TLDR: If you have a very good body and attitude, you can pick up many great plates by engaging in group sex.

A topic brought up every now and then in this community is "cuckolding", which technically means a man's designated significant other dupe him into raising a baby which is not his. This ideally allows a woman to maximize both sides of her sexual nature (Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks).

The following discussion is not assuming the previous, technically correct, definition. Because there is such a large "swinger" community and kinky fuckers in general, especially after the internet becoming mainstream to connect all these people, we will focus on this aspect. The husbands, boyfriends, or "doms" who want to watch their girl getting fucked by other guys.

After starting into this scene around the young age of 21, I have had several opportunities and methods of making this work into my late 20s. Sometimes you find them. Sometimes, they find you...

Assuming you actually want to bang hot (8+) girls, you'll need some combination of the following, depending on what the couple/group is looking for:

Hot body (Chad Thundercock)

  • Tall (6' and up)
  • Right race
  • Big muscles
  • Big penis (this + ability to fuck really keeps women addicted, imo)
  • Ability to fuck/stamina
  • Decent face
  • No (visible) STDs

Mature (alpha) mindset

  • No neediness
  • Smart generally helps

Ability to perform

  • Duh, you need to be able to get it up with people(s) watching and possibly filming you

Appropriate sexuality

  • Some couples love bi guys, so if you are you have more options available

Some factors may compensate for lack of others.

Where to meet these couples (better in bigger cities):

* Nudist resorts (Jamaica Jamaica...) * Swingers clubs, if you can get in * Craigslist MW4M/M4MW section (<--- much success here personally for online! ) * Clubs * Hippie/festival events * Anything labelled "alternative"

Always remember you are being interviewed at all times. Even after you hit it. If you are an open-minded, accepting individual you will do just fine. There are many weirdos out there and they want to know you can get outside, or have, pussy and will not be hounding them for it like a starving dog. Many couples will want to take you out on the town or to some other group event before getting to business. Like dating.

Personal success stories:

I have banged out several couples. Been invited to orgy parties in really nice homes out by the water, met couples at a nudist resort (several in one day once ;) ), many off of Craigslist, and even at a huge hippy party.

I'm slightly over 6' tall, white dude, 210 lbs wide frame solid muscle (think Zyzz) with 8-9% true bodyfat (ripped abs). Also have a rather large penis. I used to take Cialis to help get over the mental anxiety when I was still in college, but now I don't need it to perform. Although PDE5-inhibitors always help.

The longest relationship I have had is a couple with a rich, smart alpha older man in his 60s with a smoking-hot Asian wife who is ~25 years younger than him. She has never had kids and works out all day. A true 9 in any man's book. We have been "dating" since I was in college, so over 6 years. It is great going out on the town and having her all over me and him smiling the whole time, getting odd and curious stares (especially from the other women). Of course he pays for everything, and I have gotten some really nice... treats and experiences in the years of dating her. At one point I even lived with them for several months on one of his properties adjacent to his mansion. We would fuck 2-3 times a day. She is the most insatiable woman I have ever met. We still hang out to this day.

Tag teamed a 9/10 gothic girl who was in a relationship with a really good-looking (hot) bisexual guy. That experience solidified that I'm just not attracted to men sexually like I am women. There was never any pressure from the guy for me to do anything with him and think it's important for any guy to bring this up beforehand with the guy if he mentions he is bi. There is nothing quite like tag teaming a smoking-hot slut with another hot guy with a big cock. It was like living in a raunchy porn movie. They really wanted a bisexual guy longterm to date so we only met once.

Another "couple" I never actually met the husband. But he would send his 7/10 wife over to get fucked raw and creampied on film. Apparently he would then eat her out and fuck her when she got home. Met up with her a few times before she moved on. Met her on a Craigslist post they put up.

I have had several couples contact me on Craigslist postings I have put up. I have fucked (free) a hot 20-year-old escort who charged $350/hour from my posting once, too. She paid for the date and meals. Very lucky.

I even had a really hot young (late 20s probably) bisexual couple come up to me at a hippy festival that was a very exciting experience. Sadly it seemed more about getting the guy laid than anything. That girl was an easy 9/10 blonde. Just incredible couple. He was adamant about sucking me off though to start, something I have never felt comfortable with at this point.

I cannot add any more stories, they'll get too long.

Because I have been asked before and know it is coming (all based on my experience):

  1. Yes, I have received everything from trips, various goods ranging from a couple hundred to many thousands in value (clothes, intoxicants, rent, etc), access to some wild parties, elaborate cultured nights on the town, relatively small amounts of straight cash, offers to divorce husband ($$$) and be with me, and probably a few more things I take for granted.

  2. No, I haven't found a way to make a living as a gigolo. It would probably be much, much easier if I engaged in bisexual activity. If I were gay I know for sure I could pull it off. Many men have offered quite a bit just to suck my dick. Girls just aren't going to pay for dick directly unless they are low SMV. Hot ones will "pay" you in ways which soothe the hamster, however. To be fair, I haven't tried to make a business out of it.

  3. Yes, I am available ;)

  4. I have rawdogged some of the women when I felt it was safe enough. Not sure I would do raw anal if any women ever let me do anal with them. Much higher risk versus vaginal.

Hope you guys find motivation from the advice. Even if you aren't interested in this, hopefully you now understand a "scene" which has existed probably for thousands of years but only recently has gotten exposed and grown so connected via technology. It really is a fun spice to life if you are blessed and have worked your ass for to achieve this ability in life.