferent about that you need to stop watching porn immediately.

I am 20 and got married, my wife wears the niqab just like this sometimes afghanistan style burqa which covers eyes.

also, professional tip, leave the west and have your marriages be under a Shari'ah court in which men actually have rights. Women do not get half of your things, they do not get custody of children, etc. God never made it for man to be humiliated by a woman.

The point is that disbelief in God will constantly result in humiliation. A lot of people have no fear of God, they get caught up in their desires and let the idea of being alpha cloud their ability to sit, think, and humble yourself before THE One who created you.

so stomp on the blunt, smash your bottle of booze, dont do the things that your enemy wish for you to do. the only thing that could humiliate you before them is your sins.

I recommend reading or listening to the Qur'an, the text is best but you can start here https://quran.com/

Get good with God, theres nothing cool or alpha about disbelief.